dump hiM!

[Webbie]

Navernoe u kajdoy devushki bili takie sluchayi kogda nujno pripisat otvod! Every girl has her own way of doin it...what is the best way? IS there a best way? well...personally i usually say that we should stay friends...share it with the rest of us...

Sincerely, WEBgirl

[trigger-happy]

Easy for me. I just say I'm married. :lol: As to the "staying friends" thing, be careful to only say it if you really want to be friends with the guy - he might call you on it and then you'll be stuck babysitting his cat, picking out a birthday gift for his mom or driving him to the airport or something.

[SmIlIk]

Easy for me. I just say I'm married. :lol: As to the "staying friends" thing, be careful to only say it if you really want to be friends with the guy - he might call you on it and then you'll be stuck babysitting his cat, picking out a birthday gift for his mom or driving him to the airport or something.

Very, very true.

Webgirl, whatever excuse you find, it is still a lie.

just tell them the truth. "Sorry I don't think I really love you"...done :)

[Fallen Angel]

Webgirl I think the best way to escape is to leave beautiful memories about yourself. Leave him like a princess, you should be an actress;) add some romantics, tears, last poem and words, and it's ready!But look as if it's so hard for you,(in some cases actress talent is unnecessary, breaking up is very sad indeed), tell that you can't be together anymore coz of some unbelievable life circumstances, but look undoubtfully natural, or just leave him feeling guilty that it happened. Believe me, he will never forget you, you will live in his heart like a symbol of true love, with thoughts that he couldn't reach you.In case you decide to come bcak you will be always welcome.;)

buona fortuna bella!

[SmIlIk]

Webgirl I think the best way to escape is to leave beautiful memories about yourself. Leave him like a princess, you should be an actress;) add some romantics, tears, last poem and words, and it's ready!But look as if it's so hard for you,(in some cases actress talent is unnecessary, breaking up is very sad indeed), tell that you can't be together anymore coz of some unbelievable life circumstances, but look undoubtfully natural, or just leave him feeling guilty that it happened. Believe me, he will never forget you, you will live in his heart like a symbol of true love, with thoughts that he couldn't reach you.In case you decide to come bcak you will be always welcome.;)

buona fortuna bella!

That is the most egoistic thought I had ever come across :)

[Mubina]

Navernoe u kajdoy devushki bili takie sluchayi kogda nujno pripisat otvod! Every girl has her own way of doin it...what is the best way? IS there a best way? well...personally i usually say that we should stay friends...share it with the rest of us...

Sincerely, WEBgirl

Think carefully before promising to be someone's girl-friend, it is the best way to prevent yourself of later discomfort of saying lie or excuses...
First think if you need this person and ready to be with him all the time.
Before doing a choice you need to think not only about yourself, 'cause sometimes you can be revenged for your choice by your ex-boy -friend.

As for me, I prefer to be Friend- later on maybe Girl Friend (if I can't love him so just friends, without any lie), I don't like option like Girl-Friend and later on "just" Friend, It seems to me I can't bare this.
My choice just "No Promises"

Salyam Alaykum,
Mubina

[Fallen Angel]

That is the most egoistic thought I had ever come across :)
Life is a struggle for sirvaval and rules are pretty cruel, someone dumbs you you piss off another one. Happy end is not a usual case in life, like in the movies. Nobody can take care of you better than yrself. Love hurts, but it's sweet, isn't it? ;)

[trigger-happy]

(if I can't love him so just friends, without any lie)
See, I think even if a woman says "just friends" to a guy a million times, he'll still want to have sex with her. Attraction is always on men's mind, it's just the way they are. So it may well be friendship from your side, but he will always hope for more and wait for an opportune moment to make his seductive move.

[Crazy Diamond]

Webgirl I think the best way to escape is to leave beautiful memories about yourself. Leave him like a princess, you should be an actress;) add some romantics, tears, last poem and words, and it's ready!But look as if it's so hard for you,(in some cases actress talent is unnecessary, breaking up is very sad indeed), tell that you can't be together anymore coz of some unbelievable life circumstances, but look undoubtfully natural, or just leave him feeling guilty that it happened. Believe me, he will never forget you, you will live in his heart like a symbol of true love, with thoughts that he couldn't reach you.In case you decide to come bcak you will be always welcome.;)

buona fortuna bella!

Уй, блин!

Я так делала, чесслово: разягрявала трагедии, которым Болливуд бы позавидовал. Но давно, по молодости и глупAсти. Тогда я еще не знала, где любовь, где сабзи, и играть чувствами других не казалось мне нечестным поступком. Я думала, что разыгрывая трагедию, я даю этому мужику афигеннейшую сладострастную историю расставания, о которой он будет помнить навсегда.

Сейчас я думаю, что это было просто женскими капризами и желанием внести карнавал в свою жизнь, и меньше всего о нем.

К тому же, такое трагическое расставание зачастую грозит продолжением: герой решает спасти принцепессу, во что бы то ни стало, преодолевая огонь, воду, и медные трубы. Домогается её так, что ей ничего не остается как послать его пить чай с чертями. :twisted: :twisted:

[Fallen Angel]

Уй, блин!

Я так делала, чесслово: разягрявала трагедии, которым Болливуд бы позавидовал. Но давно, по молодости и глупAсти. Тогда я еще не знала, где любовь, где сабзи, и играть чувствами других не казалось мне нечестным поступком. Я думала, что разыгрывая трагедию, я даю этому мужику афигеннейшую сладострастную историю расставания, о которой он будет помнить навсегда.

Сейчас я думаю, что это было просто женскими капризами и желанием внести карнавал в свою жизнь, и меньше всего о нем.

