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hungaryforever
05-23-2006, 06:57 PM
Hello devushki(qizlar)!

I'm a european boy, but I don't like the european style too much.
I mean the way european girl act. I don't want to go further details now why.
And I "met" virtually some very beautiful central-asian girls, and I started to think, and show interest, what should I need to date or marry to an uzbek girl. What are the expectations from uzbek girls?
Has any chance for it a non-uzbek at all?????
I'm really curious about it.
Any posts warmly welcomed. Feel free to post. In english if it is possible, but in uzbek also, I have a translator as well. :)
And one more thing, also posts by males are welcomed too!

many thanx in advance.


Peti

kingdom
05-23-2006, 07:11 PM
soory but i want to say that i dont like european girls as well!they r just for a sex and thats it not for marry!few of them can be nice wife!and if u decided to marry any uzbek girl i`ll respect ur opinion!:cool: good luck for ur searchings!:lol: Hello devushki(qizlar)!

I'm a european boy, but I don't like the european style too much.
I mean the way european girl act. I don't want to go further details now why.
And I "met" virtually some very beautiful central-asian girls, and I started to think, and show interest, what should I need to date or marry to an uzbek girl. What are the expectations from uzbek girls?
Has any chance for it a non-uzbek at all?????
I'm really curious about it.
Any posts warmly welcomed. Feel free to post. In english if it is possible, but in uzbek also, I have a translator as well. :)
And one more thing, also posts by males are welcomed too!

many thanx in advance.


Peti

Mirzabek
05-24-2006, 01:06 AM
You know the way that choose is good way and u have to get ur aim/
but there maybe some misunderstandings between u and ur future uzbek wife. It maybe ur mentality. If u wanna have wife u have to think like Asian man than u`ll see difference in ur relation. As kindom says european girls just only for sex...
Good luck in searching good wife...


omadla

Uyyonli
05-24-2006, 01:18 AM
You need to Muslem, and u should understand our culture, like parents, family is very strong, so u also need to represent your family to show that at least u and your family will have some respect to Uzbek cultures... but it is all simple though...
i whould like to respet the option u have chosen, and i believe u have a good choise...

Pinkie
05-24-2006, 07:33 AM
Most Uzbek girls are very family orientated, but I am sure this is something you already know :cool:.

Uzbekxonim
05-24-2006, 08:19 AM
by marring an Uzbek girl a man (foreigner) gets a lot of advantages comparing to the the situation if he would get married to the western girl.

1. man will get very caring wife, who would care attentively not only her husband, children but also his parents.
2. uzbek girls are very tolerent and patient, but it's better not try make them angry ;)
3. Asian girls are very emotional, passionate, hot...
4. most of Uzbek girls have very nice body and face features, i.e they are very beautifull as well as smart brains and knowledge of how to behave with a husband :).
5. Uzbek girls are very feminine comparing to westerns, so a man would enjoy his being male 'cos he would have very female wife (not as western male type women)
6. it would be more difficult to get divorced with an uzbek girl 'cos the majority are family oriented and consider marriage as an event that happens once in her life.

to get all this advantages you should be able to give an Uzbek girl a lot as well, such as love (caring), respect, friendship, good financial conditions etc 'cos we all know that nothing is for free in this life;)

referee
05-24-2006, 08:33 AM
Hello devushki(qizlar)!

I'm a european boy, but I don't like the european style too much.
I mean the way european girl act. I don't want to go further details now why.
And I "met" virtually some very beautiful central-asian girls, and I started to think, and show interest, what should I need to date or marry to an uzbek girl. What are the expectations from uzbek girls?
Has any chance for it a non-uzbek at all?????
I'm really curious about it.
Any posts warmly welcomed. Feel free to post. In english if it is possible, but in uzbek also, I have a translator as well. :)
And one more thing, also posts by males are welcomed too!

many thanx in advance.
Peti

Another way of learning if you can match to uzbek girls' expectations would be you telling what you can offer/bring to the marriage, and then see if girls agree that your expectations match theirs...

hungaryforever
05-24-2006, 11:33 AM
Thank you very much the answers dear friends, I'm amazed, that I got many in only 1 day time.
And I got very useful answers so far.
Just I'd like to add some things. It is not completely true, that european girls are good for only sex (though good sex is important) :D. But it is also true, that they are not so conservative, and if the drink alcohol, everything can happen, which is really not good. I'm saying this, despite I'm a man.
But the most important thing, which I don't like in most european girls, they try to act as a man. They manage the household alone, don't need caring, they try to show they are strong, and can live alone. So it is great to hear, that uzbek girls are not like that, and I must say, they are very pretty (for me at least) :oops:.

Uzbekxonim
05-24-2006, 11:45 AM
Thank you very much the answers dear friends, I'm amazed, that I got many in only 1 day time.
And I got very useful answers so far.
Just I'd like to add some things. It is not completely true, that european girls are good for only sex (though good sex is important) :D. But it is also true, that they are not so conservative, and if the drink alcohol, everything can happen, which is really not good. I'm saying this, despite I'm a man.
But the most important thing, which I don't like in most european girls, they try to act as a man. They manage the household alone, don't need caring, they try to show they are strong, and can live alone. So it is great to hear, that uzbek girls are not like that, and I must say, they are very pretty (for me at least) :oops:.

but please don't forget to read attentively this part of my post, Uzbek girls are quite smart ;)



to get all this advantages you should be able to give an Uzbek girl a lot as well, such as love (caring), respect, friendship, good financial conditions etc 'cos we all know that nothing is for free in this life;)

melo
05-24-2006, 12:32 PM
One thing to note- muslims girls don't marry non-muslim guys.

Also- Kingdom and Mirzabek- I am not interested in hearing who you use for sex. That's disgusting.

Uzbekxonim
05-24-2006, 01:06 PM
One thing to note- muslims girls don't marry non-muslim guys.

Also- Kingdom and Mirzabek- I am not interested in hearing who you use for sex. That's disgusting.

not always, i know a lot of cases when they married non-muslims and kept being muslim.

melo
05-24-2006, 01:13 PM
not always, i know a lot of cases when they married non-muslims and kept being muslim.

How do you raise children this way?

Another point- any girl willing to marry a foreigner and move away from her friends and family is obviously more independent and "westernized".

