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Uzbekxonim
08-22-2005, 08:35 AM
Dear Forum Participants and Moderators, Organisers of the Forum!
I would like to propose to indicate the sex of the participant under his/her picture. I'm sure that everybody will agree with me that it is very difficult to adress the person if you don't know his gender.
Believe me, this is not sexualism or any kind of discrimination.
This is just to have a better conversation/discussion.
Regards,
Uzbekhonum
Wolfman
08-22-2005, 08:43 AM
to'g'ri fikr.
boshqa forumlarda ham shunaqa muammolalar bo'gandan kegin, jinsini avatarini ostiga yo uni public profile iga yozishgan.
bir xillar neytral nomlar yo sonlardan user name qilib olgan, bilib bo'lmaydi erkakmi ayol...
Stan
Dear Forum Participants and Moderators, Organisers of the Forum!
I would like to propose to indicate the sex of the participant under his/her picture. I'm sure that everybody will agree with me that it is very difficult to adress the person if you don't know his gender.
Believe me, this is not sexualism or any kind of discrimination.
This is just to have a better conversation/discussion.
Regards,
Uzbekhonum
Gareeb
08-22-2005, 09:07 AM
Bu shart bo'lmasa kerak.Men postiga qarab M/F ekanini sezaman odatda.Undan tashqari post qilganizda shaxsga emas uning yozgan postiga jawob qilinadiku, shunday ekan qaysi jinsga mansubligini bilishni ahamiyati yo'q.
Dear Forum Participants and Moderators, Organisers of the Forum!
I would like to propose to indicate the sex of the participant under his/her picture. I'm sure that everybody will agree with me that it is very difficult to adress the person if you don't know his gender.
Believe me, this is not sexualism or any kind of discrimination.
This is just to have a better conversation/discussion.
Regards,
Uzbekhonum
I do agree that as a functionality there should be a choice for the forum members of whether to indicate their gender or not. IMHO, requiring them to do it will be rude. Moreover, I am puzzled understanding your point on why it is difficult to address the person of uknown gender. For most posts in English or Uzbek addressing him or her has nothing to do with the gender, unless for some russian suffixes you would need to know the gender.
Try to avoid any posts like "well I see that you are a girl/boy, therefore I do understand now why you are thinking weird" and belive me, there will be posts like this, once some people will have nothing to say against ones comments, and will look for to find something else to say. Again purely my HO, no recommendations.
That's where thinking come when we take nicks. People willing to show their gender, or identity chose certain names or show their own. Some chose nicks to partially expose their identity...so the nick usually shows what gender you are, if you initially intended it to do so.
Cheers,
Arti
PainKiller
08-22-2005, 11:40 AM
I am pro choice. Those who want their sex to be open to public, go ahead and do that. I do not want that, though for myself.
Guardian
08-22-2005, 12:03 PM
There should be 3 kind of labels then, "M" for male users, who are happy to show their gender in their profile, "F" for female users, and "A" for those who wish to keep it as anonymous.
In fact I am a pro choice too. Personally to me it doesn't metter user's gender. If someone really need then can ask through PM, at least.
I'm sure that everybody will agree with me that it is very difficult to adress the person if you don't know his gender.
It is also difficult to address the person if you don't know his faith, nationality and etc. These personal things should not be in first place. I voted for "There's no difference for me"
noodles
08-22-2005, 01:18 PM
I didn't know that it's a big problem to identify poster's gender =)
Pythagor
08-22-2005, 02:46 PM
Kerakmas!!!
The Reaper
08-22-2005, 07:04 PM
You've gotta be shittin' me!!
What's next? Photos of their dicks and vaginas?
You see, there are very sophisticated and hi-tech WAYS to find that out: a question, a PM, or a goddamned hint!
If you need anything else, you don't belong on this planet, and should be shot.
