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Martingale
11-02-2004, 12:09 AM
Ladies and Gentleman,

Let's make a discussion on theme "What is the most appropriate age for uzbek girls and guys to get married?"

Nowadays it's a little bit actual issue which, I think needs to be discussed and let's make a kind of analysis. And don't say just numbers, explain why you think so or don't. And provide some facts. Your active participation is appreciated.



Rules: No rules. Debating, discussing, commenting, shouting, beating, .... everything is accepted.
Prohibited: Not giving any idea

If you disagree with my original thread or think that this issue doesn't need a discussion, please write to my PM. I will consider your opinion next time.

nbyall12
11-02-2004, 12:18 AM
Ladies and Gentleman,

Let's make a discussion on theme "What is the most appropriate age for uzbek girls and guys?"

Nowadays it's a little bit actual issue which, I think needs to be discussed and let's make a kind of analysis. And don't say just numbers, explain why you think so or don't. And provide some facts. Your active participation is appreciated.



Rules: No rules. Debating, discussing, commenting, shouting, beating, .... everything is accepted.
Prohibited: Not giving any idea

If you disagree with my original thread or think that this issue doesn't need a discussion, please write to my PM. I will consider your opinion next time.
I think appropriate age for girls to get married is at about when they're 25. NOT younger than 20 in any case, that's the worst thing ever! Also I think everyone should be able to choose who they want to marry, they should NEVER be forced to marry someone they do not know very well. That's my opinion... maybe sounds real dumb but hey it's 2am :(

Martingale
11-02-2004, 12:31 AM
I think appropriate age for girls to get married is at about when they're 25. NOT younger than 20 in any case, that's the worst thing ever! Also I think everyone should be able to choose who they want to marry, they should NEVER be forced to marry someone they do not know very well. That's my opinion... maybe sounds real dumb but hey it's 2am :(What about the guys?

nbyall12
11-02-2004, 12:42 AM
What about the guys?I'll let them answer this question. wait did i just break the rules? :shock:

Martingale
11-02-2004, 12:46 AM
I'll let them answer this question. wait did i just break the rules? :shock:
Yes you did. You will be punished for that. just kidding:lol:

nbyall12
11-02-2004, 12:53 AM
Yes you did. You will be punished for that. just kidding:lol::beat: that's what you get!

Makavelli
11-02-2004, 01:44 AM
:beat: that's what you get!Uzr orelaga tiqildim.Whoa,looks like you guys have a lot in common.Everywhere its nbyall12 & Laziz uwed.

nbyall12
11-02-2004, 01:49 AM
Uzr orelaga tiqildim.Whoa,looks like you guys have a lot in common.Everywhere its nbyall12 & Laziz uwed.
I bet you and me also have a lot in common ;) It's just we happened to be online at the same time so... by the way this is an off-topic if you didn't already know. :lol:

Legend
11-02-2004, 01:55 AM
Uzr orelaga tiqildim.Whoa,looks like you guys have a lot in common.Everywhere its nbyall12 & Laziz uwed.Why dont u sleep it so late,maybe i come and visit Shirina on wednesday:) It's been a lot since I haven't seen ya guys;)

Makavelli
11-02-2004, 02:10 AM
Why dont u sleep it so late,maybe i come and visit Shirina on wednesday:) It's been a lot since I haven't seen ya guys;)Anytime bro!!!

Makavelli
11-02-2004, 02:12 AM
I bet you and me also have a lot in common ;) It's just we happened to be online at the same time so... by the way this is an off-topic if you didn't already know. :lol:Sorry,girl.(i think she likes me!!!;) )

nbyall12
11-02-2004, 02:17 AM
Sorry,girl.(i think she likes me!!!;) )
dude, i don't even know you! stop acting so lame! :o

Makavelli
11-02-2004, 02:25 AM
dude, i don't even know you! stop acting so lame! :oChill girl i was just kidding,damn.



P.S.Don't flatter to yourself!

nbyall12
11-02-2004, 02:54 AM
Chill girl i was just kidding,damn.



P.S.Don't flatter to yourself!
wha? I know u were kidding, and I was too! lol

don't flatter TO myself??