Uzbekxonim
05-24-2006, 01:37 PM
How do you raise children this way?


usually they say that a child himself/herself will choose which religion to take- mother's or father's.

hungaryforever
05-24-2006, 04:06 PM
Oops, I forgot to mention, that uzbek girls are smart. ;)

I'm a bit confused, when I read the reactions about religion. I'm not christian, I have no religion, which doesn't mean I don't respect all of them.
Of course it is bigger problem if a couple has different religions, but in my case, who doesn't care about much it, surely not a problem.
If my wife would want to keep her religion, then just do it. I let her do. I'm not a dictator. I'm a husband. At least I'd like to be. :cool:

Sawaddeeka
05-26-2006, 08:44 AM
soory but i want to say that i dont like european girls as well!they r just for a sex and thats it not for marry!few of them can be nice wife!and if u decided to marry any uzbek girl i`ll respect ur opinion!:cool: good luck for ur searchings!:lol:

That's very mean comment!!! Not all European girls are just for sex.I think you should get rid of that kind of stereo type and remember that all girls are to be respected !!!

Пушкарева
05-26-2006, 12:14 PM
What was your name? Piotr?? :lol:

Oops, I forgot to mention, that uzbek girls are smart. ;)

I'm a bit confused, when I read the reactions about religion. I'm not christian, I have no religion, which doesn't mean I don't respect all of them.
Of course it is bigger problem if a couple has different religions, but in my case, who doesn't care about much it, surely not a problem.
If my wife would want to keep her religion, then just do it. I let her do. I'm not a dictator. I'm a husband. At least I'd like to be. :cool:

Lady_G
05-26-2006, 12:20 PM
What was your name? Piotr?? :lol:
nea Péter :P

Пушкарева
05-26-2006, 12:21 PM
a, da. esimda shunga ohshagan bir nima edi. ;)


nea Péter :P

Oyaji
05-26-2006, 01:14 PM
I'm a bit confused, when I read the reactions about religion. I'm not christian, I have no religion, which doesn't mean I don't respect all of them.
Of course it is bigger problem if a couple has different religions, but in my case, who doesn't care about much it, surely not a problem.
If my wife would want to keep her religion, then just do it. I let her do. I'm not a dictator. I'm a husband. At least I'd like to be. :cool:

Uzbek girls in uzbekistan are getting more and more religious by-day (and not only girls). And they would want to marry only religious.

So if you want one, better hurry up.

Lady_G
05-26-2006, 03:09 PM
Uzbek girls in uzbekistan are getting more and more religious by-day (and not only girls). And they would want to marry only religious.

So if you want one, better hurry up.
He's already uzbek & soon he'll become a muslim. :cool::P

Oyaji
05-26-2006, 03:28 PM
He's already uzbek & soon he'll become a muslim. :cool::P

Do you think he should be converting to Islam if that requires winning a woman?!

Lady_G
05-26-2006, 03:43 PM
Do you think he should be converting to Islam if that requires winning a woman?!If he feels deep inside him, that he can keep all rules & respect traditions, why not? then so what if that requires winning a woman?

Administrator
05-27-2006, 05:37 PM
hungaryforever
where are u from?
so, al your problem is u want marry a virgin girl? right?

illminded
05-29-2006, 03:23 AM
This is a test, Moders can remove it.

hungaryforever
06-01-2006, 04:27 AM
Sorry, I couldn't connect to uzbekforum lately.
Dear Admin, my answer is no for your question.
I simply like what they look like, and there are many annoying things in european girls' behaviour, which I don't like. However I disagree, that all of them are ... As sby mentioned here. Virginity is not important for me, eventually I grown up in central-europe.
About the religion:
I'm not that religious, so if it is needed, I could convert Islam officially. Though I don't believe in God such way, but I always respected in every case the feelings of religious people. No matter they are christian, moslem, buddhist or other religion's follower.
So if I would have a moslem wife, I would respect her feelings always.
I don't respect only some sects, which are dangerous for the "community".

hungaryforever
06-01-2006, 04:28 AM
hungaryforever
where are u from?


I'm hungarian, and living in Hungary.
I consider myself hungarian, though as I looked for the family tree, I have found some german, slovak and a little italian root too. ;)

Пушкарева
06-01-2006, 05:03 AM
hmmm, Pet'ka yahshi bolaga o'hshidimi deyman...

Wolfman
06-01-2006, 05:57 AM
nomingizdan sovchi bo'lib boriymi? :)



Wolf


hmmm, Pet'ka yahshi bolaga o'hshidimi deyman...

Пушкарева
06-01-2006, 06:51 AM
mayli borovuring

nomingizdan sovchi bo'lib boriymi? :)



Wolf

infolife
06-01-2006, 07:11 AM
Sorry, I couldn't connect to uzbekforum lately.
Dear Admin, my answer is no for your question.
I simply like what they look like, and there are many annoying things in european girls' behaviour, which I don't like. However I disagree, that all of them are ... As sby mentioned here.

how can u decide to marry someone just because u simply like what she looks like? and who told you all uzbek girls are very well-behaved angels?

(in general though, they r more family oriented and have good morals about marriage-agreed upon!but u have to look for one, not blindly grab any uzbek girl walking in the streets of Hungary)


Virginity is not important for me, eventually I grown up in central-europe.

if itsn't important for you, then you are most likely to have committed adultry yourself. If this is the case, you have to marry a girl who has got the same opinion about virginity and who is not a virgin.

Muslims for muslims, mushreekens for mushreekens and kaafirs for kaafirs.


About the religion:
I'm not that religious, so if it is needed, I could convert Islam officially. Though I don't believe in God such way, but I always respected in every case the feelings of religious people. No matter they are christian, moslem, buddhist or other religion's follower.
So if I would have a moslem wife, I would respect her feelings always.
I don't respect only some sects, which are dangerous for the "community".

uzbeks girls.if they are muslims, are not allowed to marry u unless u become a muslim. U can't convert to Islam for the saking of marrying a muslim girl and keep disbeleiving GOD. U would never be able to fulfill your duties as a muslim husband unless u understand Islam a bit better than u do now.
And also from what u have written about virginity I wouldnt assume u can accept Islam in the near future

Good luck with wife-hunting, but leave uzbeks. u r nt compatible for uzbek girls

melo
06-01-2006, 10:35 AM
if itsn't important for you, then you are most likely to have committed adultry yourself. If this is the case, you have to marry a girl who has got the same opinion about virginity and who is not a virgin.