К тому же, такое трагическое расставание зачастую грозит продолжением: герой решает спасти принцепессу, во что бы то ни стало, преодолевая огонь, воду, и медные трубы. Домогается её так, что ей ничего не остается как послать его пить чай с чертями. :twisted: :twisted:

Vsya nasha jizn' igra. Kogo-to ti...kto-to tebya. A bez etogo i jit' to neinteresno, a tut stolko strati i vospominaniy, molodost' daet pravo na oshibki i experimenti, zato skol'ko skazok mojno rasskazivat vnukam o molodosti rokovoy babul'ki ;)

[Webbie]

Uh...nu i nu...ne znayu :) Samiy horoshiy vihod iz polojeniya eto kak trigger-happy posovetovala no k sojaleniyu ya ne zamujem...

Mubina, I always do choose a guy carefully, however there are circumstances that leave me with no other choice.

Fallen Angel, uuuhhh....i need a couple of acting classes before i'm gonna be able to cry and do all the other fancy stuff :)

Sincerely, WEBgirl

[Mubina]

[QUOTE=WEBgirl]
Mubina, I always do choose a guy carefully, however there are circumstances that leave me with no other choice.

/QUOTE]

Just "Good Luck"

[Dummie]

Just tell him that you are pregnant from him.

[Mubina]

Just tell him that you are pregnant from him.

А если "такого" ничего не было, и девушка просто хочет отшить своего парня который ей надоел....
А так мне интересно мнение парней на этот счет?
Парни как вас лучше оставить, дайте совет девушкам?

Salyam Alaykum,
Mubina

[Body LOVE]

Prosto skazat' molodoy chelovek budte lyubezni otstante otmenya,kajdiy raz kogda ya viju vas ya prosto teryayu appetit,i ne tol'ko eto ,u menya koshmari po nocham i ya nemogu usnut ! I...II.. k..a.jd..iy raz.... ya v..i ju va..sss ya t...ery...yu d...ar re.....chi!

[SARDOR]

А если "такого" ничего не было, и девушка просто хочет отшить своего парня который ей надоел....
А так мне интересно мнение парней на этот счет?
Парни как вас лучше оставить, дайте совет девушкам?

Salyam Alaykum,
Mubina
"NADOEVSHIY PAREN" - bratki, mne ochen jal, esli vas ostavili bez vsyakih, prichin deuvshki na podobe etoy vot dami.

Nu Mubinochka, ob etom nujno bilo podumat do togo kak ti ne uverenna stala ego devushkoy. Vot, ya smotryu ti v jizni ne reshitelanya, tebe konkretno nujno znat, granisi drujbi i lyubvi. I vsegda derjat rasstoyanie.

Daleee, predstaviv sebya devushkoy Mubinoy - ya bi otkrovenno skazal bi vse eto svoemu (uje bivshemu) parnyu, hot bolno, no eto pravda. hehe

chmok v pupok

[Mubina]

"NADOEVSHIY PAREN" - bratki, mne ochen jal, esli vas ostavili bez vsyakih, prichin deuvshki na podobe etoy vot dami.

Nu Mubinochka, ob etom nujno bilo podumat do togo kak ti ne uverenna stala ego devushkoy. Vot, ya smotryu ti v jizni ne reshitelanya, tebe konkretno nujno znat, granisi drujbi i lyubvi. I vsegda derjat rasstoyanie.

Daleee, predstaviv sebya devushkoy Mubinoy - ya bi otkrovenno skazal bi vse eto svoemu (uje bivshemu) parnyu, hot bolno, no eto pravda. hehe

chmok v pupok

С чего этого ты взял, что я хочу бросить своего парня, которого даже нету...
Я писала "in general", мне просто было интересно, как способ расстования предпочитают парни,
Лично мне ваши советы ни к чему, если в будущем у будет парень и так сложиться что мне нужно будет оставить его, я сама найду способ расстаться со своим парнем (надеюсь что этого никогда не будет). и в принципе не буду учитывать его предпочтениния,

Salyam Alaykum,
MBN

[Webbie]

Just tell him that you are pregnant from him.

mda, ne hilo. I esli ya tak skaju togda eshe bol'she problem na GOLOVU SVALITSYA :?

[Fallen Angel]

Лично мне ваши советы ни к чему, если в будущем у будет парень и так сложиться что мне нужно будет оставить его, я сама найду способ расстаться со своим парнем (надеюсь что этого никогда не будет). и в принципе не буду учитывать его предпочтениния,

Salyam Alaykum,
MBN

nu vot,a eshe kto to menya tut v egoizme obvinil. tak chto vse mi angeli;)

[trigger-happy]

tak chto vse mi angeli;)
Только один из нас падший. ;) :lol:

[Fallen Angel]

Только один из нас падший. ;) :lol:
zato chestniy:)

[Mubina]

Leave him like a princess, you should be an actress;) add some romantics, tears, last poem and words, and it's ready!But look as if it's so hard for you,(in some cases actress talent is unnecessary, breaking up is very sad indeed), tell that you can't be together anymore coz of some unbelievable life circumstances, but look undoubtfully natural, or just leave him feeling guilty that it happened.;)



Яркий пример честности однако!? ;)
Salyam Alaykum,
Mubina

[Fallen Angel]

Яркий пример честности однако!? ;)
Salyam Alaykum,
Mubina
Ti znaesh mejdu tem o chem ya govorila i banal'noy lojyu est' tonkaya gran' i esli u tebya net chisto jenskoy sposobnosti chuvstvovat' ee i ne perexodit', to est' 2 varianta: libo nujno eshe povzroslet', libo prosto ne dano.Togda muchat'sya ne stoit, skaji chto razlyubila i konec. Vse sugubo individual'no, obshego standarta ne podvedesh'.
buona giornata!

