Chto luchshe: Jenitsa po lyubvi ili ...?

[Yozuvchi]

Eto mojno skazat prodoljenie temi "Kak postupili bi esli b polyubili inostransa/inostranku.

VOPROS: Chto po vashemu lyuchshe chtobi bit chastlivim, jenitba po lyubvi ili jenitba po vole roditelei? v Uzbekistane govoryat chto posledniy sluchai prineset namnogo bolshe shastya i stabilnuyu semeinuyu jizn.
Soglasni li vi s etim? da, pochemu? net, obosnuite.

[Free]

Yozuvchi, ty chital knigi Dale Carnegie,vot on govorit chto lutchshe jenitsa izza deneg chem po lyubvi..
i dayot nekotoriye primery.Nu konechno eto ne oznachayet chto ya toje tak dumayu ;ya prosto dal variant..

[Yozuvchi]

Yozuvchi, ty chital knigi Dale Carnegie,vot on govorit chto lutchshe jenitsa izza deneg chem po lyubvi..
i dayot nekotoriye primery.Nu konechno eto ne oznachayet chto ya toje tak dumayu ;ya prosto dal variant..


Jenitsa iz-za deneg? mojet bit (ya ne yveren) prineset stabilnuyu semeynuyu jizn, no budu li ya shastlivim v brake...... :?

K svedeniyu, u menya odnajdi bil takoi vibor, ya otkazalsa.... pravilno sdelal, ne pravilno sdelal, sudit ne nam...

[Vishnya]

Moy odin znakomiy vlyubilsa v devushku iz ochen bogatoy semyi, problem bilo ochen mnogo, tak kak ona bila razvedena i imela odnu dochku, vobshem, v konce oni pozhenilis' i seychas zhivut ochen schastlivo i vobsh ne obrashayut vnimaniya na razgovori vokrug, mol, vot, on zhenilsa na ney iz za deneg.
A naschot voli roditeley mogu skazat odno: roditeli hotyat dlya svoyego rebenka tolko horosheye i mne kazhetsa, chto oni s godami stanovyatsa mudrey i znayut, kto bolshe podhodit dlya sina ili docheri. I deti v svoyu ochered dolzhni postaratsa uvidet' horoshuyu storonu cheloveka, kotorogo izbrali ih roditeli.

[Free]

Vishnya, da eto interesting...

[Yozuvchi]

Moy odin znakomiy vlyubilsa v devushku iz ochen bogatoy semyi, problem bilo ochen mnogo, tak kak ona bila razvedena i imela odnu dochku, vobshem, v konce oni pozhenilis' i seychas zhivut ochen schastlivo i vobsh ne obrashayut vnimaniya na razgovori vokrug, mol, vot, on zhenilsa na ney iz za deneg.
A naschot voli roditeley mogu skazat odno: roditeli hotyat dlya svoyego rebenka tolko horosheye i mne kazhetsa, chto oni s godami stanovyatsa mudrey i znayut, kto bolshe podhodit dlya sina ili docheri. I deti v svoyu ochered dolzhni postaratsa uvidet' horoshuyu storonu cheloveka, kotorogo izbrali ih roditeli.


Vishnya:

I see 2 opposite Statements here, which one do you support.
To be clear enough: do you support your statement about your friend who married the woman with a child or the statement about parents' role in the marriage?

[CrazyDT]

Of course, two things aren't exclusive. You can have one , AND another. But my comment isn't about that.

I think you should follow your heart in any case.

Said that, try to be a little strategic. If your parents categorically disapprove someone that cannot fit into your family circle, e.g. culturally, etc., AND you currently don't have anyone, I mean by current girlfriend/boyfriend, then try to restrict your self to your parents' ideal but if not then you're free to choose anyone.

It's very, I mean, very touchy subject. It even sucks to think about it. Especially when you’re abroad, and you met someone that you desperately fell in love with.

I have many friends that happened to them, falling in love with foreigners, but they're from traditional uzbek families.

Sometimes, I hate this fricking traditions. Damn it. They only came into play 50-60 years ago not more. These aren't kind of traditions that stone-written. I can almost guarantee you that if we follow them now we won't be able to impose them on our children. I don't think in 20 to 30 years from now uzbekistan will be the same. I witness the change in the last of 10 years, and I could tell you there were a lot of changes in our thinking. So, act smart for your self.

[Siege]

Yozuvchi, Можно я вопрос закончу? ... Jenits po lyubvi ili ... ЕБ-СЯ ЗА ДЕНЬГИ? :D

[Delta]

nah, just go ask your mama.. she is the best person who can find you a woman.
later she won't complain either.. since she found it. :oops:

who needs money.. just marry anyone and live your life.. poor or rich does not matter, you will die anyway ...
as Cartman says: Life is Bitch and you Die. (he makes sense) :P

haha, just kidding :)

the most important thing in relationship is, understanding each other and having common interest among.
If she/he can be ONE with you.... why not? let it be .. if she/he already has a money...it's a big Plus :D , however i doubt it's always the case, since young people don't earn it fast... takes some time, parent's money don't count :rolleyes:
However, taking into considiration your loved ones opinion is a good thing and may help you a lot.

if there was the perfect universal solution for the topic above, it would change the world big time..

All in all, it's your Life.

btw, I like that Unique ID thing: (look under Your Nick)

88*99/e^5*f*6 = (speed of light) 299,792,458 m/s WOW :!: rock on! Miracle!!


where, f = 299,792,458 * 88*99/ e^5*6 :P hehe

[Vishnya]

Yozuvchi, I do support both of them, but every story is unique. Advance with your feeling, but respect opinion of your parents too. that's it.

[Yozuvchi]

Would you advance with the feeling that the rich family's daughter brings you more happiness if you marry her? Let say for the moment, she is beautiful, but you do not actually love her. Would you marry her if you had a choice? Dont say: "because i dont love her, i would not marry her", that will not be a good answer. Anyway, if you dont love anybody, what do you lose marrying the person, you are not in love with? Think carefully and answer!

Love is just a temprory feelings which happens between opposite sex!
As the time passes the feeling "love" will be gone but friendly relations will stay!
So it doesn't matter if you will marry with love or without!
Usually feeling "love" happens because of attraction to eachother such as (beauty, fine body.etc) But nothing seems beatiful forever!

Eto mojno skazat prodoljenie temi "Kak postupili bi esli b polyubili inostransa/inostranku.

VOPROS: Chto po vashemu lyuchshe chtobi bit chastlivim, jenitba po lyubvi ili jenitba po vole roditelei? v Uzbekistane govoryat chto posledniy sluchai prineset namnogo bolshe shastya i stabilnuyu semeinuyu jizn.
Soglasni li vi s etim? da, pochemu? net, obosnuite.
yozuvchi nima balo shunaka narsalar hakida paper maper yozyapsizmi a? :D :D :D

[Yozuvchi]

yozuvchi nima balo shunaka narsalar hakida paper maper yozyapsizmi a?



Soglasni li vi s etim? da, pochemu? net, obosnuite.

:D :D :D


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