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Nodir
11-24-2000, 11:45 AM
Sevgi ham jiddiy va ham chigal va deyarli hamma unga biror bir tarzda "tegib" korgan narsa. Shu bilan birga u juda jozibali mavzu, buni "Men seni sevardim"ga (Literature Board) oid bildiralayotgan yozishmadan ham bilsa bo'ladi.
Demak qani kim qanday tushunadi sevgini, nima u? va bir kishi 1 vaqtning o'zida 2 yoki undan ko'p qiz yoki yigitlarni sevishi mumkinmi? turli vaqtlardachi?
va sevgi nimadan boshlanadi?
fikrlarini yozib qoldiradigan yigitu-qizlarga oldindan rahmat.

Vodiydan Sado
01-01-2001, 05:04 PM
U odamning o'ziga bog'liq, ya'ni sevgini qanday tushunishiga. Ba'zilar har oyda "yangilab" turishadi, ba'zilar bir kishini sevsa unga aytolmay yuraverisadi-"Platonic Love", ba'zilar bir umr vafodor, ba'zilar esa umuman buni his qilmaydi.I
Mening tushunishimcha, haqiqiy sevgi Otabek va Kumushda bo'lgan.
Bu shuni bildiradiki, hech kim hech qachon 2 kishini tengdan bir vaqtda sevolmaydi.
Lekin ma'lum bir vaqt o'tgandan keyin, hamma narsa bo'lishi mumkin.

P.S. Bu hammasi kitobdan olgan hulosalarim, shahsan boshimdan o'tkazganim yo'q hali ;).

Cute
01-03-2001, 04:24 PM
Hammamizning Zaynabimiz ham bo'lishi kerak ekan. ;)

Khorezmskaya
01-16-2001, 09:41 AM
Sevgi nima? v jizni ne vstrechala voprosa trudnee voprosa, nu po etoy teme vse po raznomu mislyat, ya ne dumayu chto chelovek mojet lyubit srazu dvoih, no ya ot imene devushek about boys ya ne znayu
Lyubov mojet nachatsa s drujbi, lyubov s pervogo vzglyada po moemu eto mojet bit OGROMNOY OSHIBKOY
vse taki trudno chto to skozat

O'zbek
01-18-2001, 12:58 PM
Khorezmskaya, po tvoemu ya oshibsya... Kak jal.
Cute, bitta Kumush bo'sa, men 10 ta Zaynabdan kechardim.
Savol: 2 ta Khorezmskayadanchi?
Javob: O'ylab ko'ramiz...
(shutka)

Cute
01-18-2001, 04:44 PM
O'zbek , haha mujik got it, lekin o'sha 10tani adresini har ehtimolga qarshi bermisizmi?

Don_Uzbek
01-19-2001, 03:36 AM
Bolalar -qizlar, shunaqa safsata gapni quysanglarchi a!
Nima gap bu, 1 vaqtda bittadan kupni sevish mumkinmi, emish :) Albatta mumkin, sal atrofga qaranglar mundoq olamni bitta ramkaga solmasdan.
Mana, shaxsan men birtan 4 ta qizni sevyapman. Ha bu ham bir qadriyatda, ota-bobolardan qolgan urf-odat.
Mana, hozir yurtimizda qadriyatlarni tiklamoqdamiz, bu narsani har jabhada namoyon etish kerak.
Undan tashqari, hozir yer yuzida statistika buyicha bir ERKAKka 6ta AYOL tug'ri keladi. Axir, biz erkaklar qolgan besh ayol g'amini yemasak, dunyoni ...... bosib ketadi-yu.
Tak-chto, qani bolalar, bel baquvvatligi uchun 100 gramm KuknoriChoydan ichaylik!
Sog' bulinglar!

Khorezmskaya
01-19-2001, 05:37 AM
O'zbek hmmmmmmmmmm mda
savol: pomenyaesh li odnogo Khorezmskogo na 5 O'zbekov??
otvet: hmmm mojno podumat...........( ne uverenno )

(toje shutka)
take it easy

Khorezmskaya
01-19-2001, 05:42 AM
A na schet WHAT IS LOVE????
Lyubov eto skazka a cherez god kolyaska ))

O'zbek
01-19-2001, 09:21 AM
A kto Khorezmskiy?
Kstati, ya uje tebya pomenyal:) ;)
(shutkamas)

Khorezmskaya
01-19-2001, 10:28 AM
khorezmskiy??? nikto, ya tak in general
" ya uje tebya pomenal" ????? ya che kogda to tebe prenadlejala???? chtob ti menya mog menyat?
(shutkamas)

O'zbek
01-20-2001, 10:09 AM
Moonflower, take it easy ;)

Moonflower
01-22-2001, 05:46 AM
O'zbek ))))) bupti.......

Universitet
01-22-2001, 06:21 AM
He?!
Razve mojno zanimatsya etim srazu s dvumya?

