"divorced woman"...is there something wrong???

[Aziz]

When you are talking with somebody and he tells you that this woman is divorced...how do you feel about her???
do you feel sorry?
or it's normal?
or you think that she is not a good woman?
what about divorced men?

[Пушкарева]

Nothing's wrong with that. Silly cultural prejudices. :twisted: None marries to divorce. Uzbek women are tolerant to their marriage life difficulties. So, if she is divorced - there should be a very serious reason for that.

When you are talking with somebody and he tells you that this woman is divorced...how do you feel about her???
do you feel sorry?
or it's normal?
or you think that she is not a good woman?
what about divorced men?

[PainKiller]

I do not know why somebody's marital status should make me feel different about him/her?

[Pinkie]

When you are talking with somebody and he tells you that this woman is divorced...how do you feel about her???
do you feel sorry?
or it's normal?
or you think that she is not a good woman?
what about divorced men?
Noo. I looked at a divorced man/woman the same way I look at everyone else-no difference. The reason....divorce is so common here (u.s) :lol:.

[Unique]

When you are talking with somebody and he tells you that this woman is divorced...how do you feel about her???
do you feel sorry?
or it's normal?
or you think that she is not a good woman?
what about divorced men?

I haven't met any couples who didn't have any ex-wife or ex-husband in the USA. I felt strange at first. But then I adjusted to it.

[Tokugawa]

voyvu 5-dan si yuqmi?:)
Bizada 3ku central time mi silada? :rolleyes:

Martin bro, do not flood, please. :)

On-topic: I do not really mind (even) marrying divorced woman, if she is honest and sincere. Any human makes mistakes.

[Пушкарева]

Respect, Tokugawa.


I do not really mind (even) marrying divorced woman, if she is honest and sincere. Any human makes mistakes.

[Sawaddeeka]

When you are talking with somebody and he tells you that this woman is divorced...how do you feel about her???
do you feel sorry?
or it's normal?
or you think that she is not a good woman?
what about divorced men?

Everything happens with reason, I think women shouldn't have to tolerate to their unworthy husband, some time divorce is the way and we can not judge that divorced women are not decent.

[runawaygirl]

We live in a Man's World...where women still get blamed...labelled...harassed...abused you name it.Why being a divorced man is ok,its nothing special but why do you think you should feel sorry for a divorced woman.What's wrong with this society?When marriage fails its not entirely her fault,HE IS ALSO INVOLVED.NO? Better ask yourself what drives women(especially those uzbek women living in harsh conditions,putting up with traditonal society)to leave their family?Maybe its time,Gentlemen,to point your finger at yourselves rather than blaming a woman for every small thing that goes wrong.

[runawaygirl]

Ne sudi i ne budesh sudim

[Guess]

Jalko nemnogo.... Lyudi, jenilis', nadeyas' sozdat' krepkuyu sem'yu... I kakimi bi ne bili faktori, povliyavshie na ih razriv, vsyo ravno bol'no.

[Royal]

Divorced couple who is expected from each other something which could be impossible to achchieve at once, but same time both side doesn't have any patience, understandings to each other and to hold they needs for the something which is they are looking for....

everything is in patience at the end...

[Lady]

nikogda nelzya nikogda osujdat.znachit takaya sudba.znachit tak Vsevishniy rasporyadilcya.navernyaka potom budet chelovek,kotoriy poimet i podderjit.a esli lubov nastoyashaya,to vse proshloe budet nevajnim,glavnoe bit silnim i verit v luchshee.))

[Vector]

what about divorced man? how do you see it? would you marry him?

on: i don't have any issues about divorced women, there should be a strong reason for that. If there are two options, one so so not married yet women and another one divorced women but very good, i would choose divorced one.

[UzbekGirlie]

I think getting a divorce is common practice these days not only US but in Uzbekistan as well (I learned this during my last trip in July)... if a marriage does not work out, instead of tolerating unhappiness and putting children through pain I rather people get a divorce. Therefore, when I see a divorced women her marital status in non of my bussiness and I will never judge people based on that. As far feeling sorry, not my place to do so.

[Guess]

what about divorced man? how do you see it? would you marry him?

Why not?! IMHO, razvedyonniy mujchini (jenschini) neskol'ko raz podumayut, prejde chem opyat stupit' na etu tropu. I sovsem drugimi glazami na brak smotryat.

[Sarahjon]

When you are talking with somebody and he tells you that this woman is divorced...how do you feel about her???

it depends - every case is different. if i know her well, and she is a good person with sound judgement, i now the divorce is for the good. i do not feel bad for her.

if she divorces due to an affair on a side, i feel sick to my stomach.


do you feel sorry? yes, if the husband leaves her with 3 kids and no ability to sustain them for the sake of his secretary.


or it's normal?
yes, when things don't exactly work out. why suffer?

or you think that she is not a good woman?
divorce per se is not an indicator of wheather a woman is good or bad. it's the whole package of that family's behaviour which defines my attitude to divorce and the woman involved there.

what about divorced men?
we all know that all men are *******s. ok,ok - not all. just kidding. some are even worse!

