Have you ever asked a guy out ?

[]I[ A JL JL O D]

Shu savolni O'zbekchasiga hech yoza olmadim. Savol albatta qizlarimizga (besoqolbozlar iltimos javob bermanglar ! :evil:. Siz, hech bo'lsa ham o'zingiz birinchi bo'lib yigitni uchrashuvga chaqirganmisizlar ? O'zi hech shunaqa bo'ladimi ?! :rolleyes: . Qizlar bollarni hech uchrashuvga birinchi bo'lib chaqirishadimi ?

Bola qizni yoqtiradimi yoki yo'qmi bilib olishni deyarli hamma biladi, juda oson, qizlar ham tezda sezisadi, ammo qiz bolani yoqtirish yoki yoqtirmasligini nimalardan bilsa bo'ladi :?: . Qizlarni tushunish juda qiyin, ayniqsa yosh qizlarni, ayniqsa biror bir bolani yoqtiradigan qizni ! Qandodur yo'li bormi bildirmasdan, hitlasmasdan, qizni hatti-harakatlari, o'zini tutishi, gap-so'zlaridan bilib olishni ?!

Meni qiziqtiryotgan qiz, O'zbek emas, ammo musulmon, aytaylik "country with Western values, culture" da tug'ilib o'sgan, zamonaviy, biroq Hudoga shukr zamonaviyligi evi bilan, muslima ekanligini biladi ! Yigiti yo'q, o'ranmagan. Agar yordam bersa, millati Hind. Hech bir hukmga kela olmayapman, unga o'zim gapirishimdan oldin aniq bilib olmoqchiman.

[Sunshine]

I'v never asked a guy out, but I don't think there is anything wrong with it. I'v asked a friend of mine out, but as a friend to have some dinner or just to have funn. But if I like some guy and I wanna go out with 'im, I would try to convince him to ask me going out :)

Sunshine

[noodles]

sunshine, just to have fun? what do you mean by that? can you be more clear plz =)

[lucky14]

I[ A JL JL O D']Shu savolni O'zbekchasiga hech yoza olmadim. Savol albatta qizlarimizga (besoqolbozlar iltimos javob bermanglar ! :evil:. Siz, hech bo'lsa ham o'zingiz birinchi bo'lib yigitni uchrashuvga chaqirganmisizlar ? O'zi hech shunaqa bo'ladimi ?! :rolleyes: . Qizlar bollarni hech uchrashuvga birinchi bo'lib chaqirishadimi ?

Bola qizni yoqtiradimi yoki yo'qmi bilib olishni deyarli hamma biladi, juda oson, qizlar ham tezda sezisadi, ammo qiz bolani yoqtirish yoki yoqtirmasligini nimalardan bilsa bo'ladi :?: . Qizlarni tushunish juda qiyin, ayniqsa yosh qizlarni, ayniqsa biror bir bolani yoqtiradigan qizni ! Qandodur yo'li bormi bildirmasdan, hitlasmasdan, qizni hatti-harakatlari, o'zini tutishi, gap-so'zlaridan bilib olishni ?!

Meni qiziqtiryotgan qiz, O'zbek emas, ammo musulmon, aytaylik "country with Western values, culture" da tug'ilib o'sgan, zamonaviy, biroq Hudoga shukr zamonaviyligi evi bilan, muslima ekanligini biladi ! Yigiti yo'q, o'ranmagan. Agar yordam bersa, millati Hind. Hech bir hukmga kela olmayapman, unga o'zim gapirishimdan oldin aniq bilib olmoqchiman.
Salom. Odatda, hayoli qiz o'g'il bolani yoqtirsa ham lekin datega yoki deylik outga taklif qilmaydi. Agar siz yoqtirgan qizingizni o'zingiz haqingizdagi fikringizni bilishni hohlasangiz eng yaxshisi, uni qiziqishlarini o'rgangan holda turli joylarga masalan bookstore yoki movie theaterga taklif qilish mumkin va turli values haqida gaplashib ko'rish mumkin. Yoshligida, yaqin insonlari (ota-onasi, dugonalari, o'z mamlakatida nimalar qilishni yoqtirganligini) o'rganib turib, bu qizga qanday insonlar yoqishini bilib olish mumkin.
Va eng muhimi, there might be a love from the first sight and she might be hesitating to tell you that as well, look in her eyes! Eyes can tell many things :)

[Maroon]

Da ochen' ochen' interestnaya tema. No, I never asked a guy out.By guy I mean a guy I like, not a friend. Hm...I might have made the first move once or twice but that is another story.