[Pax]

А если "такого" ничего не было, и девушка просто хочет отшить своего парня который ей надоел....
А так мне интересно мнение парней на этот счет?
Парни как вас лучше оставить, дайте совет девушкам?

Salyam Alaykum,
Mubina
Well...

basing on my personal bitter experience :), I would advise to the future hearter-breaker girls to break heart once and for all... or at least, make it quite explicit and unequivocal that there's no future together, even if it would mean the end of any friendly relations at all.

Otherwise, like trigger-happy says, two parties might have to visions of the relationship. For example, the girl might think "Well, I can't love him, but we can stay friends". While, the guy might think that these are simply womenly whims and undecidedness, hoping that she will make her choice in his favor. Or worse yet, she might be "smart" :twisted: enough to keep him as "an alternative".

I think if the girl has to reject, then, it's even good to be rude: perhaps this will help him to disenchant.

[Another]

Guys are usually persistent in their efforts in this delicate matter. He will remain hoping as long as you are being flirtatous with him because he is a male :). Say that you love someone else and that he has no chance of getting closer to you and that he is not your type. That will shock him, but it is life and guys are guys. Tell it to him directly, otherwise he might be very persistent and and might spend very much time thinking of you while he has so many other things to do. Be not an egoist! Do not flirt with him and try not to show up (proximity factor). Or another way to brush him off is manifesting that you are not his type. Doing stupid things that he might not like :) saying silly, meaningless words and so on. Do not behave as if you are in front of someone you like. Do everything you think he will not like when you happen to see each other.
One interesting fact: Usually when men stop showing signs of interest that they used to demonstrate earlier, women get furious, they want to be desired all the time and by as many as possible :) and do not want to lose admirers. They psychologically try to restore "positions" wishing to remain attractive for him (even if they do not like him) and to keep distance at the same time. Baaaa! Female crowd, remember! There is no и-овцы-целки-и-волки-сыты thing.

The best strategy of a woman is making a man believe that he made a decision, not you (in fact while you are giving the direction) . That will make him proud of himself because HE supposedly did it and he will know why he "brushed you off". It is the rightest method and the most effective one. Result:
1) you get rid of his constant presence and "mild" undesirable offers
2) he is not hurt and morover proud of "his" decision
© me

[bonu]

Navernoe u kajdoy devushki bili takie sluchayi kogda nujno pripisat otvod! Every girl has her own way of doin it...what is the best way? IS there a best way? well...personally i usually say that we should stay friends...share it with the rest of us...

Sincerely, WEBgirl
Tell him you are thinking of joining a convent and becoming a nun :D

[SmIlIk]

Tell him you are thinking of joining a convent and becoming a nun :D

LOoooooooooooOL :)

[Legend]

Tell him you are thinking of joining a convent and becoming a nun :DIn bitter experince of my own I can tell you ,that I already heard this kinda words from a girl,kinda she is gonna become a nun,and kinda she is gonna be alone all her life ,never gonna be in love again and blah blah blah..........And guess what loooool:) next month she's telling me that she is in love with somebody:)) Chicky girl:) daje smeshno stalo potom:))
I potom doveryay vam devushkam...;)
No ya vse eshe nadeyus est na etoy zemle i horoshiye devushki...
Cheers.
S.R.

[Webbie]

No ya vse eshe nadeyus est na etoy zemle i horoshiye devushki...
Cheers.
S.R.

Nadeysya, nadeysya......... :D (lol)

[Legend]

Nadeysya, nadeysya......... :D (lol)Web...a vot kak ti dumaesh,ti horoshaya?ya imeyyu vvidu destvitelno li ti horoshaya?,vi naverno devchonki znaete kakoy vkus u nas k devushkam,lyuboy parnishka chego bi on ne gril,hochet chtob ego jena bila umnaya,chtob bilo o chem pogovrit po dusham,da i obrazovannaya, dobraya,ponyatlivaya,oilam,erim ,bollarim deydigan,da i koneshno je simpotichnaya,nu mojno ne pryam krasavitsu,a simpotichnaya bosa boldi;,yani istarasi issiq qiz:) Vi ne dumayte chto nam sexy qizla toka kere,net,qoganlari vajneye,da i ...Kada mi s druzyami sideli i obsujdali etu temu,mi (rebyata) prishli k vivodu shto nam nado jenitsa na treh:) potomu chto takih ochen redko,da i esli est obichno "zabiti" nu naschet 3 ya neznayu,no koneshno bi hotelos odnu,edinstvebbuyu,i chtob hotyabi blizko podhodila k etim porametram,vot...
tak shto devushki hod za vami.
Da i kstati vspomnil odnu pogovrku neznayu k chemu,no reshil napisat..:"Erni er qiladigan ham,erni yer qiladigan ham hotin deyishadi ahir"
Cheers.
S.R.

P.S. Da i naschet tipa otvoda nam legche,prosto mojem skazat tort tomonin qibla;) ili je eshe shto nibud,variantov mnogo...

[Mubina]

vi naverno devchonki znaete kakoy vkus u nas k devushkam,lyuboy parnishka chego bi on ne gril,hochet chtob ego jena bila umnaya,chtob bilo o chem pogovrit po dusham,da i obrazovannaya, dobraya,ponyatlivaya,oilam,erim ,bollarim deydigan,da i koneshno je simpotichnaya,nu mojno ne pryam krasavitsu,a simpotichnaya bosa boldi;,yani istarasi issiq qiz:)
no koneshno bi hotelos odnu,edinstvebbuyu,i chtob hotyabi blizko podhodila k etim porametram,vot...
tak shto devushki hod za vami.
...

Это конкурс?!