Muslims for muslims, mushreekens for mushreekens and kaafirs for kaafirs.



Hey sis, your comments seem a bit harsh. I think you are assuming too much.

Yaxshibola
06-01-2006, 12:24 PM
mayli borovuringQani qani, bergan va'dalar qani (c) qo'shudan?

Manga tegaman dip endi butta boshqaga borurinmushde, eee

NYyankNY
06-01-2006, 01:14 PM
Qani qani, bergan va'dalar qani (c) qo'shudan?

Manga tegaman dip endi butta boshqaga borurinmushde, eee

eeeeehhhhhhhh shu bolani yuraglar gon boldi
shu bolaga hoy dip guying nazbutkaxon:lool:

Lady_G
06-01-2006, 01:23 PM
NYyankNY, Yahshibola!

Offtop qilishni bas qilila! Temaga tegishli hech gapiz bo'masa ana boshqa threadga o'tingla, ortiqcha yana post qoldirsaizla chiroyli Warning bn tabriklab qo'yamiz :) .

daejeon
06-01-2006, 01:27 PM
NYyankNY, Yahshibola!

Offtop qilishni bas qilila! Temaga tegishli hech gapiz bo'masa ana boshqa threadga o'tingla,
yoki uzforumtochkakomga utilarde a tugrimi g'oy :lol:
ortiqcha yana post qoldirsaizla chiroyli Warning bn tabriklab qo'yamiz :) .
huddi sizzi qizartirishkandemi :lol:

hungaryforever
06-01-2006, 01:29 PM
Dear Infolife!

I think you miseunderstood my post.
So once more, I don't chose any girls, just because they look pretty. The mind is also important for me.
About virginity:
It is really not important for me, that my future wife would be virgin. If she is, of course it is also ok for me.
I know (at least here) it is important for the girls, and maybe for uzbek boys too(that their wife should be virgin), but are the boys virgin too? ;)
As I said, I respect every religion, excluded the dangerous sects. Why do you think I woldn't tolerate my future wife's religion?
If I fall in love with a woman, I consider her as my goddess. I don't want a slave, I want my other half.
Actually, my sister will marry to a moslem guy from Pakistan. And they will move to Canada. I don't say, there are no problems, but they understand each other. Some problems are with his family, who doesn't accept some of my sister's "behaviour".
I think the most important is to respect each other. Will write more, but I have ot go now.

Btw, what means your dialog nezabudka? Sorry I don't speak in uzbek (yet).

salbert
06-01-2006, 01:31 PM
NYyankNY, Yahshibola!

Offtop qilishni bas qilila! Temaga tegishli hech gapiz bo'masa ana boshqa threadga o'tingla, ortiqcha yana post qoldirsaizla chiroyli Warning bn tabriklab qo'yamiz :) .

medoratorlar bilan oldi berdiz bormi aLady_g
worning berayxon bop gopsiz :lool:

PHOENIX
06-01-2006, 01:36 PM
Btw, what means your dialog nezabudka? Sorry I don't speak in uzbek (yet).

But do you speak russian? I beleive many uzbek girls (I don't know much about other nations) speak russian fluently, instead of english. ;)

PS: (to all) Stop flooding!

hungaryforever
06-01-2006, 02:34 PM
Unfortunately I don't speak russian either, I confess, I learnt at school, many years ago, but the language itself wasn't popular, cause it was the language of the occupators.

Lady_G
06-01-2006, 02:39 PM
Actually, my sister will marry to a moslem guy from Pakistan.A. is a really nice guy :P

shady_lady
06-01-2006, 03:11 PM
Hey boys, you are missing something!!!!!
Not European Girls are about SEX
It is mostly in US
Cause I have a bunch of girlfriends who are Europeans and they are VERY NICE GIRLS
So please without LABELING AND STANDARTIZING :((((

melo
06-01-2006, 03:14 PM
Hey boys, you are missing something!!!!!
Not European Girls are about SEX
It is mostly in US
Cause I have a bunch of girlfriends who are Europeans and they are VERY NICE GIRLS
So please without LABELING AND STANDARTIZING :((((

so you are saying the label is wrong for one group (European girls) and then decided to label another group (US girls)? :rolleyes: Do you see the irony in your words?

shady_lady
06-01-2006, 03:31 PM
You sound like dictator to me
It seems like you want an Asia wife just because they do not want or ca not to be equal to men
I mean i am pretty conservative too but you still sond like dictator to me =)

shady_lady
06-01-2006, 03:34 PM
hey i do
however in procentage that I ve met
US girls think about sex-99%
Europeans-45%
Asians (Asians)-75%
People from Eastern Europe and Post-USSR countries to say truth I do not know =)

Yaxshibola
06-01-2006, 03:42 PM
hey i do
however in procentage that I ve met
US girls think about sex-99%
Europeans-45%
Asians (Asians)-75%
People from Eastern Europe and Post-USSR countries to say truth I do not know =)what do u say about websex with me?

shady_lady
06-01-2006, 03:44 PM
Dear Infolife!

I think you miseunderstood my post.
So once more, I don't chose any girls, just because they look pretty. The mind is also important for me.
About virginity:
It is really not important for me, that my future wife would be virgin. If she is, of course it is also ok for me.
I know (at least here) it is important for the girls, and maybe for uzbek boys too(that their wife should be virgin), but are the boys virgin too? ;)
As I said, I respect every religion, excluded the dangerous sects. Why do you think I woldn't tolerate my future wife's religion?
If I fall in love with a woman, I consider her as my goddess. I don't want a slave, I want my other half.
Actually, my sister will marry to a moslem guy from Pakistan. And they will move to Canada. I don't say, there are no problems, but they understand each other. Some problems are with his family, who doesn't accept some of my sister's "behaviour".
I think the most important is to respect each other. Will write more, but I have ot go now.