Sunshine
11-02-2004, 06:26 AM
I think appropriate age for girls to get married is at about when they're 25. NOT younger than 20 in any case, that's the worst thing ever! Also I think everyone should be able to choose who they want to marry, they should NEVER be forced to marry someone they do not know very well. That's my opinion... maybe sounds real dumb but hey it's 2am :(


I think there is no appropriate age to get married, as long as they love each other I think its ok. I think it's time to stop thinking about the age. I mean, let the youth realise what they really want in this life. Let them be free in their choises. If they think they can afford it, let it be. But I bet non of us wanna get married at the age of 18-20. AT least I know, that even if I am in love, I don't wanna get married so soon. I can wait, I can spend some 2 3 years dating with someone and get know him better. I don't wanna get married knowing that I don't have a degree and I can't support myself and my family even if I don't need to. I don't want my husband telling me that I am nothing without him, that I can't even find a good job. I wanna feel free and independent. I don't wanna be afraid to stay along. Even if I'm not gonna work after I the wedding, I'd rather wait untill I graduate, get a job, and then when I would suport myself I can get married.

Sunny

Vostochnaya...
11-02-2004, 06:35 AM
nu vot, stoit tol'ko otkrit' kakuyu-nid' normal'nuyu temu, kak srazu gadit' floodom nachinayut...stop it, please! ili xotya by po teme perepalku ustraivaite.

tak-s, a teper' pryamo k teme:

Let's make a discussion on theme "What is the most appropriate age for uzbek girls and guys?"

Laziz, chto Vy xoteli skazat' etim samim appropriate age-om? dlya chego appropriate? dlya zhenit'by?
schitayu, chto naibolee podxodyaschim vozrastom yavlyaetsya promejutok mejdu 19 godami i...nu up to 25 navernoe. v etom vozraste chelovek uje ustanovilsya kak lichnost', imeet vpolne opredelennii vzglyad na jizn', i znaet chego je xochet i jdet ot svoei polovini. a eto ochen' vajno. ne odobryayu bolee rannie braki, tak kak molodie lyudi poteryav golovu zhenyatsya, a potom goda cherez 3-4 vidyat, chto oshiblis' (ne vse konechno, est' kucha primerov schastlivix brakov, dai Allax vsem takoe schast'e!).
tak, a teper' konkretno o devushkax i parnyax. devushke vsego viiti zamuj v 19-23, v samii rascvetnii svoi vozrast, a parnyam chut' pozje (goda na 2-3). optimal'nii variant (dlya menya) eto vozrast 25-28 let. v obshem posle okonchaniya uchebi parni eshe doljni porabotat goda tri chtobi xot' kak to vstat' na nogi, byt' nezavisimimi i umet' obespechit' sem'yu, chtoby ne bit' lishnimi rtami v sem'e.

PainKiller
11-02-2004, 06:43 AM
Po Moim ponyatiyam, obichno te strany gde Prinyati Rannie Braki i mnogochislennie Deti-V osnovnom Nishie, i Neobrazovannie. Ne v odnoy Razvitoy strane, 17-18 letnie braki shiroko ne Rasprostranilis'. Delayte svoi Vivodi...

Joha
11-02-2004, 07:24 AM
Po Moim ponyatiyam, obichno te strany gde Prinyati Rannie Braki i mnogochislennie Deti-V osnovnom Nishie, i Neobrazovannie. Ne v odnoy Razvitoy strane, 17-18 letnie braki shiroko ne Rasprostranilis'. Delayte svoi Vivodi...

V teh je stranah gde Brak pozdniy u nih Rost v Prestupnosti, i skoka tam ih etih "Bastards" :) To est nezakonno rojdennih, illegitimate children. Chut li ne kajdiy s drug drugom uje perespali ... etc...

PainKiller
11-02-2004, 07:29 AM
V teh je stranah gde Brak pozdniy u nih Rost v Prestupnosti, i skoka tam ih etih "Bastards" :) To est nezakonno rojdennih, illegitimate children. Chut li ne kajdiy s drug drugom uje perespali ... etc...Eto uzhe religioznaya storona. Sredi Katolikov etogo net. Vot sam Posmotri na meksov-Zhenyatsya rano, detey moree. i v dobavok Nishie. Eto prosto tendenciya takaya, ti ne obijaysya. Tut ya ne Anti-Joha. Tak ono i est'.
Eshe, Bastard rozhdayutsya opyat' taki u Nishih. Bogatie detey Planiruyut, I u nih nezhelatel'nih detey ne bivaet. Kak obyasnish' chto v USA sirot men'she chem v Uzbekistane? Detskie doma Bastards Prisushe bol'she Eastern Europe. Gde Naselenie opyat' taki Bednoe. I tam Rano zamuzh vihodit' ne out of day. Slovom, Bastards, Early Marriage v USA, UK Germany atc. men'she chem v Bednih Evropeyskih Stranah i Yujnoy Amerike.
Imho.
V Afganistane znachit uroven' prestupnosti nizkiy? hehe

PainKiller
11-02-2004, 08:03 AM
West da pedarastlar ko'payib ketgan, deyarli har kuni bir teeney ning yo'qolgani, biron joyda zo'rlangani, o'ldirilgnai to'g'risida xabarlar eshitaman. Ota 9-15 yashar qizini, bollarini zo'rlaganiga qanday chidash mumkin?!

