Sevgi nima?1vaqtda 1dan ko'pni sevishish mumkinmi?

[Nodir]

Sevgi ham jiddiy va ham chigal va deyarli hamma unga biror bir tarzda "tegib" korgan narsa. Shu bilan birga u juda jozibali mavzu, buni "Men seni sevardim"ga (Literature Board) oid bildiralayotgan yozishmadan ham bilsa bo'ladi.
Demak qani kim qanday tushunadi sevgini, nima u? va bir kishi 1 vaqtning o'zida 2 yoki undan ko'p qiz yoki yigitlarni sevishi mumkinmi? turli vaqtlardachi?
va sevgi nimadan boshlanadi?
fikrlarini yozib qoldiradigan yigitu-qizlarga oldindan rahmat.

[Nodir]

Sevgi nima?1vaqtda 1dan ko'pni sevishish mumkinmi?
emas,
Sevgi nima?1vaqtda 1 bittadan ko'p qiz yoki yigitlarni sevish mumkinmi?
deb o'qing

[KROKA]

Opyat nachalsya lyublyu ne lyublyu :)
expect 60 replies :)

[Mavin]

agree w/Kroka.
ha yuragi kuyganlar, olga..! :)

endi bo'tam Nodirbek 1tani sevasimi 2 tanimi, buyogi kon'glizga bogliq. ko'ngil keng bo'sa, 1ta 2ta tugul, qancha bo'sayam sigaveradi.

kaminadan so'rasez "shirokaya strona moya rodnaya" degan qo'shiq mani konglimga bagishlab yozilgan.

mayli, qisqasi sevgini hamma ozi tushinib, o'zicha talqin qiladigan narsa. uni boshqalardan so'rab tushunomisiz. nechtani sevishga kelganda, bu ham har bir kishini shahsiy dunyoqarashiga bogliq. manimcha poryadochniy bo'lish uchun i sizi sevgan qizga loyiq bo'lish uchun 1tani sevgan ma'qul.

shunga manam bittani sevib o'tmoqchiman bu dunyodan. tol'ko vot qaysi birini tanlashni bilmey turibman...:)

[Gaide]

Kroka - LOL. I wanted to comment, then I read your quite sarcastic prediction (which I do belive will come TRUE :)!)and then............ I still want to comment :)!!
Anyway, LOvE is all around, Love is in the AIR.
I think the question is very philosophical and the answer is based on what you belive is TRUE. If YOU belive in LOve, well, then it does exists for YOU. It is purely self-deception kind of thing and you also need to have good imagination. There is only one catch here, the more you belive, the more you get involve, the more it is getting REAL, and that can be harsh sometimes.
If you don't believe, well, the choice is always yours. In this case you are at least guaranted a peace of mind, which is very important after all. There is a catch here as well :), your life will be too boring, cause LoVe is that little tiny thing which can spice up YOUR LIFE.
So, being a good cook (I hope so :)), I do suggest to use spices in reasonable amount.
Don't be too sarcastic
And don't be too naive
Don't be too pathetic
And play a little bit
:)

[somebody]

Shirk in Love


[Major shirk can be divided into four categories:
- The first category of major shirk is “associating in supplication”, which involves directing one’s supplications to other than Allah as a means of gaining provisions or being cured from a sickness or obtaining help during a crisis or for any other purpose.
- The second category of major shirk is “association in the intention”, that is, performing deeds that may be good in themselves but which are done for the sake of this worldly life and not for the sake of Allah.
The third category of major shirk is “association in loving Allah”. That is to love someone or something else more than or as much as one loves Allah.
The fourth category of major shirk is “association in obedience” which is to obey people when they make unlawful things lawful, and to believe that it is permissible to follow those who make such legislations.
Here we discuss the third category.]

The third category of major shirk is “association in loving Allah”. That is to love someone or something else more than or as much as one loves Allah. Allah says: “There are men who take others besides Allah as equal with Him. They love them as much as they should love Allah. But the believers have more love for Allah.” (Qur’an 2:165)

There are people who recognize Allah as the Creator, the Owner and the Sustainer of the universe, and yet love others more than Him. Some people love money more than they love Allah and for this reason, they do not pay zakat or they gain their money from unlawful sources. They are the slaves of Dirhams and Dinars, or in today’s terminology, the slaves of Dollars. The Prophet, sallallahu `alaihi wa sallam, said: “He who became the slave of the Dinar or the Dirham will perish and be destroyed.” (This is part of a hadith related by Al-Bukhari). Some people love their desires more than they love Allah. Consequently, they would follow their desires even when they lead to disobeying Allah: “Do you see the one who is taking as his lord his own desires?” (Qur’an 25:43). Therefore, loving Allah and His Messenger more than anything is a precondition for tasting the sweetness of faith. It has been narrated in an authentic hadith that the Prophet sallallahu `alaihi wa sallam, said: “There are three qualities whosoever has them will taste the sweetness of Iman: loving Allah and His Messenger above all else, loving someone solely for the sake of Allah, and hating to return to disbelief after Allah has rescued him from it, as much as he would hate being thrown into Hellfire.” (Related by Al-Bukhari). Allah has put two criteria to test whether one’s love for Him is more than the love of anything else. The first is the following of the Sunnah of the Prophet, sallallahu `alaihi wa sallam. Allah says: “Say (Muhammad), if you do love Allah, follow me, Allah will love you (in return) and forgive your sins” (Qur’an 3:31). Thus, following the Sunnah in all aspects of our lives is absolutely essential. The second criterion to know if one’s love of Allah is more than anything else is through jihad for the sake of Allah: “Say: If it be that your fathers, your sons, your brothers, your wives or your kindred, the wealth that you have gained, the commerce in which you fear a decline or the houses in which you delight, are dearer to you than Allah or His Messenger, or the jihad for Allah’s sake; then wait until Allah brings about his decision; and Allah does not guide the rebellious,” (Qur’an 9:24).

[Gaide]

Ohho, Ne UMNICHAI a? :)
A tak Uti-Puti

[bittasi]

I want first to give some comments and will give then the best definition of love that I know.

Gaide,

from western philosophical point of view you are right when you say: "...the answer is based on what you belive is TRUE. If YOU belive in LOve, well, then it does exists for YOU".
But from our philosophical point of view it exists (i.e. it is the truth).

Somebody,

this time - with your message - you adressed the question NOT correctly. The question was: what is love and ... ; but you answered a question which may be put on you in future.

The best answer that I know is: sevgi Allohning bir ne'matidir.

Is it possible to love more than for Nodir? Yes it is. For girl(s) he loves? I do not think so ( but it depends on Nodir and the girl(s) of course).

[alsoran]

No matter how many people you love, the main thing you have to do to avoid problems - never let them find out about each other. If you do let them - well, hell will be out there for you and may God have mercy on your poor soul... :)))

Otherwise - just chill out and take your chances. :)