Btw, what means your dialog nezabudka? Sorry I don't speak in uzbek (yet).
Oh man you are crazy
I do not understand what your sister husband Pakistani guy has to do with Uzbek Girls
By the way many post-USSR countries even though they practice Muslim religion are different from countries like Pakistan because of Communism =) Keep this in mind boy

shady_lady
06-01-2006, 03:46 PM
what do u say about websex with me?
Hell no
just if u gonna married me
But because of the marriage isnt in my plans for next 3 years so SORRY =)

melo
06-01-2006, 03:48 PM
hey i do
however in procentage that I ve met
US girls think about sex-99%
Europeans-45%
Asians (Asians)-75%
People from Eastern Europe and Post-USSR countries to say truth I do not know =)

Very interesting poll results. Any numbers for Africans, Latin Americans, or Australians?

Lady_G
06-01-2006, 03:49 PM
Very interesting poll results. Any numbers for Africans, Latin Americans, or Australians?
Africans - 100%
Australians - 67%

salbert
06-01-2006, 03:50 PM
Oh man you are crazy
I do not understand what your sister husband Pakistani guy has to do with Uzbek Girls
By the way many post-USSR countries even though they practice Muslim religion are different from countries like Pakistan because of Communism =) Keep this in mind boy

ow ow ow ow slim shady cane i tall you some thing
i don't think oll muslim guys r like you think the r :shock: :twisted:

shady_lady
06-01-2006, 03:54 PM
ow ow ow ow slim shady cane i tall you some thing
i don't think oll muslim guys r like you think the r :shock: :twisted:

Hello I am female
did not you notice LADY in my nick
And there is nothing with slim it is Shady
U ve better open your eyes wider =)

shady_lady
06-01-2006, 03:56 PM
Africans - 100%
Australians - 67%

OMG, girl you so right =)

melo
06-01-2006, 03:57 PM
Interesting poll results on who googles sex the most:

http://www.google.com/trends?q=sex

It doesn't support your results shady lady. ;)

salbert
06-01-2006, 03:59 PM
Hello I am female
did not you notice LADY in my nick
And there is nothing with slim it is Shady
U ve better open your eyes wider =)

whate hapens if i open my eyes wider '
cane i see some thing r you like to show me shady :lool:

salbert
06-01-2006, 04:00 PM
Interesting poll results on who googles sex the most:

http://www.google.com/trends?q=sex

It doesn't support your results shady lady. ;)

sex is good 6days week ;)

shady_lady
06-01-2006, 04:06 PM
Interesting poll results on who googles sex the most:

http://www.google.com/trends?q=sex

It doesn't support your results shady lady. ;)

Please read it again
Do not u think that it is on my own experience because of phrase
however in procentage that I ve met
US girls think about sex-99%
Europeans-45%
Asians (Asians)-75%
People from Eastern Europe and Post-USSR countries to say truth I do not know =)

shady_lady
06-01-2006, 04:08 PM
What u wonna see =?

salbert
06-01-2006, 04:11 PM
What u wonna see =?

cane see little shady :lool:

Yaxshibola
06-01-2006, 04:12 PM
Hell no
just if u gonna married me
But because of the marriage isnt in my plans for next 3 years so SORRY =)My Jonginam, before marriage we have to check each others personality

shady_lady
06-01-2006, 04:13 PM
Sorry boy I do not have time
School and work take every second of it

StU
06-01-2006, 04:19 PM
Hello devushki(qizlar)!

I'm a european boy, but I don't like the european style too much.
I mean the way european girl act. I don't want to go further details now why.
And I "met" virtually some very beautiful central-asian girls, and I started to think, and show interest, what should I need to date or marry to an uzbek girl. What are the expectations from uzbek girls?
Has any chance for it a non-uzbek at all?????
I'm really curious about it.
Any posts warmly welcomed. Feel free to post. In english if it is possible, but in uzbek also, I have a translator as well. :)
And one more thing, also posts by males are welcomed too!

many thanx in advance.


Peti
Well i guess the most important expectation from the view of an uzbek girl is some kind of giving her security and safety feeling and not each european guy can understand this, since the european culture promotes female independancy and feminism. Our girls are still traditional and conservative in these matters, even if they are modern though.
That is my general opinion on the mental differences of western and eastern cultures.

shady_lady
06-01-2006, 04:25 PM
Well i guess the most important expectation from the view of an uzbek girl is some kind of giving her security and safety feeling and not each european guy can understand this, since the european culture promotes female independancy and feminism. Our girls are still traditional and conservative in these matters, even if they are modern though.
That is my general opinion on the mental differences of western and eastern cultures.

You know what , I think I am agree with you =)

melo
06-01-2006, 04:29 PM
Well i guess the most important expectation from the view of an uzbek girl is some kind of giving her security and safety feeling and not each european guy can understand this, since the european culture promotes female independancy and feminism. Our girls are still traditional and conservative in these matters, even if they are modern though.
That is my general opinion on the mental differences of western and eastern cultures.

I think I understand most of your point, except: What exactly do you mean when you say traditional, conservative and modern? Seems conflicting to mix traditional and modern together.

shady_lady
06-01-2006, 04:33 PM
Hey i do not think there is a problem in mixing traditional with modern
Cause u can be modern by being tolerante to others (for exm, accept their modern views) and at the same time to be traditional to yourself (in a way what ur views are)

StU
06-01-2006, 04:37 PM
I think I understand most of your point, except: What exactly do you mean when you say traditional, conservative and modern? Seems conflicting to mix traditional and modern together.

By modern and still very traditional I meant, that our generation (or only part of it) has already developed western views on many things, but we kept our traditional values on the role of woman and man.

melo
06-01-2006, 04:41 PM
By modern and still very traditional I meant, that our generation (or only part of it) has already developed western views on many things, but we kept our traditional values on the role of woman and man.

maybe a very small part of it.;)

I have decided I must be from a very traditional family too.:) So which western views do you think uzbek girls gained?

Lady_G
06-01-2006, 04:44 PM
I know (at least here) it is important for the girls, and maybe for uzbek boys too(that their wife should be virgin), but are the boys virgin too? ;)good point! Ladies, what do you think about that? Are the boys have to be virgin too?

shady_lady
06-01-2006, 04:46 PM
good point! Ladies, what do you think about that? Are the boys have to be virgin too?
I believe I have to stay virgine till marriage but not males
:D

shady_lady
06-01-2006, 04:49 PM
maybe a very small part of it.;)

I have decided I must be from a very traditional family too.:) So which western views do you think uzbek girls gained?