[Maroon]

In bitter experince of my own I can tell you ,that I already heard this kinda words from a girl,kinda she is gonna become a nun,and kinda she is gonna be alone all her life ,never gonna be in love again and blah blah blah..........And guess what loooool:) next month she's telling me that she is in love with somebody:)) Chicky girl:) daje smeshno stalo potom:))
I potom doveryay vam devushkam...;)
No ya vse eshe nadeyus est na etoy zemle i horoshiye devushki...
Cheers.
S.R.
VASYAK! Ti che zabil pro menya?:) Ya je holosaya:)

Cheers!

[Maroon]

Navernoe u kajdoy devushki bili takie sluchayi kogda nujno pripisat otvod! Every girl has her own way of doin it...what is the best way? IS there a best way? well...personally i usually say that we should stay friends...share it with the rest of us...

Sincerely, WEBgirlI do not think there is a best way to break up.You probably should know what's the best way for you to do it.I personally would talk to him and be honest.
Of course, I do not think you'll have the greatest friendship on earth coz I've personally tried a few times to stay "friends" and frankly it's pretty awkward.

Breaking up process is the worst, so, good luck!:)

[Legend]

Это конкурс?!Net ne konkurs;)
Prosto...
Cheers.
S.R.

[Legend]

VASYAK! Ti che zabil pro menya?:) Ya je holosaya:)

Cheers!Vooy Durdik:) Jan koneshno ne zabil tya:) Ti vsegda u menya tam...v serdce;)
Celuyu janik;)
Sincers,
S.R.

[Legend]

Navernoe u kajdoy devushki bili takie sluchayi kogda nujno pripisat otvod! Every girl has her own way of doin it...what is the best way? IS there a best way? well...personally i usually say that we should stay friends...share it with the rest of us...

Sincerely, WEBgirlOk, now listen Webgirl...
Whatever you do,the best solution and answer is THE ONE YOU MADE YOURSELF;)
Sincers,
S.R.

[Webbie]

Ishkal, ya ochen horoshaya :) tol'ko po tvoim slovam ya smotru tebe Miss PErfect nujna...nu sorry takih v osortimente net.

D, ishkal, spasibo za soveti ;)

[SoniTa]

Navernoe u kajdoy devushki bili takie sluchayi kogda nujno pripisat otvod! Every girl has her own way of doin it...what is the best way? IS there a best way? well...personally i usually say that we should stay friends...share it with the rest of us...

Sincerely, WEBgirl

Сказать ему что хочешь замуж и кучу детей, если конечно отношения уже не зашли слишком далеко...
Вообще есть фильм "Как избавится от парня за 10 дней", советую...

[Webbie]

Сказать ему что хочешь замуж и кучу детей, если конечно отношения уже не зашли слишком далеко...
Вообще есть фильм "Как избавится от парня за 10 дней", советую...

Sonita, ya smotrela etot fil'm...tol'ko v konce oni vse ravno vmeste ostayutsya... :rolleyes:

Cheers, Weby

[Fallen Angel]

Web...a vot kak ti dumaesh,ti horoshaya?ya imeyyu vvidu destvitelno li ti horoshaya?,vi naverno devchonki znaete kakoy vkus u nas k devushkam,lyuboy parnishka chego bi on ne gril,hochet chtob ego jena bila umnaya,chtob bilo o chem pogovrit po dusham,da i obrazovannaya, dobraya,ponyatlivaya,oilam,erim ,bollarim deydigan,da i koneshno je simpotichnaya,nu mojno ne pryam krasavitsu,a simpotichnaya bosa boldi;,yani istarasi issiq qiz:) Vi ne dumayte chto nam sexy qizla toka kere,net,qoganlari vajneye,da i ...

Ishkal ti uje nashel takuyu?;) nado je kakaya ona okazivateysya.... ;)
schastlivo syezdit'!ti aspetto

[Jigit]

Webgirl I think the best way to escape is to leave beautiful memories about yourself. Leave him like a princess, you should be an actress;) add some romantics, tears, last poem and words, and it's ready!LET'S SEE WHAT WE'VE GOT HERE!!!

HOW COME YOU ASSOCIATE YOURSELF WITH PRINCESS, IT'S NONSENSE .....GET DOWN TO THE LAND WHERE ALL PEOPLE WALKING BY AROUND.

BY THE WAY BEHAVING AS AN ACTRESS IN THAT KIND OF SITUATION IS OUTRAGOUS. ALSO YOU DESCRIBED HOW CAN A BITCH TREAT MAN EVEN HE DESERVES IT.

WHAT KIND OF EXPERIENCE YOU'VE GOT ??? BABY ...

HOW OLD ARE YOU ????

[/QUOTE]
But look as if it's so hard for you,(in some cases actress talent is unnecessary, breaking up is very sad indeed), tell that you can't be together anymore coz of some unbelievable life circumstances, but look undoubtfully natural, or just leave him feeling guilty that it happened.YO BABY THAT'S ANOTHER CRAP, ........'MAKING GUILTY THE GUY WHO KNOWS THAT HE IS NOT...!!!!!!!!!! EVERYONE CAN GET WHAT 'some unbelievable life circumstances' MEANT, UNLESS YOU (FALLEN ANGEL) HAVE PERIOD DAYS (TECHKA, MINSTRUATION ETC.) OR SOMETHIN SIMILAR

WHY DO YOU THINK THAT THE MEN APT TO THINK SUBJECTIVELY.? DA MAN PRESUMES ALL FACTS TO BE MORE OBJECTIVE.