TR
Wolfman
08-22-2005, 07:46 PM
krishang ketmaganmi san bolani?
bular nima haqida gapirayapti sani gapingni qara. forumga tahorat qilib kir...
Stan
You've gotta be shittin' me!!
What's next? Photos of their dicks and vaginas?
You see, there are very sophisticated and hi-tech WAYS to find that out: a question, a PM, or a goddamned hint!
If you need anything else, you don't belong on this planet, and should be shot.
TR
Uzbekxonim
08-23-2005, 03:20 AM
Pardon me?
I should be shot because I need to know a gender of the person I am talking to?:shock:
I assume that you do not know what you are talking about. you are too agressive, you'd better take several Valeriana pills:)
calm down. everything is fine:)
You've gotta be shittin' me!!
What's next? Photos of their dicks and vaginas?
You see, there are very sophisticated and hi-tech WAYS to find that out: a question, a PM, or a goddamned hint!
If you need anything else, you don't belong on this planet, and should be shot.
TR
Uzbekxonim
08-23-2005, 03:26 AM
Dear everyone!
I know that there are lot of ways to define poster's gender, but , you know, I am to lazy to make myself think and figure out his/her gender. It would be much easier if it was written under the picture of the poster.
I do not propose to make it obligatory, I agree with Joe, we can make it possible to choose. If you want - indicate your gender, if not - leave it anonymous.
Asadbek
08-23-2005, 03:52 AM
Dear everyone!
I know that there are lot of ways to define poster's gender, but , you know, I am to lazy to make myself think and figure out his/her gender. It would be much easier if it was written under the picture of the poster.
I do not propose to make it obligatory, I agree with Joe, we can make it possible to choose. If you want - indicate your gender, if not - leave it anonymous.
Vaqtida (o'tgan yili edi shekilli) bu masalada ozgina bahs bo'lgach, Userlarning qaysi jinsga mansubligini ko'rsatuvchi [F] va [M] belgilarini olib tashlashga qaror qilingandi.
Siz bir narsani o'ylamayapsiz, bu narsa Forumga hech qanaqa foyda ham, zarar ham keltirmaydi.
Agar [A] - Anonim degan noma'lumlikni kiritish uchun Administrator MegaZ yana programmalashtirishi kerak...
Ortiqcha tashvish.
Fikrimcha, bu masala shundayligicha qolgani ma'qul.
Uzbekxonim
08-23-2005, 04:05 AM
You better know the system.
I just proposed
regards
Vaqtida (o'tgan yili edi shekilli) bu masalada ozgina bahs bo'lgach, Userlarning qaysi jinsga mansubligini ko'rsatuvchi [F] va [M] belgilarini olib tashlashga qaror qilingandi.
Siz bir narsani o'ylamayapsiz, bu narsa Forumga hech qanaqa foyda ham, zarar ham keltirmaydi.
Agar [A] - Anonim degan noma'lumlikni kiritish uchun Administrator MegaZ yana programmalashtirishi kerak...
Ortiqcha tashvish.
Fikrimcha, bu masala shundayligicha qolgani ma'qul.
Royal
08-23-2005, 04:31 AM
You've gotta be shittin' me!!
What's next? Photos of their dicks and vaginas?
You see, there are very sophisticated and hi-tech WAYS to find that out: a question, a PM, or a goddamned hint!
If you need anything else, you don't belong on this planet, and should be shot.
TR
TR
Hapa boma, bu kunlayam otadi, yana keladi, parvo qima hammasi yashshi boladi hudo hohlasa, shoshma sabr qil.
:lool:
P.S. Logic: If she has a period, it is not forum users problem OK!!
Royal
08-23-2005, 04:34 AM
Dear everyone!
I know that there are lot of ways to define poster's gender, but , you know, I am to lazy to make myself think and figure out his/her gender. It would be much easier if it was written under the picture of the poster.
I do not propose to make it obligatory, I agree with Joe, we can make it possible to choose. If you want - indicate your gender, if not - leave it anonymous.