Freestyler
01-23-2001, 12:26 PM
Konechno mojno. A ti pryam ne znal?

OPTIMIST
01-23-2001, 04:08 PM
Freestyler,

we have the same IP, nu nichoo, bop turadi,

sorry for irrelevant message

OPTIMIST

P.S: manimcha it depends on person how many to love at once:):)

dreamer
01-24-2001, 01:43 AM
Nodir, a ti sluchayno ne shved?;) Shuchu:)

S nauchnoy tochki zreniya eto svyazano s psihologiyey i fiziologiyey tovo ili inovo cheloveka. Naprimer, ya chitala shto bol'niye prostatitom imeyut neskol'ko (delovih):) partnyorov odnovremenno i chasto ih menyayut. Nu a v psihologii uuu skoko primerov...:)

my best,

dreamka.

p.s. hhmmm, a mojet ya ne ponyala voprosa...:) a tak ya detal'no ne znayu, yesli tebya muchayet etot vopros, tebe, dumayu, lutshe obratitsya k spetcialistu.

DIMU
01-24-2001, 04:34 AM
Bir vaqtning u'zida 2 yoki undan o'rtiq insonga ku'ngil berishdan ilgari loaqal bittasiga chin ku'ngildan muhabbat izhor qilishni hamda u'sha insonga sadoqatlik bu'lishni u'rganib olsak maqsadga muvofiq ish bu'lardi.

DIMU

Don Uzbek
01-24-2001, 05:08 AM
Dimu,
hali ham urganmadingizmi bu narsalarni? :) Yaxshi emas, faqat darslarni urganmasdan bu narsalarni ham vaqtida urganib oling! ;)

ELBRUS
01-25-2001, 08:47 AM
Ha Nodir juda "dolzarb" muammo bu. Hmmm bunga kop uylab bitta javob berish kerek. Lekin bir vaqtniuzida emas turli vaqtlarda 1 emas 10 ta ham sevish mumkin statistik ma'lumotlarga kora. Endi haqiqiysi usha tepada etilgan Otabek Kumushlarda bulganu afsus ularni uzlari bulmagan.:(
yana Uzbeklar "Sevgi tuydan keyin boshlanadi bolam" degan nasihatlar ham ba'zan esa "sevgi "hona"da boshlanadi bratishka" degan bratanlani sovetlari uchrab qoladi.
Hulosa bu insonni uziga bogliq bulsa kerek.

scorpio
01-31-2001, 02:06 PM
Ya tak posmotryu hali birontalaring ham rostdan ham sevib ko'rmabsizlar shekili da :-). U 4tasini birdaniga sevadigan narsa sevgi emas u mehr qo'yish odamni o'ziga yaqin ko'rish holos. SHamol bo'lmasa daraht qimirlamaydi, olov bo'lmasa tutuni chiqmaydi. Tak chto agar rostdan ham Farhod va Shirinlar, Romeo va Julietalar bo'lmaganda bu asarlar ham yozilmagan bo'lardi. Men o'zim ham afsuski hali sevib ko'rganim yoq, ammo ko'rganimdan aytyabman (yani sevayotganlarni taniyman :-)). Ularga havasim keladi bazida, va menga ishoninglar ularning qalbiga ikkinchi odam sigmaydi.

Azizbek

freestyler
02-01-2001, 01:21 PM
Mening ko'nglim katta, uchtasi ham sig'averadi! :)

A voobshe, ne vsyem vezyot, Azizbek. Poka mi molodi - mi vse idealisti. A k koncutretyego desyatka let, yesli tak i ne nashyolsya "ideal", kajdiy dobroporyadochniy Uzbek nachinayet polagat'sya na roditeley. (Ili je im prihoditsya ponizit' svoyu planku standartov). Tem kto ne poydyot na kompromis grozit holostyatskaya jizn'.

Lichno ya dumayu lyubov', kak govorit'sya, comes in all shapes and sizes. Nekotoriye lyubyat dvuh ili bol'she (poligamni), nekotoriye tol'ko odnu, a ne kotorim - voobshe ne dano.
Nekotoriye lyubyat tiho, nekotoriye strastno, po raschyotu vs. bezumno, bezotvetno vs. vzaimno...
(prodoljit' mojno v silu svoih fantaziy).

freestyler
02-01-2001, 01:25 PM
Mening ko'nglim katta, uchtasi ham sig'averadi! :)

A voobshe, ne vsyem vezyot, Azizbek. Poka mi molodi - mi vse idealisti. A k koncutretyego desyatka let, yesli tak i ne nashyolsya "ideal", kajdiy dobroporyadochniy Uzbek nachinayet polagat'sya na roditeley. (Ili je im prihoditsya ponizit' svoyu planku standartov). Tem kto ne poydyot na kompromis grozit holostyatskaya jizn'.