I find it alright, and it is alright in Western socities but in eastern society it is out of question. Po tipu devushka dojna bit gordoy i t.d. And my PERSONAL attitude towards is the same.

Ciao.

[vassili]

Bola qizni yoqtiradimi yoki yo'qmi bilib olishni deyarli hamma biladi, juda oson, qizlar ham tezda sezisadi, ammo qiz bolani yoqtirish yoki yoqtirmasligini nimalardan bilsa bo'ladi :?: ???I am interested in that qsnt too, :shock:,
Looking forward to the answers /esp. frm girls/...

[Sunshine]

sunshine, just to have fun? what do you mean by that? can you be more clear plz =)

I mean what I mean :)
I meant to spend some time with a friend having a good conversation, going to some interesting places.

I ne umnichay Max geniy ti nash :)
BtW ya znayu ti ne lyubish ask a girl out :) tipa ne romantik i gordiy idealist :)

With all respect
Sunny

[Mubina]

I[ A JL JL O D'] Siz, hech bo'lsa ham o'zingiz birinchi bo'lib yigitni uchrashuvga chaqirganmisizlar ? Qizlar bollarni hech uchrashuvga birinchi bo'lib chaqirishadimi ?

No, but it's not a problem if i love him. I suppose there are a lot of cases when girls are the first, 'cause their passion can't do that/or very late with the decision.

I[ A JL JL O D'] Hudoga shukr zamonaviyligi evi bilan, muslima ekanligini biladi ! Yigiti yo'q, o'ranmagan.

Do u need something else? It's more than enough to love her and don't pay attention who is the first.

Shu insonni qay darajada sevishingizni faqat yoqotkanizdan keyin bilasiz. Bunga yol qoyish ahmoqlik bo'ladi. Yana o'ziz bilasiz.

Salyam Alaykum,

Mubina

[Vostochnaya...]

]I[ A JL JL O D (http://www.forum.uz/member.php?u=1004), я не поняла, что ты написал, но я выбрала "нет". Я лучше промолчу и перетерплю, чем приглашу парня сама первая. Просто мне стыдно, что ли. я бы не решилась.

[]I[ A JL JL O D]

Hmmm, bittayam qiz "qiz yigitni yoqtirish yoki yoqtirmasligini nimalardan bilsa bo'ladi ?" degan savolimga javob bermadi :evil: :!:

[PainKiller]

Bilib bomidi!
Qiz bola ozi etmidi. eng zor usuli, etib koriladi, man bitta qiz bilan uchrashdim deb. yuziga qarisiz. agar yoqtirsa sizni, rangi ozgaradi. kopincha kesatiq qiladi. ozini bilmaslikka olishiyam mumkin "ooooo, mldca! zorsizu, kimakan u qiz?" deb.
Lekin shundo sezasiz yoqmaganini bu gapiz. Eto proverennyj sposob.
No hazilligini tushuntirin srazu. ne to hapa bop yurmasin yana ;)

[]I[ A JL JL O D]

:) hmm, rahmat Jamik, yahshi fikr ! Yana maslahatlar bormi, qani ....

[PainKiller]

I[ A JL JL O D']:) hmm, rahmat Jamik, yahshi fikr ! Yana maslahatlar bormi, qani .... Telefon qilib biron kuni, kasal bop qoldim deb koring-chi. Reakciyasi qanaqa bolarkin.
Yana Mozhno u bu yordam sorab korish. Yoqtirsa yoq demidi;)
Tugmammi tikkani odam yoq deng. lol

[Mona Lisa]

I[ A JL JL O D']:) hmm, rahmat Jamik, yahshi fikr ! Yana maslahatlar bormi, qani ....
Maslahatmi? Yuragiz nimani qilgin desa o'sha faqat ha deb yurakka quloq solurib miyani ham umuman unutvormang. :)

[PainKiller]

