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Akhee-Abdullah
06-30-2005, 11:00 PM
Anas (May Allah be pleased with him) reported: The Prophet ( :saws: ) said, "Whoever supports two girls till they attain maturity, he and I will come on the Day of Resurrection like this". Messenger of Allah ( :saws: ) joined his fingers illustrating this. [Muslim]. (Entry # 267 from Riyadus Saliheen)

Commentary: In the pre-Islamic era, Arabs were greatly dejected and showed resentment on the birth of a daughter, which in fact reflected the status of women in society, In order to give them their rightful place in the society, Islam taught its followers to recognize their legitimate rights. Among the injunctions which were issued in this behalf, the most important was that their proper upbringing, education and training were made a means to attain Jannah so that people did not only feel joy over the birth of sons but also felt pleasure on the birth of daughters.

In this respect, Islam is the first religion which has not only ensured protection of their rights but also made full arrangements for their respect and prestige in society. For instance, they have been prohibited from having close contacts with men and for this purpose restriction of the veil has been imposed on them.

Islam has emancipated them from the obligation of earning their own livelihood so that they are safe from the malicious eyes of evil-minded, and secure from the sexual lust of men, the way it is happening with women who are working side by side with men in the West.

But it is a curse indeed that due to intellectual immaturity and evil trends, this freedom of women, which has disgraced and robbed them of the virtues of a chaste life, is liked by many people and they are trying that Muslim women should also imitate the style of western women. To the people of such crooked thinking, the Islamic teachings, which ensure the honour and chastity of women, appear to be the yoke of slavery and they want to release women from it.

Akhee-Abdullah
06-30-2005, 11:04 PM
Abu Hurairah (May Allah be pleased with him) reported: The Prophet ( :saws: ) said, "One who strives to help the widows and the poor is like the one who fights in the way of Allah.'' The narrator said: I think that he ( :saws: ) added also: "I shall regard him as the one who stands up (for prayer) without rest and as the one who observes fasts continuously".
[Al-Bukhari and Muslim]. (Entry # 265. from Riyadus Saliheen)

Commentary: Here the words `widow' and `poor' have been mentioned for example only while they cover the whole range of indigent, invalid and needy people.

:info:Efforts for their care, support and welfare has been regarded equivalent to Jihad.:info:

Islam has done full justice in supporting the helpless individuals and the entire poor class of the society by elevating the status of those who undertake this noble task to the level of Mujahidun.

It makes it clear that worship is not restricted to prayers and fasting only but also covers every good deed. Thus, those who are always mindful of the weak and the poor and constantly strive for their welfare are engaged in perpetual worship.

Akhee-Abdullah
07-02-2005, 11:21 PM
Ibn `Umar (May Allah be pleased with them) reported: Messenger of Allah ( :saws: ) passed by a man of the Ansar who was admonishing his brother regarding shyness. Messenger of Allah ( :saws: ) said, "Leave him alone, for modesty is a part of Iman.'' [Al-Bukhari and Muslim]. (Entry # 681 from Riyadus Saliheen)

Commentary: The Ansari, who was being lectured by his brother, was indeed an embodiment of modesty and unpretentiousness. Such a man is never sharp in worldly affairs because modesty restrains him from following wrong ways. For this reason, modesty has been called a part of the faith. This is an inborn quality, that is, some people are unassertive by birth. Yet, if they are gradually guided and directed towards virtues, their unassumingness further increases. And in Islam it is counted a virtue.

`Imran bin Husain (May Allah be pleased with them) reported: Messenger of Allah ( :saws: ) said, "Shyness does not bring anything except good.'' [Al-Bukhari and Muslim]. (Entry # 682. from Riyadus Saliheen)

In a narration of Muslim: Messenger of Allah ( :saws: ) said, "All of shyness is good.''

Commentary: This Hadith enlightens us on the excellence of modesty, which serves the good purpose of preventing man from the disobedience of Allah and from immoral and evil pursuits. Evidently, it has a salutary impact on society. Besides, it keeps man free from sins, and, consequently, he will stand blameless with Allah. From this standpoint, modesty is certainly a thorough good.

Abu Hurairah (May Allah be pleased with him) reported: Messenger of Allah ( :saws: ) said, "Iman has sixty odd or seventy odd branches. The uppermost of all these is the Testimony of Faith: `La ilaha illallah' (there is no true god except Allah) while the least of them is the removal of harmful object from the road. And shyness is a branch of Iman.'' [Al-Bukhari and Muslim]. (Entry # 683. from Riyadus Saliheen)

Commentary: This Hadith has already occurred in a previous chapter, see commentary on Hadith No. 125. Here it has been repeated with reference to the degrees of Faith. Modesty, too, is a part of Faith, rather one of its most important ingredients, because it plays an effective role in the training and sublimation of human psyche.