Uzbekhonim
Avatar is simply may represent the users gender, but if some one has some square block ?? I do not know the answer, that could be geteresexual person ?? what a heck a?
Still we must have our dignity & respect when talkin to user's posts!!!
becouse only the respect can bring everyone together!!!
Uzbekxonim
08-23-2005, 06:34 AM
The Reaper is SHE or HE?
I am just trying to figure out what kind of difficulties (period, some problems??) she/he has now as he/she is very agressive in this thread :)
Lorelei
08-23-2005, 06:37 AM
Buni bilish juda oson: Qizlar haqida gap boshladimi bilavering bu yigit!:lol:
Ammo shu nomlaringning tagiga bir yoqimtoyroq rasm quysanglar bulardi. M-n: Men Wolfmanning ko'zlarini kursam nima yozmoqchi buganim ham esimdan chiqib ketadi, odamga shunaqa tikiladiki, yuragim naq taka puka urib qoladi.:shock:
Uzbekxonim
08-23-2005, 06:45 AM
Man esa uni qo'ziga qaraganimda: "kon'yukteviti borga ohshidimi' deb o'ylayman....:rolleyes: :lol: a tak, wolfman, chiroyli ko'z:lol:
Buni bilish juda oson: Qizlar haqida gap boshladimi bilavering bu yigit!:lol:
Ammo shu nomlaringning tagiga bir yoqimtoyroq rasm quysanglar bulardi. M-n: Men Wolfmanning ko'zlarini kursam nima yozmoqchi buganim ham esimdan chiqib ketadi, odamga shunaqa tikiladiki, yuragim naq taka puka urib qoladi.:shock:
Pythagor
08-23-2005, 07:20 AM
Ammo shu nomlaringning tagiga bir yoqimtoyroq rasm quysanglar bulardi. M-n: Men Wolfmanning ko'zlarini kursam nima yozmoqchi buganim ham esimdan chiqib ketadi, odamga shunaqa tikiladiki, yuragim naq taka puka urib qoladi.:shock:lol :lool:, yuragizam borakande, chumchuni kallasidek...
Maroon
08-23-2005, 07:23 AM
The Reaper is SHE or HE?
I am just trying to figure out what kind of difficulties (period, some problems??) she/he has now as he/she is very agressive in this thread :)
Well, if you can't figure that out then you must really be lazy. ;)
Uzbekxonim
08-23-2005, 07:38 AM
Yeee, you're right I am very lazy to think over something. that's why actually proposed to indicate the gender so to think less:lol:
Well, if you can't figure that out then you must really be lazy. ;)
Wolfman
08-23-2005, 07:38 AM
Arti, Seoul ni hozirgacha bilmayman kim ekanligini.
6972, illusion ni oxiri bildim, qiz ekan.
Inkognito ni ko'plar haligacha yigit deb yurar ekan.
kimdir Samimiyni avataridagi Shakirani ko'ziga qarab unga "opa" degan ekan. mana shunaqa narsalar bor-de :D
manga farqi yo'q. lekin avatarni tegida emas-u, public profile da bo'gani yomon emas.
Stan
Wolfman
08-23-2005, 07:41 AM
hehe, bu ko'zlar gipnoz qilayotgan paytda rasmga olingan, :D
mani jinsimni bilmoqchi bo'sangiz profilga rasm qo'yganman... ajratib osa bo'ladi. :lol:
bundan tashqari user name wolfMAN .
Stan
M-n: Men Wolfmanning ko'zlarini kursam nima yozmoqchi buganim ham esimdan chiqib ketadi, odamga shunaqa tikiladiki, yuragim naq taka puka urib qoladi.:shock:
Uzbekxonim
08-23-2005, 07:43 AM
one forumer has a picture of a woman and man, both, in the avatar. you see what I mean? how you can understand if he or she? or maybe bisexual person? :rolleyes: or just a person who believes in love between man and woman?
