Qariyalar uyi kerakmi o'zi?

[Nilufarxon]

Yaqinda bir tanishimiz , iltimos bir qarindoshimizni qariyalar uyiga joylashga yordam bersangiz deb qoldilar. (Mening bir yaqin tanishim O'zb.TV sida ishlaydi, shu sababli "Otalar so'zi - aqlning ko'zi" ko'rsatuvida ko'rsatsak, dedilar.)

Sababi,ular qariyalar uyiga joylashtirmoqchi bo'lgan ayol jiyanlari qo'lida "xor" bo'layotgan emish.
U ayolning sal aqli zaif bo'lgani tufayli turmushga ham chiqmagan ekan.
70 yoshni qarshilayotgan bu onaxon, meni qariyalar uyiga joylashtirib bersanglar deb iltimos, qilibdilar.:bawling::crying::cry:

Keyin surishtirsak, qariyalar uyiga qariyalarni joylash ham qiyin ekan.
Negaki o'sha qariyadan Davlat hisobiga uy-joyini yoki qimmatbaho mol-mulkini garovga qo'yishi kerak emish. :shocked:

Menda savol tug'ildi. Haqiqatdan ham qariyalar uyiga qariyani joylash shunchalik qiyinmi?
Umuman olganda bizga, ana shunday "Qariyalar uyining" keragi bormikan? :qstn:

Hech kimi yo'q kimsalar bo'lsa maylikuya, lekin farzandlari bo'la turib, ota-onasini qariyalar uyiga tashlab qo'yayotganlarga qanday munosabatdasiz? :?:

[UzLand]

Оилаларида хурланаетган ва сигдирилмаетган кариялар бор экан, кариялар уйи хам керак.

[Tamanno]

This is an entire shame and total disrespect for a muslim culture.

Nedavno chitala pro ocherednoe sumasbrodnoe reshenie otca vseh turkmen, chto pojilue ludi lishtsya svoih pensiy, te i kogo est deti to oni budut na ih ijdevenii, a te u kogo ih net-to v doma prestareluh.


Yaqinda bir tanishimiz , iltimos bir qarindoshimizni qariyalar uyiga joylashga yordam bersangiz deb qoldilar. (Mening bir yaqin tanishim O'zb.TV sida ishlaydi, shu sababli "Otalar so'zi - aqlning ko'zi" ko'rsatuvida ko'rsatsak, dedilar.)

Sababi,ular qariyalar uyiga joylashtirmoqchi bo'lgan ayol jiyanlari qo'lida "xor" bo'layotgan emish.
U ayolning sal aqli zaif bo'lgani tufayli turmushga ham chiqmagan ekan.
70 yoshni qarshilayotgan bu onaxon, meni qariyalar uyiga joylashtirib bersanglar deb iltimos, qilibdilar.:bawling::crying::cry:

Keyin surishtirsak, qariyalar uyiga qariyalarni joylash ham qiyin ekan.
Negaki o'sha qariyadan Davlat hisobiga uy-joyini yoki qimmatbaho mol-mulkini garovga qo'yishi kerak emish. :shocked:

Menda savol tug'ildi. Haqiqatdan ham qariyalar uyiga qariyani joylash shunchalik qiyinmi?
Umuman olganda bizga, ana shunday "Qariyalar uyining" keragi bormikan? :qstn:

Hech kimi yo'q kimsalar bo'lsa maylikuya, lekin farzandlari bo'la turib, ota-onasini qariyalar uyiga tashlab qo'yayotganlarga qanday munosabatdasiz? :?:

[PainKiller]

This is an entire shame and total disrespect for a muslim culture.

Nedavno chitala pro ocherednoe sumasbrodnoe reshenie otca vseh turkmen, chto pojilue ludi lishtsya svoih pensiy, te i kogo est deti to oni budut na ih ijdevenii, a te u kogo ih net-to v doma prestareluh.
When it comes to a protection of elderly and poor, goverment should not rule depending on whether it is a pride or a shame of the religion and a culture. As long as there is a group of people who is in need ot protection and social services, those services should be available and provided. Abandoning children is viewed as a shame in our culture, but this does not mean that orphanages should be closed down. Children, and elderly people are a very woulnerable part of the society, thus goverment should protect them.
social services for homeless, orphans, elderly and disabled citizens is a must for any society who values it's peole.