Maslahatmi? Yuragiz nimani qilgin desa o'sha faqat ha deb yurakka quloq solurib miyani ham umuman unutvormang. :) Chiroli so'zlar, akam.
Biyag', qanaqa qilib, meni yoqtiradimi yomi bilsa boladi diyapti.
Behijolat javobizi yozorin :D

[Mona Lisa]

Chiroli so'zlar, akam.
Biyag', qanaqa qilib, meni yoqtiradimi yomi bilsa boladi diyapti.
Behijolat javobizi yozorin :D
Ha u kishim maslahat so'radilar, kamina - i ojiz o'zida bor maslahatni berdi :cool:

[desperate]

Qiz bola ozi etmidi. eng zor usuli, etib koriladi, man bitta qiz bilan uchrashdim deb. yuziga qarisiz. agar yoqtirsa sizni, rangi ozgaradi.
a yesli ya daltonik???????

[Desperado]

i was asked by a girl indirectly through someone :?

[Mubina]

i was asked by a girl indirectly through someone :?

Ana, bollarga ham bersa bolarkanu bu savolni,

masalan "Sizlarni biron-bir qiz birinchi bolib uchrashuvga chaqirganmi?" deb

endi bolarni javobi eshitamiz ;)

Respect,
MBN

[Mubina]

a yesli ya daltonik???????

Nu esli ty dal'tonik, i esli vdrug devushka temnokojaya (bunaqadayam qiyin bolsa kere rangi o'zgarganini bilish ;))

to lushe ispol'zovat' drugoy sposob ;),

naprimer

Telefon qilib biron kuni, kasal bop qoldim deb koring-chi. Reakciyasi qanaqa bolarkin.
Yana Mozhno u bu yordam sorab korish. Yoqtirsa yoq demidi ;)

[desperate]

[QUOTE=Mubina]Ana, bollarga ham bersa bolarkanu bu savolni,

masalan "Sizlarni biron-bir qiz birinchi bolib uchrashuvga chaqirganmi?" deb

endi bolarni javobi eshitamiz ;)

i was invited once. then we were 2gether. but not for long. in matter of fact i hate her!!!:alien:

[Legend]

Bilib bomidi!
Qiz bola ozi etmidi. eng zor usuli, etib koriladi, man bitta qiz bilan uchrashdim deb. yuziga qarisiz. agar yoqtirsa sizni, rangi ozgaradi. kopincha kesatiq qiladi. ozini bilmaslikka olishiyam mumkin "ooooo, mldca! zorsizu, kimakan u qiz?" deb.
Lekin shundo sezasiz yoqmaganini bu gapiz. Eto proverennyj sposob.
No hazilligini tushuntirin srazu. ne to hapa bop yurmasin yana ;)Yoge?proverenniy sposob degin;)

[Desperado]

I[ A JL JL O D']Shu savolni O'zbekchasiga hech yoza olmadim. Savol albatta qizlarimizga (besoqolbozlar iltimos javob bermanglar ! :evil:. Siz, hech bo'lsa ham o'zingiz birinchi bo'lib yigitni uchrashuvga chaqirganmisizlar ? O'zi hech shunaqa bo'ladimi ?! :rolleyes: . Qizlar bollarni hech uchrashuvga birinchi bo'lib chaqirishadimi ?

Bola qizni yoqtiradimi yoki yo'qmi bilib olishni deyarli hamma biladi, juda oson, qizlar ham tezda sezisadi, ammo qiz bolani yoqtirish yoki yoqtirmasligini nimalardan bilsa bo'ladi :?: . Qizlarni tushunish juda qiyin, ayniqsa yosh qizlarni, ayniqsa biror bir bolani yoqtiradigan qizni ! Qandodur yo'li bormi bildirmasdan, hitlasmasdan, qizni hatti-harakatlari, o'zini tutishi, gap-so'zlaridan bilib olishni ?!