Asbobini uylanmasdan (yoki juda kech uylanib) duch kelgan teshikka tiqaverishning oqibati bu. :evil:




Stan
Hehehe, Bizdayam bor unaqa narsa. Bu westda Oddiy narsa, degani emas. Ular ham Unaqa otalarni Yomon Korishadi. Kottalardan Soren, Man ozim eshitganman Ozbek odam ozini 9 sinfda oqiyotgan qizini Zorlab, homilador qilib qoyganini. Bunaqa yomon narsalarni Westga yopishtirish, yahshimas.
Ularda bor unaqa iploslik, bizdayam bor.
PS. U odammi Otuvga Hukm Qilishgan.

Martingale
11-02-2004, 08:18 AM
nu vot, stoit tol'ko otkrit' kakuyu-nid' normal'nuyu temu, kak srazu gadit' floodom nachinayut...stop it, please! ili xotya by po teme perepalku ustraivaite.

tak-s, a teper' pryamo k teme:
Laziz, chto Vy xoteli skazat' etim samim appropriate age-om? dlya chego appropriate? dlya zhenit'by?
schitayu, chto naibolee podxodyaschim vozrastom yavlyaetsya promejutok mejdu 19 godami i...nu up to 25 navernoe. v etom vozraste chelovek uje ustanovilsya kak lichnost', imeet vpolne opredelennii vzglyad na jizn', i znaet chego je xochet i jdet ot svoei polovini. a eto ochen' vajno. ne odobryayu bolee rannie braki, tak kak molodie lyudi poteryav golovu zhenyatsya, a potom goda cherez 3-4 vidyat, chto oshiblis' (ne vse konechno, est' kucha primerov schastlivix brakov, dai Allax vsem takoe schast'e!).
tak, a teper' konkretno o devushkax i parnyax. devushke vsego viiti zamuj v 19-23, v samii rascvetnii svoi vozrast, a parnyam chut' pozje (goda na 2-3). optimal'nii variant (dlya menya) eto vozrast 25-28 let. v obshem posle okonchaniya uchebi parni eshe doljni porabotat goda tri chtobi xot' kak to vstat' na nogi, byt' nezavisimimi i umet' obespechit' sem'yu, chtoby ne bit' lishnimi rtami v sem'e.
Oops... Some words were missing. I've just corrected it. Thank you.

Prince
11-02-2004, 02:01 PM
Ne v odnoy Razvitoy strane, 17-18 letnie braki shiroko ne Rasprostranilis'. Delayte svoi Vivodi...


Do you mean? Western Countries? san bitta tarafdan qaramasdan , xar tamonlama qaragin. G`arb davlatlarida - kupchilik qizlar - xammasi xaliginde :)
erga tegib nima qiladi? yashuradi BF bilan , bugun bittasi bilan , ertaga ikkinchisi. undan keyin 3,4,5, qarabsanki umr xam utib ketgan , yoshi xam 30 ga yaqinlashganida , esiga tushadi , erga tegish kerakligi , ana undan keyin Turmushga chiqadi , hursand!!! Endi Ona bo`ladi , lekin oylab kor: u shu ONA boguncha o "shorinqurgur" ona nechtasi bilab yotib turgan!? :rolleyes:
Shuning uchun xam - "17-18 letnie braki shiroko ne rasprostranilis"

Anyways , our traditions , people rulezz :)

ganjubas
11-02-2004, 07:31 PM
For some people arrival in the so called "west" is a life event. Soon they so much idolize the "west" and everything "western" that they lose their logical thinking and own base formed in their motherland. They think because "west" is more advanced, everything what they see in the "west" is advanced as well. There is no use to explain them anything.

There is no appropriate age of marriage. For some girls it is better to get married early, as they don't want to study. For some, they have to finish their undergrad. and if needed graduate studies before marriage. For guys, same thing. Viola!