Believe me, he will never forget you, you will live in his heart like a symbol of true love, with thoughts that he couldn't reach you.In case you decide to come bcak you will be always welcome.;)

buona fortuna bella!BELIEVE ME (FALLEN ANGEL) HE WILL REMENICE YOU EVERY TIME WHEN HE LOOKS AT SLUTS, THAT'S WOULD DISGUSTS HIM WHORES LIKE YOU. OBVIOUSLY THERE IS NO WAY TO BE BACK



FALLEN ANGEL WHY DO YOU HAVE SUCH A LOW HUMAN PERSONALITY,

I HONESTLY WISH YOU GOOD LUCK IN YOUR LIFE,.....









P.S. TO WHOM IT MAY CONCERN



ALL ADMINISTRATORS AND MODERATORS OR WHATEVER YOU CALLING (NICKNAMIN) YOURSELF INCLUDING SMILIK - WHATEVER YOU DO. WHATEVER YOUR RULES, WHOEVER DA MEMBERS COMUNITY OF YOURS .........THAT'S JUST YOURS AND KEEP IT TIGHT. OOOKKKK????, YOU ARE STAYIN IN THIS FORUM, YOU DO NOT CHANGE YOUR NICKNAMES (WHO CARES....RIGHT?) YOU ARE THE SUBJECT TO BE PATHETIC.



EVEN YOU KILL MY CHANCE TO BE IN..... I'LL BE BACK AGAIN, AND AGAIN .......WHATEVER MY NICK NAME.

[noodles]

v samom nachale nado govorit:
- ti mne nravishsa i davay poprobuem... esli poluchitsa to poluchitsa...

a potom kogda nastanet vremya propisivat emu bort skajesh:
- u nas ne poluchitsa tak kak ya ne lyublyu tebya i budet luchshe esli mi rasstanemsa.

vot i vse...

[nbyall12]

Just tell them you're moving to some place like Africa maybe. :D

[Hadarim Prince]

Dumb Him???? Or is it Dump Him... hell lot of difference.

[nbyall12]

Dumb Him???? Or is it Dump Him... hell lot of difference.
lol I know! It must be a typo.

[Webbie]

Dumb Him???? Or is it Dump Him... hell lot of difference.

hehe, a typo :D

[Dilyara]

Vot skajite, chto delat v takoy situacii. Ya s nim vstrechalas, okolo goda... dumala lyubila, seychas uehali, to yest razehalis i ochen daleko, a okazivaetsa hochetsa kogo-to ryadom, smotryu na drugih i daje uje primetila drugogo... On govorit, chto priedet na letnih kanikulah, no stolko jdat', tem bolee chuvstva po-moemu uje net... No chasto obshaemsya po tel i msn, i ya kak vsegda po privichke govoryu: skuchayu, lyublyu, celuyu... no chuvstvuyu skoro uje vsyo nadoest!!! A ochen rezko skazat " ya razlyubila" budet tupo, ved tolko vchera po telefonu ya emu govorila, chto ochen ochen skuchayu... Tak slojno shas...:( Sama ne ojidala chto eto chuvstvo tak bistro proydyot...

[Sunshine]

Vot skajite, chto delat v takoy situacii. Ya s nim vstrechalas, okolo goda... dumala lyubila, seychas uehali, to yest razehalis i ochen daleko, a okazivaetsa hochetsa kogo-to ryadom, smotryu na drugih i daje uje primetila drugogo... On govorit, chto priedet na letnih kanikulah, no stolko jdat', tem bolee chuvstva po-moemu uje net... No chasto obshaemsya po tel i msn, i ya kak vsegda po privichke govoryu: skuchayu, lyublyu, celuyu... no chuvstvuyu skoro uje vsyo nadoest!!! A ochen rezko skazat " ya razlyubila" budet tupo, ved tolko vchera po telefonu ya emu govorila, chto ochen ochen skuchayu... Tak slojno shas...:( Sama ne ojidala chto eto chuvstvo tak bistro proydyot...

I feel ya!

Ne grusti, ya znayu ti seychas ochen perejivaesh, vrode ti lyubila tak silno, i stolko slov bilo skazanno, no uje stala ponimat, chto nujen chelovek ryadom, i uje ne chuvstvuesh teh samim chuvstv kak v nachale. I ne hochetsya vrat emu, i v toje vremya boishsya oshibitsya i ponyat, chto sdelala nepopravimuyu oshibku.
Znaesh, ti emu skaji ob etom , prosto rasskaji o tom , kak ti sebya chuvstvush. Mojet, emu budet ne priyatno, mojet on sam reshit vse ostanovit. A mojet dast tebe vremya, i ti podumaesh horosho. Samoe glavnoe, ne tyani, ne muchay sebya. Dalshe huje i bolneye, esli ti reshila, to delay eto seychas. ili je vozmite time out.

S uvajeniem

Sunny

[PainKiller]

Na moj vzglyad, ne stoit Mujikaa Muchat (http://toolbar.desktoptraffic.net/cgi-bin//ezlclk.fcgi?id=49)' i bit' s nim izza jalosti ili izza straha uslishat' v otvet nepriyatnie slova. Glavnoe chestnost' pered soboy. Esli ne lyubish'. Nujno ob etom emu skazat'. I ne po telefonu, ne po e-mail (http://toolbar.desktoptraffic.net/cgi-bin//ezlclk.fcgi?id=103), a smotrya v glaza. Eto priznak uvajeniya! Dogovoris' o vstreche, Priglasi ego kuda nibud', i skaji chto Lyubvi bol'she net. Esli on stanet prosit' ne brosat' ego, na koleni vstanet-ne peredumivay. Ti daesh' cheloveku nadejdu. Ti ne imeesh prava tak postupat' ne s nim ne ssoboy. Ti ne odna. Pogrustit Pogrustit i naydet tu chto tebya zamenit. Zato, potom budet uvajat'.
Hullas, takie dela nujno rubit' toporom. I ne jalet', ne plakat'.
One two three and gone!