[infolife]

Yaqinda bir tanishimiz , iltimos bir qarindoshimizni qariyalar uyiga joylashga yordam bersangiz deb qoldilar. (Mening bir yaqin tanishim O'zb.TV sida ishlaydi, shu sababli "Otalar so'zi - aqlning ko'zi" ko'rsatuvida ko'rsatsak, dedilar.)

Sababi,ular qariyalar uyiga joylashtirmoqchi bo'lgan ayol jiyanlari qo'lida "xor" bo'layotgan emish.
U ayolning sal aqli zaif bo'lgani tufayli turmushga ham chiqmagan ekan.
70 yoshni qarshilayotgan bu onaxon, meni qariyalar uyiga joylashtirib bersanglar deb iltimos, qilibdilar.:bawling::crying::cry:

Keyin surishtirsak, qariyalar uyiga qariyalarni joylash ham qiyin ekan.
Negaki o'sha qariyadan Davlat hisobiga uy-joyini yoki qimmatbaho mol-mulkini garovga qo'yishi kerak emish. :shocked:

Menda savol tug'ildi. Haqiqatdan ham qariyalar uyiga qariyani joylash shunchalik qiyinmi?
Umuman olganda bizga, ana shunday "Qariyalar uyining" keragi bormikan? :qstn:

Hech kimi yo'q kimsalar bo'lsa maylikuya, lekin farzandlari bo'la turib, ota-onasini qariyalar uyiga tashlab qo'yayotganlarga qanday munosabatdasiz? :?:

Otahon-onahonlar shu uyda bollarimi qo'lida yashagandan ko'ra chiqib boshqa joyda yashaganim 1000 yahshiydi deb yuraklari bezillib turganda Qariyalar uyini keragu borkuya, shu qariyalar uyiga qabul qilinishni mashmashalarini aslo keragi yo'q
davlat hisobiga mol qo'yishga balo bormi, ha moli bomasachi
eh, byurokratiya kuchaygan davrda qariyalarimiz bechoralargayam qiyin sho'rliklar uyda biror narsani uyerdan bu yerga qoygani kelinim bi narsa deb chaqib uzvomasin deb yurak hovuchlab turadiganla bor:?

[CHOYHONACHI]

http://forum.arbuz.com/showthread.php?t=17663&page=3

Hammamizni Alloh shu vaziyatka ota-onalarimizni va balkim kelajakta ozimizni ham shunday ahvolga tushushtan O'zi asrasin.

Meni qarashlarim yuqorida berilgan linkta aytilgan

CHOYHONACHI

[CHOYHONACHI]

This is an entire shame and total disrespect for a muslim culture.

Nedavno chitala pro ocherednoe sumasbrodnoe reshenie otca vseh turkmen, chto pojilue ludi lishtsya svoih pensiy, te i kogo est deti to oni budut na ih ijdevenii, a te u kogo ih net-to v doma prestareluh.

Qorqanim Turkmenistan bir ertaktay vaziyatka tuship qolmasa bo'di. Hamma qariyalarni kallalarini o'lip tashlaring degan ertak bor ku?

Qani tinchlik bolaversin, ota-onalarimiz bizni bahtimizga sog-salomat bizni boshimizda, torimizda duolarini qilip yurushaversin.

CHOYHONACHI

[MUHLIS]

Menimcha kerak. Bu degani hamma qariyalar uyida yotsin degani emas, ammo boshqa boradigan joyi bo'lmagan qariyalar istalgan jamiyatda istalganicha topiladi.

[Tamanno]

I respect ur opinion, but what I meant was in regards the mean children who do send their parents mmost of the time for the financial sake (for instance selling the house of their parents). Bir payitlari I myself used to pay visits to the orphanage houses and giving some clothes or buying the toys and stationary for them.

Elderly people, especially those of slavic ones (whose children left the CA for Russia)really need the state protection and provision.

When it comes to a protection of elderly and poor, goverment should not rule depending on whether it is a pride or a shame of the religion and a culture. As long as there is a group of people who is in need ot protection and social services, those services should be available and provided. Abandoning children is viewed as a shame in our culture, but this does not mean that orphanages should be closed down. Children, and elderly people are a very woulnerable part of the society, thus goverment should protect them.
social services for homeless, orphans, elderly and disabled citizens is a must for any society who values it's peole.