Xm critical analysis=)

hungaryforever
06-01-2006, 04:51 PM
I believe I have to stay virgine till marriage but not males
:D

Hm, interesting point of view. So your traditions allow more for the males then the females?
Did I get it well?

Pinkie
06-01-2006, 04:52 PM
I believe I have to stay virgine till marriage but not males
:D
Maybe I live on another planet, but I think its important for my husband to be a virgin too. I don't want him to have any STDs :rolleyes:.

melo
06-01-2006, 04:57 PM
I believe I have to stay virgine till marriage but not males
:D

sorry- but I think that is terrible. Why should the rules not be the same for men and women?:shock: And who are these guys going to sleep with if the girls need to be virgins? :rolleyes:

shady_lady
06-01-2006, 04:58 PM
Hm, interesting point of view. So your traditions allow more for the males then the females?
Did I get it well?

Hey boy u got me wrong
It is MY BELIEVE
it is not about traditions
It is MY OWN OPINION


PLeaseeeee , someone, tell these people that words Believe , think, In my Opinion are expressing personal opinion and not statistics or facts =(

shady_lady
06-01-2006, 05:00 PM
sorry- but I think that is terrible. Why should the rules not be the same for men and women?:shock: And who are these guys going to sleep with if the girls need to be virgins? :rolleyes:

Hey here we go you just was example of being traditional and modern at the same time =)
However i do not know which part takes more in u =)

StU
06-01-2006, 05:01 PM
maybe a very small part of it.;)

I have decided I must be from a very traditional family too.:) So which western views do you think uzbek girls gained?

I may give you an example: in the past and even today the dominant opinion in the families was - that the daughters do not necessarily need education. It was enough for a girl to have the school certificate and afterwards maybe some practical household courses. And i dare to say, that this has changed somehow, may be to a very little degree, but still. Our young girls nowadays understand themselves the importance of education and the equality of their right on it.

Lady_G
06-01-2006, 05:02 PM
Hey here we go you just was example of being traditional and modern at the same time =)

exactly :D !

hungaryforever
06-01-2006, 05:02 PM
Hey boy u got me wrong
It is MY BELIEVE
it is not about traditions
It is MY OWN OPINION


PLeaseeeee , someone, tell these people that words Believe , think, In my Opinion are expressing personal opinion and not statistics or facts =(

Ok, then it was a misunderstood, like you did at my earlier post.

But I'm thinking on 1 thing now. If virginity is needed for girls at marriage, and at boys it doesn't(and I bet, most boys are not virgins), then how they make love before marriage?

StU
06-01-2006, 05:04 PM
Maybe I live on another planet, but I think its important for my husband to be a virgin too. I don't want him to have any STDs :rolleyes:.
If you are both inexperient, doyou rely yourself on the nature to work it out? :rolleyes:

shady_lady
06-01-2006, 05:04 PM
Ok, then it was a misunderstood, like you did at my earlier post.

But I'm thinking on 1 thing now. If virginity is needed for girls at marriage, and at boys it doesn't(and I bet, most boys are not virgins), then how they make love before marriage?

Hahahaha there come all Australians Africans Americans Asians hahahhaha=)
By the way it is me being sarcastic =)

melo
06-01-2006, 05:05 PM
If you are both inexperient, doyou rely yourself on the nature to work it out? :rolleyes:

It isn't that difficult to figure out. :rolleyes: You don't really need a slutty guy to show you. :lol:

shady_lady
06-01-2006, 05:06 PM
If you are both inexperient, doyou rely yourself on the nature to work it out? :rolleyes:


This was a good one =)

hey guys u make me laugh a lot I love you all

StU
06-01-2006, 05:06 PM
Ok, then it was a misunderstood, like you did at my earlier post.

But I'm thinking on 1 thing now. If virginity is needed for girls at marriage, and at boys it doesn't(and I bet, most boys are not virgins), then how they make love before marriage?

there are many of other girls, which are not so conservative, or else others offering their services i guess :rolleyes:

shady_lady
06-01-2006, 05:08 PM
How u know =)
Dont tell me that u've got it from books
... or maybe u did ???

StU
06-01-2006, 05:08 PM
It isn't that difficult to figure out. :rolleyes: You don't really need a slutty guy to show you. :lol:

ohh yes it is!! And I heard some nice stories :lol: where it didn't help.

Pinkie
06-01-2006, 05:09 PM
If you are both inexperient, doyou rely yourself on the nature to work it out? :rolleyes:
It's sex, not quantum physics! :P

shady_lady
06-01-2006, 05:09 PM
there are many of other girls, which are not so conservative, or else others offering their services i guess :rolleyes:
yep u right

StU
06-01-2006, 05:11 PM
How u know =)
Dont tell me that u've got it from books
... or maybe u did ???

i said i guess ;)

melo
06-01-2006, 05:11 PM
ohh yes it is!! And I heard some nice stories :lol: where it didn't help.

Well- everyone has a first time, right? So you are saying you would rather marry a guy who has "experience"? You don't find that insulting or dangerous at all?:shock:

shady_lady
06-01-2006, 05:15 PM
i said i guess ;)

hey it was not for you bu=y the way it was for atpaint

sorry if u misunderstood me
by the way I agreed with u =)

StU
06-01-2006, 05:15 PM
It's sex, not quantum physics! :P

Btw, If you marry an uzbek you'll get some preliminary consultation ;) on your wedding day, and if that won't work you always have a moderator (named yenga)

StU
06-01-2006, 05:22 PM
Well- everyone has a first time, right? So you are saying you would rather marry a guy who has "experience"? You don't find that insulting or dangerous at all?:shock:

I didn't say that :lol:. It is true that virgin girls in our culture have much more value than experienced ones. And it's no use to discuss, whether it is bad or good, i wouldn't wish for my culture to end up with what I can see in Germany right now (*where the men are frightend by their feministic women, and the men are not really men and the women are not real women). What can i say: it's a man's world :rolleyes:...