[Dilyara]

Thanx... Da ti opisala v tochnosti moyo sostoyanie, ya dumayu uje zavtra pogovorit... no on v to je vremya tak blizok mne, ne hochetsa obijat, no, navernoe, nado, potomu chto chem dalshe tem mojet bit huje...

[Sunshine]

Thanx... Da ti opisala v tochnosti moyo sostoyanie, ya dumayu uje zavtra pogovorit... no on v to je vremya tak blizok mne, ne hochetsa obijat, no, navernoe, nado, potomu chto chem dalshe tem mojet bit huje...


U Go girl!!! I know it is hard!!! But u can do it! I am sure u will get over it, so will he!!!

Sunny

[tano]

Vdrug etot pacan ee povesitsya ili eshe chto. S chustvami cheloveka nado obrashatsya ostorojnee.
Ya bi posovetoval skazat' emu chto tvoi chustva ugasayut postepenno. Smotrya kakaya u nego budet reakciya budesh dal'she deystvovat'. Esli on tak sil'no lyubit chto jit' ne mojet bez tebya to naydet sposob vse uladit'. Priedit, pereedit k tebe, mojet u vas vse vostanovitsya.
Esli net to togda uje mojno i break up delat'.

[PainKiller]

Vdrug etot pacan ee povesitsya ili eshe chto. S chustvami cheloveka nado obrashatsya ostorojnee.
Ya bi posovetoval skazat' emu chto tvoi chustva ugasayut postepenno. Smotrya kakaya u nego budet reakciya budesh dal'she deystvovat'. Esli on tak sil'no lyubit chto jit' ne mojet bez tebya to naydet sposob vse uladit'. Priedit, pereedit k tebe, mojet u vas vse vostanovitsya.
Esli net to togda uje mojno i break up delat'.chelovek sposobniy povesitsya Pri break up, Ne sposoben uehat' daleko na dolgoe vremya, esli da to davno uje svihnutsya doljen bil izza razluki. Soglasen?
Ne povesitsya, Jon Shirin.

[tano]

Mojet obstoyatel'stva zastavili razluchitsya. Mojet verit, doveryayet devushke. Tochno ne skajesh. Hotya skoree vsego ti prava Inkognito, no esli net to komuto budet sovsem nesladko.
Nedavno tut znakomiy odin pitalsya pokonchitsya samoubiystvom iz za devushki. Takoe tvorilos'....
Mne interesno kogda oni v posledniy raz videlis'.

[_MiZZou_]

Vot skajite, chto delat v takoy situacii. Ya s nim vstrechalas, okolo goda... dumala lyubila, seychas uehali, to yest razehalis i ochen daleko, a okazivaetsa hochetsa kogo-to ryadom, smotryu na drugih i daje uje primetila drugogo... On govorit, chto priedet na letnih kanikulah, no stolko jdat', tem bolee chuvstva po-moemu uje net... No chasto obshaemsya po tel i msn, i ya kak vsegda po privichke govoryu: skuchayu, lyublyu, celuyu... no chuvstvuyu skoro uje vsyo nadoest!!! A ochen rezko skazat " ya razlyubila" budet tupo, ved tolko vchera po telefonu ya emu govorila, chto ochen ochen skuchayu... Tak slojno shas...:( Sama ne ojidala chto eto chuvstvo tak bistro proydyot...


Sometimes "falling out of love" is due to withheld anger, outgrowing the other person changing your mind,.. and/or developing or acknowledging diff. priorities. sometimes it has more to do with one's self than it has to do with the other person.
here's my two cents.go forth. be happy! :)

[Sunshine]

Mojet obstoyatel'stva zastavili razluchitsya. Mojet verit, doveryayet devushke. Tochno ne skajesh. Hotya skoree vsego ti prava Inkognito, no esli net to komuto budet sovsem nesladko.
Nedavno tut znakomiy odin pitalsya pokonchitsya samoubiystvom iz za devushki. Takoe tvorilos'....
Mne interesno kogda oni v posledniy raz videlis'.

Ne povesitsya!
Samoe glavnoe, nado ey obyasnit ostorojnee. Vse zaviset ot neyo, mi ne mojem seychas sudit, t.k ne znaem ih otnosheyniy. No ya dumayu, esli ona budet ostorojnee, to vse oboidetsya, i zakonchitsya blagopoluchno.
A esli je on povesitsya, to ya dumayu ona ne budet vinovata. Ona ne mojet bit s nim iz jalosti, ili iz straha togo, chto on povesitsya. On hozyain svoey jizni. I esli on ne durak, to perejivet eto i ne stanet brat na sebya takoi greh!


S uvajeniem Sunny

[master_chuk]

vashi rassujdeniya rovni 10 letnim ,vi govorite a tom cheloveke kotorogo ostavit kak o kakoyto igrushke katoraya nadoela i ot nee nujno izbavitsya ,ne schitayas o ego/ee chuvstvah k vam ,v takih sluchayah nado iskat samiy ludshiy vihod ne iz podskazok a iz svoey dushi kak ona govoit zakonchit eto i pochemy a ne govorit beleberdy vishe skazanuyu by other ppl

[Sunshine]

vashi rassujdeniya rovni 10 letnim ,vi govorite a tom cheloveke kotorogo ostavit kak o kakoyto igrushke katoraya nadoela i ot nee nujno izbavitsya ,ne schitayas o ego/ee chuvstvah k vam ,v takih sluchayah nado iskat samiy ludshiy vihod ne iz podskazok a iz svoey dushi kak ona govoit zakonchit eto i pochemy a ne govorit beleberdy vishe skazanuyu by other ppl


Pochemu beleberda?
Nikto eyo ne zastavlyaet eto delat, prosto sovetuetsya, esli ona reshilas, to ne nado muchatsya. Ey nado samoi reshit i vse horosho obdumat, chego ona na samom dele hochet. Nikto ne govoril, chto chuvstva drugogo cheloveka igrushka. Nado pravilno ponimat!

