Marrying a foreigner!

[smilinguzbekgal]

Assalamu Alaekum to all sisters!
I am going to marry a turkish guy in July of this year InshaAllah and move to Turkey . I know him for the past one year and so far we observed that we suit each other in many aspects. But as the day is coming closer and closer i am getting hesitant, nervous, worried, depressed, i dont know why, it is melanje` of feelings and emotions. I dont know how i will deal with missing my family, my mom, my friends, my beautiful Tashkent .
Have any of you also experienced such thing? How u dealt with it? what would u say/wish/advise me?
I'd appreciate your feedback.
Feel free to ask me any questions

[lost]

Assalamu Alaekum to all sisters!
I am going to marry a turkish guy in July of this year InshaAllah and move to Turkey . I know him for the past one year and so far we observed that we suit each other in many aspects. But as the day is coming closer and closer i am getting hesitant, nervous, worried, depressed, i dont know why, it is melanje` of feelings and emotions. I dont know how i will deal with missing my family, my mom, my friends, my beautiful Tashkent .
Have any of you also experienced such thing? How u dealt with it? what would u say/wish/advise me?
I'd appreciate your feedback.
Feel free to ask me any questions
hope you will also wellcome boys' wishes;)

Have a loooong and happy life together with him :)

[Uzbekxonim]

my advice for you would be: don't think about your past, remembering everything you had/happened to you, look only to the future, think about your husband and future kids. and accept these changes in your life as natural development of your being.

ps. congratulations! :)

[StU]

Assalamu Alaekum to all sisters!
I am going to marry a turkish guy in July of this year InshaAllah and move to Turkey . I know him for the past one year and so far we observed that we suit each other in many aspects. But as the day is coming closer and closer i am getting hesitant, nervous, worried, depressed, i dont know why, it is melanje` of feelings and emotions. I dont know how i will deal with missing my family, my mom, my friends, my beautiful Tashkent .
Have any of you also experienced such thing? How u dealt with it? what would u say/wish/advise me?
I'd appreciate your feedback.
Feel free to ask me any questions

if you love him, nothing else really matters ;).
Yes you deal with uncertainty, but if he's worth just don't hesitate.

[XXL]

hope you will also wellcome boys' wishes;)

Have a loooong and happy life together with him :)

ee yoizb qoyiptiyu qizlarga deb yana nima bor ekan a , bu bolaga?:lol:

Be happy smiling uzbek..,

lost yuring kettik;)

[Pinkie]

Assalamu Alaekum to all sisters!
I am going to marry a turkish guy in July of this year InshaAllah and move to Turkey . I know him for the past one year and so far we observed that we suit each other in many aspects. But as the day is coming closer and closer i am getting hesitant, nervous, worried, depressed, i dont know why, it is melanje` of feelings and emotions. I dont know how i will deal with missing my family, my mom, my friends, my beautiful Tashkent .
Have any of you also experienced such thing? How u dealt with it? what would u say/wish/advise me?
I'd appreciate your feedback.
Feel free to ask me any questions
Nosha is right. It's normal for a new bride to feel this way when her wedding is coming closer. Yes, you will be away from your family in Tashkent, and you will miss your family but the most important thing is-two Muslims are about to fulfill half of their Deen. This is something to be happy about :). Leave your worries with Allah Ta'ala, and everything will be fine, Insha'Allah.

[Destankutluhan]

Assalamu Alaekum to all sisters!
I am going to marry a turkish guy in July of this year InshaAllah and move to Turkey . I know him for the past one year and so far we observed that we suit each other in many aspects. But as the day is coming closer and closer i am getting hesitant, nervous, worried, depressed, i dont know why, it is melanje` of feelings and emotions. I dont know how i will deal with missing my family, my mom, my friends, my beautiful Tashkent .
Have any of you also experienced such thing? How u dealt with it? what would u say/wish/advise me?
I'd appreciate your feedback.
Feel free to ask me any questions

Miss Smilinguzbekgal,

I congratulate you and your future husband ! I don't know which city are you going to leave and what is the background of your boyfriends but I want to advise a few point which I have done under similar topic;

1. Although we are coming from the same roots (at least we accept like
this), we are still different in our life style, cultural background as well
as the human relationship. So you should prepare yourself to a different
atmosphere but never afraid.

2. Life not allways brings happiness, I wish it will for you, in case you
both have hard discussions with each other then be calm, completely
understand what he wants to say, ask him again if you are not sure.
Please tell him to do same.

3. Please sit done with your partner and tell him what you are worry about
and what you want from him and ask what he is looking for. THIS IS
IMPORTANT !

4. A women shall work. Don't became an ordinary house wife. This
completely depend traditional and Islamic values of your partner. So
you need to make sure his approach.

5. Sweet words allways win, so don't act angrily, it does change nothing.
Specially with your Qoynana ! And his sisters !

6. Trust yourself. If you don't feel happy, or not treated as it should be,
do not accept it as your destiny, take a tickect and fly back to home !

Regarding missing you hometown; it is not far away, you just need to make an agreement with your future husband for regular visits or allways keep money of your own in your account !:)

Wishing you both a very good luck and happiness !