hungaryforever
06-01-2006, 05:22 PM
I love to reading the posts. I know more and more about uzbek people's mind.
That's good. I love to know more and more cultures.
And finally, why I started this topic:
Cause I'm really fed up with most european girls behaviour.
I was betrayed too many times, and I don't like the way, that they show, they are happy alone, they don't need boys, they don't need caring, tenderness, while deep in their heart, they need it badly.
And that's why, they are frustrated. And boys are also frustrated, cause of it, and cause of, that many times they are unemployed, or girls have better jobs, and traditionally the man brought the money home. So all of the society is frustrated, and don't understand each other.
I need such girl, who is a bit conservative, leading the household (but with the help of the man!), can cook etc, but I don't want a slave as I said many times, just I think there are things, which girls can do better, and there are things, which can boys do better. and I don't want to say also, that a girl doesn't need education!

hungaryforever
06-01-2006, 05:23 PM
I didn't say that :lol:. It is true that virgin girls in our culture have much more value than experienced ones. And it's no use to discuss, whether it is bad or good, i wouldn't wish for my culture to end up with what I can see in Germany right now (*where the men are frightend by their feministic women, and the men are not really men and the women are not real women). What can i say: it's a man's world :rolleyes:...
Huhh! You were faster, I think the same exactly!
But I disagrre, with the last sentence. It is not a men's world. As I got it from posts, traditional uzbek culture favorizing men more. Or I missed sthing.

shady_lady
06-01-2006, 05:29 PM
Okay guys I am agree with you
Women need Eduction in Men's World =)

StU
06-01-2006, 05:34 PM
Huhh! You were faster, I think the same exactly!
But I disagrre, with the last sentence. It is not a men's world. As I got it from posts, traditional uzbek culture favorizing men more. Or I missed sthing.

I heard once our minister saying to the foreign delegation: uzbek women are also humans.

hungaryforever
06-01-2006, 05:36 PM
Our minister means uzbek minsiter, or german?

PHOENIX
06-01-2006, 05:36 PM
I heard once our minister saying to the foreign delegation: uzbek women are also humans.

What did he mean by that? :rolleyes:

melo
06-01-2006, 05:38 PM
I didn't say that :lol:. It is true that virgin girls in our culture have much more value than experienced ones. And it's no use to discuss, whether it is bad or good, i wouldn't wish for my culture to end up with what I can see in Germany right now (*where the men are frightend by their feministic women, and the men are not really men and the women are not real women). What can i say: it's a man's world :rolleyes:...

What creates a "man's world" is that everyone accepts the double standard.:rolleyes:

referee
06-01-2006, 05:40 PM
Reading through the posts, an image of a kitten conjures up in my mind. The kitten is playing with a thread and enjoying every moment of it. She thinks how great it is that she has a pal to play with. Sometimes the kitten gets annoyed at the thread, and sometimes she cannot understand its erratic moves and jumps. Little that she knows that it is not a tread that she's playing with, but a boy is having fun with the kitten through the help of the thread.
The moral: Being a kitten makes you only a part of someone's game. You play by his rules and in his terms. Find your own game, and play as an equal...

Hope my dear sisters will get a drift of the story;)

PHOENIX
06-01-2006, 05:40 PM
What creates a "man's world" is that everyone accepts the double standard.:rolleyes:

Actually, how can you imagine the world without those double standarts?

PS: I would suggest you to look at this (http://forum.arbuz.com/showpost.php?p=446792&postcount=8). Of course, in case if you know a russian.

StU
06-01-2006, 05:41 PM
What did he mean by that? :rolleyes:

uzbek minister: his wife was serving the guests and not sitting with them, which was quite surprizing for the Germans, so they asked him to invite her to sit near them. And he said to her, come now and join us - women are also humans.

melo
06-01-2006, 05:43 PM
How u know =)
Dont tell me that u've got it from books
... or maybe u did ???

I guess I am a genius. I figured it out okay:P I am not willing to talk about human anatomy here, but it seems quite obivious to me.

melo
06-01-2006, 06:01 PM
Actually, how can you imagine the world without those double standarts?

PS: I would suggest you to look at this (http://forum.arbuz.com/showpost.php?p=446792&postcount=8). Of course, in case if you know a russian.


Sorry- I don't know russian.:( :oops:

I think it is possible to create your own world without double standards. I treat everyone how I would like to be treated. And my relationship with my wife is not about benefiting from her, but instead about loving her. I think a mutual respect is important. I see no reason why moral rules differ between us.

hungaryforever
06-01-2006, 06:07 PM
Reading through the posts, an image of a kitten conjures up in my mind. The kitten is playing with a thread and enjoying every moment of it. She thinks how great it is that she has a pal to play with. Sometimes the kitten gets annoyed at the thread, and sometimes she cannot understand its erratic moves and jumps. Little that she knows that it is not a tread that she's playing with, but a boy is having fun with the kitten through the help of the thread.
The moral: Being a kitten makes you only a part of someone's game. You play by his rules and in his terms. Find your own game, and play as an equal...

Hope my dear sisters will get a drift of the story;)
Dear referee!
I'm answering your post. You are rather rude with me, though you tried to hide under a masque. Not good. Be straight. If you have problems with me, write that down.
Do you know me? I guess not. See my posts, not only in this thread. I think I have never given reasons for such behaviour, I was always polite, or tried to be.
I started this topic not for fun, believe me. I wanted to get opinions, and reactions, but should I explain more here? I guess not. Are you jealous of me? Or any other reason?
I give you a yellow card.

Pinkie
06-01-2006, 06:31 PM
Btw, If you marry an uzbek you'll get some preliminary consultation ;) on your wedding day, and if that won't work you always have a moderator (named yenga)
I am not surprised, since I have heard this explantion before. If yenga wants to inspect my life, I have nothing to hide. If she does not like me, that's a completely different story :laugh:.

