Childeren That Have No Childhood

[Sash]

It's such a shame :((

Children have no childhood in our country.

They have nothing bright to remember after they grew up. I feel so sorry for our uzbek children. Parents are trying to survive and do their best trying to find some money at least to go on. The money they found is only enough to feed them :(( Children have no birthdays, no celbrations, no occasions, nothing :(

I am here in UK and can see how CHILDREN are happy here. They have everything they need. Their childhood is full of JOY, HAPPINESS, LOVE and etc... .

I look at them and say INSHOOLOH my chidren will have a better childhood then I had . I will do my best to get what ever they will need. They should have something Joyfull to remember about their Childhood. At least they will have a CHILDHOOD >(

Our country needs Honest, Persistent, Wise citizens.
We should built the better life for our children at least.

I don't know what about you, but I really care about my future family life. I will do whatever it needs (except the dirty things like Bribe or Lies and etc) to get to my family all the best.

P.S. I Am Sure This Feeling Inside All Of Us.

[wondering]

Is this your mission statement? ;)

Overhappy kids may grew into complaining slluggards in the future.

[lawyer of freedom]

and overunhappy children may become Uzb policemen or terrorists.

[Sash]

wondering (Jun 04, 2001 07:39):
Is this your mission statement? ;)

Overhappy kids may grew into complaining slluggards in the future.


Hi Wondering,

Children in UZB are too far yet to get to the OVERHAPPY stage. So, there is no chance that they will become complaining sluggars in next 50 year.

P.S. This is one of my primary missions. The stability of my family is very important.

Hi, LAWYER OF FREEDOM

You probably right about what is gonna happen with the future of OVERUNHAPPY children. May be the result has already started to show up it's negative sides cause you can find both in our MOTHERLAND in a big bunches.

Cheers,

[Iranyar]

:( may God damn Bush Reagan and Yeltsin for their crimes against the children.

[bekchinor]

Iranyar,

It was a long time we did not hear from you. Also you promised to send me your digits, I gonna meet you in Netherlands.

Anyway, I totally agree with you about damning this tyrans! :$

Regards,
Bek

[KinJalo]

totally disagree.
starting point - children in UK more happy than children in Uzb., or, say, in Zimbabwe - is implausible. cannot be defended. moreover, he argues from the stand point of adult and material person. he implies that happiness can be measured in terms of celebrations, toys, occasions, birthdays. however, Sash's post tells us, that it is not children who are unhappy, but rather adults are unhappy. Unhappy, because they cannot provide to children, what they think is neccessary for a person to feel happy.
Following your argument we should assume that war-time and even post-war time children were all unhappy. What had they had? No parents, no food... Nothing. And yet despite of all that "unhappiness", what negative effects did they have?
I am repeating again "unhappiness" of children is a ghost created by grown-ups' frustration. I esli kopnut' poglubje, to Sash tomu zamechatel'nyi primer. Klyuchevaya fraza: "... I really care about MY FUTURE family..." He cares about his future, that's good. No vse deti prichem? Zachem je slezlivo i napokaz jalet' ix? Plakal'shikov tut ne nado...
Luchshe ya sdes' ostanovlyus'.

cheers.

[lawyer of freedom]

'I am repeating again "unhappiness" of children is a ghost created by grown-ups' frustration.'(kinjalo)

it is correct that unhappiness can not be expressed by children themselves, but any adult is a grown up child who can make valid conclusions on what happy childhood may look like... And war-time and post-war kids are indeed generally unhappy kids. Of course, such a moral matter as happiness can't be measured by material consumerism but still lack of attention, love, care, and happy events to remember are just obvious indicators of happiness for kids.

best

P.S. you are right it is generalisation to make a claim like that but still for the sake of argument this generalisation illustrates the point vividly.

[lawyer of freedom]

'I am repeating again "unhappiness" of children is a ghost created by grown-ups' frustration.'(kinjalo)

it is correct that unhappiness can not be expressed by children themselves, but any adult is a grown up child who can make valid conclusions on what happy childhood may look like... And war-time and post-war kids are indeed generally unhappy kids. Of course, such a moral matter as happiness can't be measured by material consumerism but still lack of attention, love, care, and happy events to remember are just obvious indicators of happiness for kids.



P.S. you are right it is generalisation to make a claim like that but still for the sake of argument this generalisation illustrates the point vividly.

[Reader]

Most important thing which all children need is LOVE of Parents. If you are not able to give it for your child his future will be very difficult.