[Iqbol]

When you are talking with somebody and he tells you that this woman is divorced...how do you feel about her???
do you feel sorry?
or it's normal?
or you think that she is not a good woman?
what about divorced men?
Aziz, Why did you think that one necessarily should think sorry about a divorced person?
Do you think that the divorce is necessarily because of the fault of one of them? Or, do you think that between a divorced couple, one of them is necessarily guilty and the other is victim?
And, why do you think women are more probably not good if they are divorced rather than men?
Human soul is sophisticated, sometimes divorce can happen not because one of them is guilty or faulted or else. They can just lose feelings and decide to go each own way. Don't you remember the tradition where a young girl comes to Prophet saw and asks him if she could divorce her husband just because she doesn't have good feelings for him any more. And Prophet said that it was ok for her to divorce her husband without any reason but sentimental on condition that she returned her dot to husbands family. In this case none of them was pointed out for a guilt. Sometimes there is nothing wrong and nobody to blame for the divorce.

[UzbekGirlie]

you mean it's getting "trendy" in Uzb. to get divorced?:) you sounded like that.

as always Im impressed with the "brilliant" ideas coming out of your mind.

well thats what i meant... And it is true... I was there this summer and half of Tashkent was divorced... It is really trendy... And no need to be sarcastic...:D

[Vector]

well thats what i meant... And it is true... I was there this summer and half of Tashkent was divorced... It is really trendy... And no need to be sarcastic...:D

i think you are a bit wrong with your assumption, it is not true that half of the Tashkent is divorced, where did you get it, you were only ther on summer? as far as i know that's not the case. about trend, yeah maybe some movements to increase slightly, but not like critically.

[UzbekGirlie]

i think you are a bit wrong with your assumption, it is not true that half of the Tashkent is divorced, where did you get it, you were only ther on summer? as far as i know that's not the case. about trend, yeah maybe some movements to increase slightly, but not like critically.

My aunt is divorce lawyer in Uzb and she also mentioned that the divorce rate in Uzbekistan has high rocketed within the past 2 years. She said most couples get divorced within the 1st year of marriage now days... I was just checking out the statistics... It went from 7% to 43% in five years... I think this stat supports my assumption...

[StU]

there's only smthg wrong with our mentality :rolleyes:

[Angel_Lady]

When you are talking with somebody and he tells you that this woman is divorced...how do you feel about her???

it depends - every case is different. if i know her well, and she is a good person with sound judgement, i now the divorce is for the good. i do not feel bad for her.

if she divorces due to an affair on a side, i feel sick to my stomach.


do you feel sorry? yes, if the husband leaves her with 3 kids and no ability to sustain them for the sake of his secretary.


or it's normal?
yes, when things don't exactly work out. why suffer?

or you think that she is not a good woman?
divorce per se is not an indicator of wheather a woman is good or bad. it's the whole package of that family's behaviour which defines my attitude to divorce and the woman involved there.

what about divorced men?
we all know that all men are *******s. ok,ok - not all. just kidding. some are even worse!

Yeap! that is true!!! no comments!!! But mostly ppl blame women for everything not men.

[Кумушбиби]

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"Уйландим. Расулуллох соллаллоху алайхи васаллам менга: "Кандокка уйландинг?" дедилар.

"Эрдан чикканга", дедим.

"Киз олиб, у билан кyнгил ёзсанг бyлмасмиди?" дедилар.

"Эй, Аллохнинг Расули, Абдуллох вафот этиб, ортидан етти (ёки туккиз) кизни ташлаб кетди. Ушаларга кaраб турадиган шахсни келтирдим", дедим.

Шунда у зот менинг xакимга дуо килдилар".

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[madman02]

There is nothing wrong with that, everyone makes mistakes

[Prince]

Bizada prosto , hor qilishadi ajrashgan , yoki bazi sabablarga kora ersiz ayollarni!
yaxshimas bu.... , qoli bn korsatadi xamma , gapiradi mahalla kuy qoni qoshni..
Shorin qurgur beva ayol nima qilishini bilmiydi....

[Пушкарева]

SO, do you think it is right?



Bizada prosto , hor qilishadi ajrashgan , yoki bazi sabablarga kora ersiz ayollarni!
yaxshimas bu.... , qoli bn korsatadi xamma , gapiradi mahalla kuy qoni qoshni..
Shorin qurgur beva ayol nima qilishini bilmiydi....

[Prince]

NO I DONT think it's right....

[Angel_Lady]

Samoye glavnoye dusha cheloveka, a ne staraya devali ona ili razvedennaya. Nelzya sudit' cheloveka tolko potomushto u neyo ne slojilas jizn'. S lyubim takoe mojet proizoyti. U kajdogo svoya sud'ba, i eto ne pozvolyayet lyudyam po drugomu otnositsa i daje s kakimto prizreniyem k drugim kotorih ne slojilas' jizn'.

[Demir Kağan]

People must learn to respect the decisions of every one. If a woman want to be divorced, that's her choice and just respect. I don't feel anything because of the fact that there is nothing bad or abnormal.