Tut viskazivaut svoe mnenie. A ey reshat!

S uvajeniem
Sunny

[Maroon]

Vot skajite, chto delat v takoy situacii. Ya s nim vstrechalas, okolo goda... dumala lyubila, seychas uehali, to yest razehalis i ochen daleko, a okazivaetsa hochetsa kogo-to ryadom, smotryu na drugih i daje uje primetila drugogo... On govorit, chto priedet na letnih kanikulah, no stolko jdat', tem bolee chuvstva po-moemu uje net... No chasto obshaemsya po tel i msn, i ya kak vsegda po privichke govoryu: skuchayu, lyublyu, celuyu... no chuvstvuyu skoro uje vsyo nadoest!!! A ochen rezko skazat " ya razlyubila" budet tupo, ved tolko vchera po telefonu ya emu govorila, chto ochen ochen skuchayu... Tak slojno shas...:( Sama ne ojidala chto eto chuvstvo tak bistro proydyot...
I had a similar situation. If you do not have feelings for this person, do not lie to yourself and to him. If you are sure that it is not him and that your relationship won't work out, just break up. At least for now. Vremya pokajet chto budet v budushem. A shas ne kruti sebe mozgi i ne kruti emu mozgi. Think of his feelings as well. Esli ti budesh zastavlyat sebya bit snim potomu chto tebe ego jal', it is a waste of time. On che toje kak lox budet hodit chto-li?

I broke up with my boyfriend, though we had our own reasons I just came to understand that it was not for me. Chustva propali i ya ne stala emu i sebe mozgi krutit, ato vse huje bilo bi.

Udachi tebe.

D.

[master_chuk]

nu ya i govoryu mnenie katorie drugie viskazivayut a ne o tom chto ey reshat ,ya znayu chto eto ey reshat prosto govryu chto hot i interesno mnenie drugih no vseravno takuyu temy nado obsujdat ne na forume a u sebya v golove

[master_chuk]

sry if i offended;) someone didnt mean too

[MGT]

The best way to dump a guy huh, get bald, dont take a shower for few dayz, don't brush your teeth,Try to kiss him, he'll feel the smell. And bam he gon dump u. so you don't have to worry bout his sorry ass. Thas it, thas an easy process. I mean, u'll get dump but still, if u gurlz don't care being dumped.

[~GizaGora~]

The best way to dump a guy huh, get bald, dont take a shower for few dayz, don't brush your teeth,Try to kiss him, he'll feel the smell. And bam he gon dump u. so you don't have to worry bout his sorry ass. Thas it, thas an easy process. I mean, u'll get dump but still, if u gurlz don't care being dumped.
Eto uj ne delo :( ne tak vse prosto, che t@ dumaesh iz za odnogo parnya ne m@tsia neskolko dney.... ne odna devushka ne pozvolit sebe takoe ???? :shock:

[MGT]

sorry forgot to mention, in case of emergency u do that, its like 911. well of course u can dump him in 5 sec. sayin F U, or get the f out of here. he might not understand, or he might understand up to the guy.
Eto uj ne delo :( ne tak vse prosto, che t@ dumaesh iz za odnogo parnya ne m@tsia neskolko dney.... ne odna devushka ne pozvolit sebe takoe ???? :shock:

[Gipsy Soul]

That is the most egoistic thought I had ever come across :)
polnost'yu soglasna s toboy!!!
parnyu i tak ploho, blin...i tak spovest'muchaet izza togo chto zakralas v dushu ego i nechyaenno razbivaesh serdce..a tut esho i krasotui navodit'..chtob on pomnil i vse tkoye....uh kakaya jut'... :rolleyes:

[lavelaso]

polnost'yu soglasna s toboy!!!
parnyu i tak ploho, blin...i tak spovest'muchaet izza togo chto zakralas v dushu ego i nechyaenno razbivaesh serdce..a tut esho i krasotui navodit'..chtob on pomnil i vse tkoye....uh kakaya jut'... :rolleyes:

a zachem dump :) let him dump you :lol: if u wanna dump him.

[SHAK-from-ECC]

"dumb him" emish lol. Kimdur shunaqa dimoqchi busa srazu javob berish kerak: " Man ham shuni etomi yurudim, sani hafa qilmiy deb. Uzin etganin yahshi buldi bitta bosh og'rig'idan qutildim!! " deyish kerak. Yigitla tililani berib quymela!:twisted:

[lavelaso]

"dumb him" emish lol. Kimdur shunaqa dimoqchi busa srazu javob berish kerak: " Man ham shuni etomi yurudim, sani hafa qilmiy deb. Uzin etganin yahshi buldi bitta bosh og'rig'idan qutildim!! " deyish kerak. Yigitla tililani berib quymela!:twisted:

the most common sissy dump is:

I wanna be friends with you...
Why...
Cause i dont feel u like a boyfriend/girlfriend...
Oh...
Yeah...So...Im sorry....You Know...
Hmm...
Are you O.K....
No...

How to use her dumps against her...

Yeah... Im OK...
So u r not upset....
No...no...why should be...
Well I thought.... nevermind...
There are millions girls around...doh...
Oh...
By the way I dont feel anything to you...
Really...
Yeah...Listen I gotta go... Bye Bye...
Bye...