Arti, Seoul ni hozirgacha bilmayman kim ekanligini.
Loooooooool :lool: Isn't it nice? A vi hotite ves' kayf isportit' :))
Cheers,
Arti
PainKiller
08-23-2005, 12:44 PM
One question, Why the heck do u need to know the sex of the person u r talking to, if everything u can see during ur "converstion" is letters and smilies? Unless u r planning to have cyber sex with him/her.
Read and respond.
I am pro choice, if somebody wants his sex to be shown-Go ahead. U can even write down somewhere in ur profile, u do not need a special feature for that. I do not want my sex to be show to all those morons.
salbert
08-23-2005, 04:18 PM
Uzbekhonum
bollarim toychoglarim mana shu she me he chanchal nema
Uzbekhonum gaperip te utep ketadi topalong qilish kerak me
Uzbekxonim
08-24-2005, 04:17 AM
hey kleo, why you are so rude?
I do not plan to have cyber sex with anyone, ok? and this is none of your business what I want.
watch what you say.:evil:
One question, Why the heck do u need to know the sex of the person u r talking to, if everything u can see during ur "converstion" is letters and smilies? Unless u r planning to have cyber sex with him/her.
Read and respond.
I am pro choice, if somebody wants his sex to be shown-Go ahead. U can even write down somewhere in ur profile, u do not need a special feature for that. I do not want my sex to be show to all those morons.
musoFR
08-24-2005, 06:56 AM
hehe, bu ko'zlar gipnoz qilayotgan paytda rasmga olingan, :D
mani jinsimni bilmoqchi bo'sangiz profilga rasm qo'yganman... ajratib osa bo'ladi. :lol:
bundan tashqari user name wolfMAN .
Stan
janob, shu avatardagi ko'z - chap ko'zmi yoki ong ko'zmi? kopdan beri soriman diman, hijolat bolaman
Wolfman
08-24-2005, 06:59 AM
eaaa, qiziq savol bo'ldi-ku, shundoq bilib olsa bo'ladi-ku chap ko'z ekanligini ;)
Stan
janob, shu avatardagi ko'z - chap ko'zmi yoki ong ko'zmi? kopdan beri soriman diman, hijolat bolaman
musoFR
08-24-2005, 07:13 AM
eaaa, qiziq savol bo'ldi-ku, shundoq bilib olsa bo'ladi-ku chap ko'z ekanligini ;)
Stan
manam shunaqa deb oyludim, lekin ... demak rasmga sal egilib olingan ekande bomasam, chunki kozning traektoriyasi sal notogrimi diman. Asl rasmda demoqchiman ...
Wolfman
08-24-2005, 07:19 AM
bu rasm tepadan olingan, odam tepaga yo boshini yon burib yon tarafga qarasa boshini hiyol egishi - bu normal hol.
Stan
manam shunaqa deb oyludim, lekin ... demak rasmga sal egilib olingan ekande bomasam, chunki kozning traektoriyasi sal notogrimi diman. Asl rasmda demoqchiman ...
PainKiller
08-24-2005, 09:04 AM
hey kleo, why you are so rude?
I do not plan to have cyber sex with anyone, ok? and this is none of your business what I want.
watch what you say.:evil:Tegib kettimi? :rolleyes:
U do not need to be protective, sweetheart. I do not care even if u want to have a group sex with somebody.:lol:
Gareeb
08-24-2005, 09:12 AM
shart emas.
Royal
08-24-2005, 10:21 AM
eaaa, qiziq savol bo'ldi-ku, shundoq bilib olsa bo'ladi-ku chap ko'z ekanligini ;)
Stan
Qiz bolanikimi yoki Ogil bolanikimi ?
musoFR
08-24-2005, 04:42 PM
Qiz bolanikimi yoki Ogil bolanikimi ?
ana ... bunisi undanam qizu boldi.
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