Meni qiziqtiryotgan qiz, O'zbek emas, ammo musulmon, aytaylik "country with Western values, culture" da tug'ilib o'sgan, zamonaviy, biroq Hudoga shukr zamonaviyligi evi bilan, muslima ekanligini biladi ! Yigiti yo'q, o'ranmagan. Agar yordam bersa, millati Hind. Hech bir hukmga kela olmayapman, unga o'zim gapirishimdan oldin aniq bilib olmoqchiman.

og'ayni, shu savollarni bolladan so'rab qo'yavermisanmi, qizladan tolk yo'qqa ohshidi

[desperate]

Nu esli ty dal'tonik, i esli vdrug devushka temnokojaya (bunaqadayam qiyin bolsa kere rangi o'zgarganini bilish ;))

to lushe ispol'zovat' drugoy sposob ;),

naprimer

thanx 4 such wise advice :) i meant what if i meet a girl in the street or smwhere else and i will like her? will she have her tel number written on her forehead??? :gorgeous:


ps i am too shy

[Desperado]

thanx 4 such wise advice :) i meant what if i meet a girl in the street or smwhere else and i will like her? will she have her tel number written on her forehead??? :gorgeous:


ps i am too shy


I understand now why your nick is 'desperate' and desperate for what :lol:

[desperate]

I understand now why your nick is 'desperate' and desperate for what :lol:

u expect to hear "bingo!!!"????? no way, try again!!! i'd rather be desperate for having mole on my ass than for what u think!!! :D

[Desperado]

aravani u yodan bu yoqqa quruq obqochurmi etib qoyur to'g'risini :lol:

[Maroon]

I'd shoot myself before I ask a guy (who I like) out for a date. :2gunfire:

But for example if he is my friend, and I start liking him I could ask him to go somewhere but that would not be a date because he would not know that it is a date.

That is why GUYS make the first move.Do not wonder around if the girl you like comes up. Of course they are girls who do that, but the majority does not.

Devki stervi poetomu if you get dumped ni nado obijatsya or start having low self-esteem.;)

Ciao.

[desperate]

hay mayli san uchun shunaqa bulib qosin. hursanmisan??????? i hope u do :))))

ps yomon dotoshniy ekanindasan

[]I[ A JL JL O D]

desperate aka iltimos mavzudan gapiring urushavermasdan. A tak hamma qizlarimizga rahmat maslahatlaringlar uchun, davom ettriaveringlar !!!

Ana, bollarga ham bersa bolarkanu bu savolni,

masalan "Sizlarni biron-bir qiz birinchi bolib uchrashuvga chaqirganmi?" deb

endi bolarni javobi eshitamiz

Hehe, Mubina yahshi fikr ! Qani bolalar javob beringlar...

[elDoraDo]

a tak
i was invited by the girl.... and that was nice , you know - hehe
boshida prikolno potom privyknesh
malo togo - bilo delo kogda dama za menya platila - ya ne budu govorit gde eto bilo - no eto dolgaaaayyaaaa istoriya -

plz no comments after



da eto bilo invitation - not just askin.... when someone is asked out, he can deny it somehow, but when he is invited, then .... koroche-de chundila.

[KeSha]

Bilib bomidi!
Qiz bola ozi etmidi. eng zor usuli, etib koriladi, man bitta qiz bilan uchrashdim deb. yuziga qarisiz. agar yoqtirsa sizni, rangi ozgaradi. kopincha kesatiq qiladi. ozini bilmaslikka olishiyam mumkin "ooooo, mldca! zorsizu, kimakan u qiz?" deb.
Lekin shundo sezasiz yoqmaganini bu gapiz. Eto proverennyj sposob.
No hazilligini tushuntirin srazu. ne to hapa bop yurmasin yana ;)

Vaybu otkuda stolko znaete krootaya =))
Odnako vi uje opitnaya lolzzz =))

[Maroon]

Eldarado da ladno. Eto normalno.Eldarado ti takoy spokoyniy stal, ya udevlaus.

D.;)

[SoniTa]

Originally Posted by ИнкоГниТо
Bilib bomidi!
Qiz bola ozi etmidi. eng zor usuli, etib koriladi, man bitta qiz bilan uchrashdim deb. yuziga qarisiz. agar yoqtirsa sizni, rangi ozgaradi. kopincha kesatiq qiladi. ozini bilmaslikka olishiyam mumkin "ooooo, mldca! zorsizu, kimakan u qiz?" deb.
Lekin shundo sezasiz yoqmaganini bu gapiz. Eto proverennyj sposob.
No hazilligini tushuntirin srazu. ne to hapa bop yurmasin yana
эээ Джамик, сотиб куйдинг-ку (:
ещё один явный знак - если при общении девушка начинает повторять ваши движения...