Lichno ya dumayu lyubov', kak govorit'sya, comes in all shapes and sizes. Nekotoriye lyubyat dvuh ili bol'she (poligamni), nekotoriye tol'ko odnu, a ne kotorim - voobshe ne dano.
Nekotoriye lyubyat tiho, nekotoriye strastno, po raschyotu vs. bezumno, bezotvetno vs. vzaimno...
(prodoljit' mojno v silu svoih fantaziy).

ADIBA
02-10-2001, 06:47 AM
Bir vaqtni uzida 2kishini sevish bu endi sevgi emas. Sevgi uchburchagi(Hayot aksiomasi) kimdir keraksiz "yuk" ekanligini eslatib turadi.Bu doiradan ortiqcha kishi chiqib ketadi. Naqadar ojiz va alamzada ular..Bu haqoratdan uzga hech narsa emas.
Kungil shunaqa nozikdirki, jin ursin:-),gohida yuldan adashtirishi mumkin.Faqat ongli insongina buning nima natija berishini uylab, vaqtida "etagini yopgani" maqul. Aks holda bu nafaqat kungilni va hatto jismni ham malum azoblarga duchor etishi tayindir.Tabiatning nozik hilqati- ayollar bu borada kup nishon buladilar:-( naqadar achinarli va achchiq haqiqat....Va lekin hammasini oliy hakam Vaqt "saragini sarakka, puchagini puchakka" ajratib beradigan tarozidir.

Khorezmskaya
02-10-2001, 10:43 AM
Khorezmskaya agree with ADIBA..... na 100%

freestyler
02-10-2001, 11:39 AM
Heh, yaxshi qizlar, you too are idealists so far. But you know there is also reality, which at least for males states that there is physical love, as well as platonic (it seems as if not all girls have understood this yet). Ideally they both should converge in one person. In reality - not always so: I know many stories and real life people who have "maitresses" apart from their wives! Girls, do you have an idea why men indulge? :)

I'm not advocating those people who have two or more women in their lives, it is obvious that this is far not the best thing. I've been merely stating the reality.

Hence, an ideal love - is the one which embodies both platonic and physical love, spiced up with passion, trust, respect and feeling of belongingness.

But in reality - this is rarely the case. Love types are hierarchical in some sense, with ideal love at the top. This means there are many other love types , however fake or lame you may call them.

So what will you do when you loose any hope of finding the ideal love but are getting kind of late to get married? As I said "vi vinujdenni budete ponizit' planku standartov", otherwise you run a risk of remaining celibate and lonely through all rest of your lives. Sad reality, innit?

Good luck!
Nadejda umirayet posledney!

Khorezmskaya
02-12-2001, 09:36 AM
mda..Freestyler, eto pravda chto bolshenstvo mujchin imeyut bolshe chem odnu jenu, devushku....... i ya nikogda ne mogu otvetit na tot vopros, "why?", no i ni kogda ne poymu teh men..
A na schet " esli ne naydete takih pro kokih mechtaete"?? hmmm..........a mi posmotrim, nu ti prav v tom chto nam pridetsa smeritsa s etim, toka ya hochu skozat, esli on lyubit toka tebya eto samoe glavnoe a idet k drugoy radi * ** * * *, no vsetaki ya i etim daje ne tak uj soglasno...............
mojet ya eshe mala dlya takoy temi, tochno ne znayu..........prosto skozala svoe mnenie:-)

Niso
02-13-2001, 08:11 AM
Po-moyemu chelovek mojet i doljen lyubit' mnogih. Lish bi dushevnogo tepla hvatalo...
Love you all,
Nisohon.

ZAFAR
02-13-2001, 08:34 AM
Hurmatli, qizla nimeye bollani buncha yerga urivossila-a?! Bolla shayton, qizlar farishta bo'p qovottimi? Qizlaniyam ichida ko'p yigitlarimizi boshini aylantirib, birvarakasiga besh-oltitasiga sevgi izhor qilib yuborganlar.
A tema bo'yicha silaga bitta maslahat berib qo'ymoqchiman, menga desa mingtasini sevila, lekin bittasiga uylanila. Pravilasi shunaqa.

o'g'il bola
02-13-2001, 10:19 AM
To'g'risini aytsam sevgi bu juda ham abstrakt narsa, balkim men his qilayotgan narsa boshqa odamlarda bo'lganida ular bu tuyg'uni sevgi deb o'ylashlari mumkin mumkin...
Shahsan o'zimning fikrimni aytsam, sevmasdan, yahshi ko'rib ham odam kam bo'magan :) , to'g'rirog'i siz sevmang, sizni sevishsin. Chunki, "kak govoritsya vo vseh otnosheniyah est' tot kto lyubit i kto pozvolyayet lyubit' ". Menimcha erkak kishi bir pog'ona kamroq yahshi ko'rishi kerak, ana o'shanda zo'r bo'ladi.

wrut
02-13-2001, 04:04 PM
nima qilayapsan gijja?..