Saglicakla,

[Villager]

Assalamu Alaekum to all sisters!
I am going to marry a turkish guy in July of this year InshaAllah and move to Turkey . I know him for the past one year and so far we observed that we suit each other in many aspects. But as the day is coming closer and closer i am getting hesitant, nervous, worried, depressed, i dont know why, it is melanje` of feelings and emotions. I dont know how i will deal with missing my family, my mom, my friends, my beautiful Tashkent .
Have any of you also experienced such thing? How u dealt with it? what would u say/wish/advise me?
I'd appreciate your feedback.
Feel free to ask me any questions


why can't your future husband live in tashknet? if he is already adapted?
smtimes it is hard to say of adaptation from one sociaty to another, even they have a lot of common traditions, but thing is your nature what is already adapted over the pass years, such things like parents , motherland and friends are the most beautiful things what has humankind,, Of course u can have other friends in another state, but your substation is another, sure it depends on people too, it is only my straight opinion. as for love, LOVE is such thing we can understand on several ways. smtimes it comes, we can call it love lovvvvee, smtimes it disapp, but there is love, remember it forever, there is but, what is we need to find true love what is understanding and respect each others opinion. Whatever i say, i wish you true love with whom you want to be in your entire lovely life. thx.

[StU]

why can't your future husband live in tashknet? if he is already adapted?
smtimes it is hard to say of adaptation from one sociaty to another, even they have a lot of common traditions, but thing is your nature what is already adapted over the pass years, such things like parents , motherland and friends are the most beautiful things what has humankind,, Of course u can have other friends in another state, but your substation is another, sure it depends on people too, it is only my straight opinion. as for love, LOVE is such thing we can understand on several ways. smtimes it comes, we can call it love lovvvvee, smtimes it disapp, but there is love, remember it forever, there is but, what is we need to find true love what is understanding and respect each others opinion. Whatever i say, i wish you true love with whom you want to be in your entire lovely life. thx.

see below,

mne nravitsa tvoi signature ;)... I ya soglasna s Goethe.

[Villager]

mne nravitsa tvoi signature ;)... I ya soglasna s Goethe.

Thank you.

[crescent]

6. Trust yourself. If you don't feel happy, or not treated as it should be,
do not accept it as your destiny, take a tickect and fly back to home !

I don't agree with this point. A foreigner cannot be accepted easily in any country, even if the background of nations is similar. You should be patient and make people around you love you!
Wish you all the best!

[smilinguzbekgal]

Dear guys and girls! I would like to thank you all for your advices, wishes and opinions. I feel now less depressed and cheered up, after all marriage is a beautiful thing and as per my opinion it matters whether it works out no matter where, i hope mine will be blessed by Allah.
by the way i am travelling with my mom for official engagement ceremony(nisan) this sunday, so wish me a safe journey, :)
thank u all once again
Smilinguzbekgal

[Destankutluhan]

I don't agree with this point. A foreigner cannot be accepted easily in any country, even if the background of nations is similar. You should be patient and make people around you love you!
Wish you all the best!

I guess I didn't express myself good so you understand in a different way, I was trying to mention beating, not respecting etc,.. otherwise you are right to say show patient and make people around you love you. I didn'tt want to say "backto home in first fight ! :)

I personally would like to see more and more people between the fatherland and Turkey marry each other.

Again best wishes and good journey for Smilinguzbekgal and best wishes for all the Uzbek ladies ! I wish you all find your love one and be happy in your lifetime.

Sevgiyle kalin,

[Пушкарева]

My sincerest congratulations! WIsh you a long and happy life together! May peace, mutual understanding, love and prosperity be always in your family!


Dear guys and girls! I would like to thank you all for your advices, wishes and opinions. I feel now less depressed and cheered up, after all marriage is a beautiful thing and as per my opinion it matters whether it works out no matter where, i hope mine will be blessed by Allah.
by the way i am travelling with my mom for official engagement ceremony(nisan) this sunday, so wish me a safe journey, :)
thank u all once again
Smilinguzbekgal

[Uzbekistan2010]

basarilar dilerim

ama unutma ask zamanin hizla gecmesini saglar
hizli gecen zaman ise aski bitirir

shunday ekan turmushga chiqishqa shoshiling :)

[treasureseeker1]

Thanks for good wishes.
Uzbeks and Turks ,as you all know, have very common values that make us suit each other well,
and also some differences that can add just moral and spiritual richness to the relation in my opinion.

We can't know what time would prepare for us in the future,
but if someone know himself/herself and if there is love, respect, passion, understanding, tolerance.. between husband & wife we can lead - drive our family life to the path as we wish with the help of Allah.

[Pinkie]

Dear guys and girls! I would like to thank you all for your advices, wishes and opinions. I feel now less depressed and cheered up, after all marriage is a beautiful thing and as per my opinion it matters whether it works out no matter where, i hope mine will be blessed by Allah.
by the way i am travelling with my mom for official engagement ceremony(nisan) this sunday, so wish me a safe journey, :)
thank u all once again
Smilinguzbekgal
I'm so jealous, you are going to Turkiye! I hope you have a great celebration :).

:fiaman:

[kingdom]

Seving,seviling va baxtli buling!:cool:
All the best!;) Assalamu Alaekum to all sisters!
I am going to marry a turkish guy in July of this year InshaAllah and move to Turkey . I know him for the past one year and so far we observed that we suit each other in many aspects. But as the day is coming closer and closer i am getting hesitant, nervous, worried, depressed, i dont know why, it is melanje` of feelings and emotions. I dont know how i will deal with missing my family, my mom, my friends, my beautiful Tashkent .
Have any of you also experienced such thing? How u dealt with it? what would u say/wish/advise me?
I'd appreciate your feedback.
Feel free to ask me any questions