[Gipsy Soul]

the most common sissy dump is:

I wanna be friends with you...
Why...
Cause i dont feel u like a boyfriend/girlfriend...
Oh...
Yeah...So...Im sorry....You Know...
Hmm...
Are you O.K....
No...

How to use her dumps against her...

Yeah... Im OK...
So u r not upset....
No...no...why should be...
Well I thought.... nevermind...
There are millions girls around...doh...
Oh...
By the way I dont feel anything to you...
Really...
Yeah...Listen I gotta go... Bye Bye...
Bye...

esli na tot moment paren deystvitelno eto chustvuet to da- eto stoit govorit'..a esli net? zachem pritvoryatsya? chtob ey nasolit'? aeto to zachem? ona vinovata chtoli v tom chto mogla ego polyubit'....ona ved' toje ne ot nechego delat' razrivaet s nim otnosheniya...
lichno ya storonniy vzaimoponimaniya i prosheniya daje v epiloge otnosheniy...
nujno krasivo rasstatsya no ne tak vichurno i ljivo kak eto bilo opisanno vishe a prosto, iskrenne i s pojelaniyami dobra i schast'ya drug drugu.

[Gipsy Soul]

а зачем думп :) лет хим думп ёу :лол: иф у wанна думп хим.
а вот ето хорошая идея.... :) и думаю умниые девочки именно так и старались поступить по началу....просто знаеш ето не всегда деыствует... сометимес хе доес нот думп у ...ноwаы!!! :роллеыес:
а определённому типу девушек етот метод вобше чуйд-ти чтооо, чтоб ииииих , таких красивих и суперних бросилиии????!!! да где ето виданно..:)

[Gipsy Soul]

oy....che eto s moim postom....ya j vrode translit ne delala....ujas kakoy to...

[lavelaso]

esli na tot moment paren deystvitelno eto chustvuet to da- eto stoit govorit'..a esli net? zachem pritvoryatsya? chtob ey nasolit'? aeto to zachem? ona vinovata chtoli v tom chto mogla ego polyubit'....ona ved' toje ne ot nechego delat' razrivaet s nim otnosheniya...
lichno ya storonniy vzaimoponimaniya i prosheniya daje v epiloge otnosheniy...
nujno krasivo rasstatsya no ne tak vichurno i ljivo kak eto bilo opisanno vishe a prosto, iskrenne i s pojelaniyami dobra i schast'ya drug drugu.

first of all dumping is stupid. if guy is stupid and doesnt understand so its tottally stupid, everything is stupid, girl who wants to dump is stupid, they r all stupid. doh.
Dump!dump!dump! use him and after dump him, thats so stupid.

[lavelaso]

It's Time To Dump Him

You have been dating this guy for the past few months but you are nothappy about it. He seems all sweet and charming and you really think that you are in love but there is something missing. Though he says he loves you and wants to be with you but his words don't really mean anything. You have doubts as to whether he really loves you or just fooling around. Well if you want to know the truth then just go through the points below and learn whether its time to dump your boyfriend and move ahead.

Its time to dump your boyfriend when……..


He keeps talking about his ex and still meets her. Though he says that they are just friends but meets her and refuses to tell his ex that he is dating you saying he doesn't want to hurt her but doesn't realize how much he is hurting you.

He keeps comparing you with his ex.

He doesn't want to meet your family and is always ready with some or the other excuses when you want him to come to meet your parents or other family members.

He refuses to show you much attention in public and he doesn't invite you to work functions where a date is required.

He also doesn't invite you to his family gatherings or occasions when he can introduce you to his family.

He won't introduce you to his friends until you're "on solid ground." But you've been dating him exclusively for six months!

He loves to go out with his friends and if you ask him to go out with you and your friends he says he needs to spend more time alone with you rather then in a group but doesn't go out with you either.

He never calls you up and when you call him up he says that he is busy. He also gives you standing instructions not to call him up at work saying he doesn't like being disturbed when he is working.

He spends more time online doing "research" than with you, but he can never explain what he's researching.

He claims he'll never, ever cheat on you, but he cheated on his ex in order to be with you.

[Monik]

Уй, блин!

Я так делала, чесслово: разягрявала трагедии, которым Болливуд бы позавидовал. Но давно, по молодости и глупAсти. Тогда я еще не знала, где любовь, где сабзи, и играть чувствами других не казалось мне нечестным поступком. Я думала, что разыгрывая трагедию, я даю этому мужику афигеннейшую сладострастную историю расставания, о которой он будет помнить навсегда.


What a stupid answer. You don't have a life and make too much effort to say "NO". Just tell him to f*** off and he won't bother you again. Why would you spend time on each looser's request to become his gf?

[MGT]

Everybody girl got her own way to dump a guy, she can do it fast, or make it more tragic, it depends on a gurl, if she's nice or not. Anywayz, DUMP that fag ass. cause u got more comin at ya.

[Crazy Diamond]

What a stupid answer. You don't have a life and make too much effort to say "NO". Just tell him to f*** off and he won't bother you again. Why would you spend time on each looser's request to become his gf?

Do bother to read a post carefully before you let the words come out of your mouth.

[Webbie]

a zachem dump :) let him dump you :lol: if u wanna dump him.

i dont like being dumped i'd rather do it myself :rolleyes:

[Alchemist]

There are no best ways to dump, dump is always dump, i dont think there is such a guy on earth that will like it, but there must be a guy that will understand you, if he trully loves you and understands you, me personally, I really don't give a f**k who dumps first, if I had to do it I'll do it, but if she does it and I love her than I will try to do my best to understand her. Still it's the question that can only be answered by you and nobody else, good luck on your dumping.
i dont like being dumped i'd rather do it myself :rolleyes:

[Webbie]

good luck on your dumping.

haha spasibo :D