[Sweet_chilli]

Siz, hech bo'lsa ham o'zingiz birinchi bo'lib yigitni uchrashuvga chaqirganmisizlar ?

Always do that :D (just kidding)
Never, I think, but I did sevgi izxori to the guy once :lol:

[Wolfman]

Qiz bola kegin o'zida yo'q sifatlarini ko'rsatishga harakat qiladi,:lool: ba'zan g'amgin bo'b yuradi :D



Stan

[Mubina]

Yaxshi ko'rgan insoni necha marta yolg'on gapirsa shuncha marta ishonadi

[tano]

Ana, bollarga ham bersa bolarkanu bu savolni,

masalan "Sizlarni biron-bir qiz birinchi bolib uchrashuvga chaqirganmi?" deb

endi bolarni javobi eshitamiz

Chasto sluchalos' chto devushka podhodila i nachinala celovat'sya. Nekotorie konechno bili pyanimi v eto vremya, no ne vse. S nimi otnosheniy dolgih nikogda ne bivalo.
Bivalo chto i priglashali kuda nibud', hodil s nimi, i obichno potom uje ne hotelos' prodoljat' nichego.
Prosto normal'nie, dostoynie devushki redko priglashayut kogoto pervimi.

[nbyall12]

I've would never even THINK about it, because I would be dead the next day, my mom would kill me, seriously! I wouldn't tell her, but trust me she has her ways...
Once she found my note to a guy, whoa!!!! I was in a HUGE trouble, I mean HUGE!!!
It's like I'm grounded for life... It really sux being me! I do not fit in this society, these people are way different...and I'm just like a weirdo here...

[~GizaGora~]

Tut dela ne tolko v ambitiyah i v gordosti. Delo vnashem vospitanii, v tom chto i kak nam prepodnisili s detstva, kakov bil vzglyad na povedenie jenshini v obshestve i seme, kakie slojilis u nas stereotopi v voprosah vzaimootnosheniy mejdu devushkoy i parnia. I voobshe esli etot nastoyashiy paren s vospitaem to eto ego obyazonost. Y ne prezivayu unijat kogo to ili unijatsia samoy, ya na eto ne sposobna!

Mogu eshe pribavit mojet u cheloveka chuvstvo yumora takoe chto mojet sdelat perviy shag, i dlya nego eto proto. Dumayu kak govoritsia ne sudi kak gritsia, da ne sudim budesh ;)

[Desperado]

I've would never even THINK about it, because I would be dead the next day, my mom would kill me, seriously! I wouldn't tell her, but trust me she has her ways...
Once she found my note to a guy, whoa!!!! I was in a HUGE trouble, I mean HUGE!!!
It's like I'm grounded for life... It really sux being me! I do not fit in this society, these people are way different...and I'm just like a weirdo here...


sanga rahmim kevotti, yelki-palki...

[tano]

A znaew, po4emu ti ih s4itaew nedostoynimi, tak kak oni priglasili tea, t.e. sdelali "perviy wag" ! Vot imenno, normal'naya,I mean,simpoti4naya, uverennaya v sebe i ne liwonnaya mujskogo vnimaniya devuwka nikogda etogo ne sdelaet, tak kak ona vsegda znaet,4to mojet zavoevat' mujskoe vnimanie i bez eyo "pervih wagov"! A priglawat' parney na svidanie oni s4itayut nije svoeho dostoinstva i ne uvajayut devuwek, kotorie etogo sdelali! Tak je kak i parni! ;)

V moem sluchae vse devushki bili simpotnimi. U nih bi uverennosti ne hvatilo sdelat' svoy perviy shag esli bili nekrasivimi. Devushki trudno perenesyat kogda ih otsilayut s pervogo ih shaga.

[tano]

A kto to sporit na s4ot simp tvoih devuwek? Ya i ne somnevayus', wto oni dlya tea bili simp! YA skazala svoyo mnenie na s4ot togo,4to po4emu oni te pokazalis' nedoystoynimi takie simp devuwki! ;) Ostin'!

:) bilo priyatno s toboy pomenyatsya mneniyami