Tabriz_Han
06-01-2006, 07:26 PM
Studentin
Btw, If you marry an uzbek you'll get some preliminary consultation ;) on your wedding day, and if that won't work you always have a moderator (named yenga)


:lol: :P :lol:

That's so true (It must be a common trait we have)


Pinkie
I am not surprised, since I have heard this explantion before. If yenga wants to inspect my life, I have nothing to hide. If she does not like me, that's a completely different story


That again is so true lol

P.s, the woman goooooooossip unbelievably I mean really its amazing the extent of this gossiping and jelousy can be a big problem also don't listen to the stories about the "goody goody passive girls" our woman can be very powerfull and vocal that's why you goto be a "man" Tash gibi erkek :P

referee
06-02-2006, 04:22 AM
Dear referee!
I'm answering your post. You are rather rude with me, though you tried to hide under a masque. Not good. Be straight. If you have problems with me, write that down.
Do you know me? I guess not. See my posts, not only in this thread. I think I have never given reasons for such behaviour, I was always polite, or tried to be.
I started this topic not for fun, believe me. I wanted to get opinions, and reactions, but should I explain more here? I guess not. Are you jealous of me? Or any other reason?
I give you a yellow card.

My dear hungaryforever,

I am at odds as to why you felt that I'd been rude to you or that I was insincere. If anything, I was genuine in saying what I felt when I glanced through this thread. And I did not blamed/shamed anyone, and if you came forward as the insulted one then please bring forward your reasons...

I have no issues with you, honest. But I feel uneasy when I see some of our sisters catching a bait without noticing it. If one says there is no bait, and he's not playing a psycho-analytical game, then, as well as trying to learn/unwrap about someone or her culture, he needs to unwrap himself and his agenda first of all... I have no objections to you, but to the thread's style. It's pretty straightforward, it's give and take;)

On yellow card, join the long queue of those who've tried, to no avail:D

kingdom
06-03-2006, 06:09 AM
this thread is closed!reason:Hungaryforever didnt find his girl in this forum!:lol: :lol: :lol:

shady_lady
06-03-2006, 12:21 PM
LOl nice ending =)
So it means no more fun =(

Be happy don't worry

kingdom
06-03-2006, 08:14 PM
yoki uziyiz turmushga chiqib mavzuni tugatib quyasizmi?yomon bolaga uxshamiydi!:lol: :lol: :lol: LOl nice ending =)
So it means no more fun =(

Be happy don't worry

hungaryforever
06-03-2006, 09:12 PM
I'm here, if sby missed me, I was too busy in last 2 days.

Answering to referee, I can read among lines. One thing I tell you, I didn't open this topic to laugh on girls who are disputing each other. I'm not the one whose playing with kittens. That's all.

hungaryforever
06-08-2006, 08:44 PM
Hm, the main problem, it seems, only a few people thought I took this thread serious (thanx a lot to them for it!).
But I have learnt a lot from the posts really.

illusion
06-16-2006, 07:32 PM
LOL, one very important thing you should know: All Uzbek Girls are Gold-Diggers!!! So you better change your mind right now ;)

Demir Kağan
06-16-2006, 07:48 PM
by marring an Uzbek girl a man (foreigner) gets a lot of advantages comparing to the the situation if he would get married to the western girl.

1. man will get very caring wife, who would care attentively not only her husband, children but also his parents.
2. uzbek girls are very tolerent and patient, but it's better not try make them angry ;)
3. Asian girls are very emotional, passionate, hot...
4. most of Uzbek girls have very nice body and face features, i.e they are very beautifull as well as smart brains and knowledge of how to behave with a husband :).
5. Uzbek girls are very feminine comparing to westerns, so a man would enjoy his being male 'cos he would have very female wife (not as western male type women)
6. it would be more difficult to get divorced with an uzbek girl 'cos the majority are family oriented and consider marriage as an event that happens once in her life.

to get all this advantages you should be able to give an Uzbek girl a lot as well, such as love (caring), respect, friendship, good financial conditions etc 'cos we all know that nothing is for free in this life;)

After reading this, I will marry an Uzbek lady soon. Find me one please! :cool:

The Reaper
06-16-2006, 08:27 PM
Hello devushki(qizlar)!

I'm a european boy, but I don't like the european style too much.
I mean the way european girl act. I don't want to go further details now why.
And I "met" virtually some very beautiful central-asian girls, and I started to think, and show interest, what should I need to date or marry to an uzbek girl. What are the expectations from uzbek girls?
Has any chance for it a non-uzbek at all?????
I'm really curious about it.
Any posts warmly welcomed. Feel free to post. In english if it is possible, but in uzbek also, I have a translator as well. :)
And one more thing, also posts by males are welcomed too!

many thanx in advance.


Peti

Honestly, you freak me out.
Just your style and the logic behind the post is outright ridiculous. You sound like a total loser, or some kind of a pedophile.

Posts by males are welcomed too!

Well thank you.
Honestly, I think you should stick to Hungarian girls. Our Uzbek gene pool has enough of dumbasses already.

No hard feelings. :D

TR

hungaryforever
06-16-2006, 08:34 PM
Honestly, you freak me out.
Just your style and the logic behind the post is outright ridiculous. You sound like a total loser, or some kind of a pedophile.



Well thank you.
Honestly, I think you should stick to Hungarian girls. Our Uzbek gene pool has enough of dumbasses already.

No hard feelings. :D

TR

I think you are a racist, and a complete idiot.
At least I think so.

The Reaper
06-16-2006, 08:44 PM
I think you are a racist, and a complete idiot.
At least I think so.

You are more than welcomed to be entitled to your opinion.
My opinion of you remains the same.

If you post stupid sh*t on a message board, it's all fair game.
Do you still live with your parents? Chances are, you still do.

If "dumbass" is a race, then yes, I'm racist. :D

TR

The Reaper
06-16-2006, 09:32 PM
Dear Infolife!

I think you miseunderstood my post.
So once more, I don't chose any girls, just because they look pretty. The mind is also important for me.
About virginity:
It is really not important for me, that my future wife would be virgin. If she is, of course it is also ok for me.
I know (at least here) it is important for the girls, and maybe for uzbek boys too(that their wife should be virgin), but are the boys virgin too? ;)
As I said, I respect every religion, excluded the dangerous sects. Why do you think I woldn't tolerate my future wife's religion?
If I fall in love with a woman, I consider her as my goddess. I don't want a slave, I want my other half.
Actually, my sister will marry to a moslem guy from Pakistan. And they will move to Canada. I don't say, there are no problems, but they understand each other. Some problems are with his family, who doesn't accept some of my sister's "behaviour".
I think the most important is to respect each other. Will write more, but I have ot go now.

Btw, what means your dialog nezabudka? Sorry I don't speak in uzbek (yet).

After quickly looking through this thread and reading your posts, I now order you to pull your head out of your ass, and bang it real hard against the table, then go whine to mommy about how Reaper The Terrible made you feel sad and lonely.

You're one of these or a combo of:
1) Dumb as dumb could ever get.
2) Closeted gay.
3) Pedophile.

TR

Pitpilliki
05-30-2007, 11:55 PM
It is not completely true, that european girls are good for only sex (though good sex is important) :D. I must say, they are very pretty (for me at least) :oops:.

:D))))I like this part=)))) Hahahaha :P))

Pitpilliki
05-31-2007, 12:06 AM
Dear referee!
I'm answering your post. You are rather rude with me, though you tried to hide under a masque. Not good. Be straight. If you have problems with me, write that down.
Do you know me? I guess not. See my posts, not only in this thread. I think I have never given reasons for such behaviour, I was always polite, or tried to be.
I started this topic not for fun, believe me. I wanted to get opinions, and reactions, but should I explain more here? I guess not. Are you jealous of me? Or any other reason?
I give you a yellow card.

+1 ;)) Even u have started this topic only for fun, we are having a fun too. I really enjoy readin answers in this thread, and some are really interesting and usefull , for me at least;)

Slimshady
06-04-2007, 02:42 PM
Hello devushki(qizlar)!

I'm a european boy, but I don't like the european style too much.
I mean the way european girl act. I don't want to go further details now why.
And I "met" virtually some very beautiful central-asian girls, and I started to think, and show interest, what should I need to date or marry to an uzbek girl. What are the expectations from uzbek girls?
Has any chance for it a non-uzbek at all?????
I'm really curious about it.
Any posts warmly welcomed. Feel free to post. In english if it is possible, but in uzbek also, I have a translator as well. :)
And one more thing, also posts by males are welcomed too!

many thanx in advance.


Peti


EEE Petya eEE koygin shunaka gaplarni.... jinni pinni bopkomaganmisan??? Senga uzbek kizi emas uzbek pashayam tegmedi.... yigishtir tovuk shurvangni... kalla bomi...??

Cultural Clash mi nima ashna narsalar opketadi.. ina yurorasann bilmay bok yevoppan deb... ashinga uzini evropeykalarini tikib yurivr hup? evropeykalarng yokami yokmedimi uni bizi uzbek kizlariga hech kanaka alokasi yuk...


EE kizlar mono haripka binasa demeslami... yo uzim sukib koya kolaymi?

UzbekGirlie
06-04-2007, 03:07 PM
Hello devushki(qizlar)!

I'm a european boy, but I don't like the european style too much.
I mean the way european girl act. I don't want to go further details now why.
And I "met" virtually some very beautiful central-asian girls, and I started to think, and show interest, what should I need to date or marry to an uzbek girl. What are the expectations from uzbek girls?
Has any chance for it a non-uzbek at all?????
I'm really curious about it.
Any posts warmly welcomed. Feel free to post. In english if it is possible, but in uzbek also, I have a translator as well. :)
And one more thing, also posts by males are welcomed too!

many thanx in advance.


Peti

Wow, a man who can generalize women will not be satisfied with any of them as he would see them all as same. European women are all different from one another and I am sure they all do not act the same way. Same goes for Uzbek girls. We have obedient girls and free spirits, we have smart and dumb, tom boys and girly girls, pretty and ugly, some that go clubbing and some that don't. You can not generalize women. It looks like you are looking for a mail order bride and so that you know women on this forum are better than that. So this post is an insult to uzbek women. As far as expectations they change from individual to individual...

The Reaper
06-04-2007, 03:18 PM
There should be a special award for reviving a thread that died a year ago.

It's like an internet version of Frankenstein.
IT'S ALLIIIVEE! IT'S ALLLIIIVVE! :D

TR

UzbekGirlie
06-04-2007, 03:22 PM
There should be a special award for reviving a thread that died a year ago.

It's like an internet version of Frankenstein.
IT'S ALLIIIVEE! IT'S ALLLIIIVVE! :D

TR

LMAO... I did not realize this was closed and your comment was hilarious... Ha-ha...

melo
06-04-2007, 03:25 PM
There should be a special award for reviving a thread that died a year ago.

It's like an internet version of Frankenstein.
IT'S ALLIIIVEE! IT'S ALLLIIIVVE! :D

TR

LMAO... I did not realize this was closed and your comment was hilarious... Ha-ha...

Sorry Uzbekgirlie, but I am afraid the special award goes to Slimshady for reviving this one.

The Reaper
06-04-2007, 03:27 PM
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Sorry Uzbekgirlie, but I am afraid the special award goes to Slimshady for reviving this one.

Nah, Pitpilliki successfully brought it back from dead on May 31st. :D

Something tells me we will have some more people respond to the initial post.

TR

Qodiriy
07-09-2007, 08:15 AM
Dear Mr. Peti

Pleasent days to you,

I am very much happy for you that you wanna buil great holi thing called family.
I do not mind you to marry Uzbek girls its your free choice or will
But you should remeber some factors which I think you have to conduct.
1) There are various types of family baground in Ozbekistan.
( traditional, religious and european) Its up to you whom to choose.
2) But if you really fall inlove of pure practicing muslim girls it is advised you have to be muslim as well. its not my word but its word of Great creator(Allah SWT) but if not please find someone from modern family baground.
3) as you know Ozbekistan is on development way of market economy, and we have enough people who lives in pooverty line or below..
So if you really stingy to help to your future brides relatives in any means please kindly try to find single girl with the avarage level of baground.

I hope my suggestions will be benefiecial for you in your bride search

Let great creator bless you with( Iyman) good things

take care yourself

so where are you now, if you are in Ireland i can meet you there, I am in DUblin

ok anyway bye

Пушкарева
07-09-2007, 08:23 AM
So Pet'ka, any luck yet? :)

anchio
07-09-2007, 01:38 PM
Petka bir qiziqib kurdida endi qando ekan uzbek qizlari dib. Shuni ham jiddiy ob utiribsilami?