Long-Distance Relationships

[Shambles]

What do you think about long-distance relationships???
I was always against it but maybe it's not a bad idea if one finds his/her perfect match???
For how long it is possible to keep the relationships healthy???

P.S. Apologies if there was a similar thread...

[Factory girl]

What do you think about long-distance relationships???
I was always against it but maybe it's not a bad idea if one finds his/her perfect match???
For how long it is possible to keep the relationships healthy???

P.S. Apologies if there was a similar thread...


yes, i would like to know the answers for the exact same question!!!!
please people, help


Shambles, you are awesome, thanx!!! :)

[Shambles]

yes, i would like to know the answers for the exact same question!!!!
please people, help


Shambles, you are awesome, thanx!!! :)

Of course, you would, dear...;) Take it easy and let forum member share their experiences and understanding...:)

[lost]

in 10 words:
get the chance, buy the ticket, go and marry. ASAP

[Shambles]

in 10 words:
get the chance, buy the ticket, go and marry. ASAP

What if it's impossible at the moment???

[lost]

What if it's impossible at the moment???

in 10 words:
get the chance, buy the ticket, go and marry. ASAP


there is summer sale starting from march. get the ticket. ; )

ungacha agar ikkalariz uveren bo'lsayizla ota-ona , unashtirish ceremoniyasi, etc.larni qivolish kerak.

[Uyyonli]

in 10 words:
get the chance, buy the ticket, go and marry. ASAP

Yo i think you too young too say that, and who can can guarantee we don't get Lost on the way there? :lool: I'm just joking, u can say whatever the hell u want.

[lost]

Yo i think you too young too say that, and who can can guarantee we don't get Lost on the way there? :lool: I'm just joking, u can say whatever the hell u want.

you are so stupid : )

[Shambles]

there is summer sale starting from march. get the ticket. ; )

ungacha agar ikkalariz uveren bo'lsayizla ota-ona , unashtirish ceremoniyasi, etc.larni qivolish kerak.


Yeah, but what if two hearts involved dont know each other quite well to organize "unashtirish" and other fuss???

[lost]

Yeah, but what if two hearts involved dont know each other quite well to organize "unashtirish" and other fuss???

if two hearts involved dont know each other quite well, it is too early to "chang ko'tarish" : )

you cannot truly know one, if you haven't meet her in person: eyes tell much : )

[Shambles]

if two hearts involved dont know each other quite well, it is too early to "chang ko'tarish" : )

you cannot truly know one, if you haven't meet her in person: eyes tell much : )

Agree... bloody eyes tell so much...:D

[1985eva]

Jelezo kuyut poka goryacho.

[Royal]

What if it's impossible at the moment???

it is lots of possibilities, but which one you can not reach...

be more specific..

1. ticket
2. time
3. you
4. her
5. your home
6. her home

and others......n

P.S. Lekin hozir virtualnie domlalayam bor bosa keray uje...qistirvorsa oqip tashiydi...lekin begona qima shu ozimizani forum domlalari bor darrow pishirip berishadi....

[Shambles]

it is lots of possibilities, but which one you can not reach...

be more specific..

1. ticket
2. time
3. you
4. her
5. your home
6. her home

and others......n

P.S. Lekin hozir virtualnie domlalayam bor bosa keray uje...qistirvorsa oqip tashiydi...lekin begona qima shu ozimizani forum domlalari bor darrow pishirip berishadi....

2, 5, 6...

Shunaqa darajaga yetib keldikmi, virtual'niy domla ham bormi??/ Qoyil... Lekin vahli...:D

[Unique]

For how long it is possible to keep the relationships healthy???


As long as you both don't stop understanding each other (if you already think that you are the match.)

Good luck! :)

[Royal]

Shambles

keyingi savol thread: Egizaklaga qanaqa isim deydigan bosayla, unaqa thread forumda bor OK ;)

[Uyyonli]

you are so stupid : )

Get a life jack a$$ :twisted:

[lost]

Get a life jack a$$ :twisted:

ok, you are not stupid. : )

use pm, if you have anything to say : )

[Uyyonli]

u r dumb S#it :D

[UzLand]

u r dumb S#it :D

you are stupid again (c) lost :lool:

[Vector]

i think the most difficult part of this relationship is to find out that in real he/she is not what you thought to be, and have to break that relationship, real is different to virtual, the possible drawback i guess...:)

[Uyyonli]

you are stupid again (c) lost :lool:
I saw it.
Man, I wanna beat the crap out of that kid. :D

[lost]

hey stupie, why to bother others with your bs. use Pm : )

[Shambles]

To Lost and Uyyonli:

It seems guys that you two are already engaged in long-distance relationships...:lol:

[Uzbekxonim]

What do you think about long-distance relationships???
I was always against it but maybe it's not a bad idea if one finds his/her perfect match???
For how long it is possible to keep the relationships healthy???

P.S. Apologies if there was a similar thread...

i think that long-distance relationship is just to keep up your mood, kinda flirting with smo, esp when you feel lonely in a foreign country. but u should always keep in mind how far u want this relationship go. if you want to get married try to figure out if one of u will be ready to sacrifice his/her style of life in order to live together in one place.

[Пушкарева]

I don’t believe (or let's say, "find it really hard to maintain") the LT relationship, especially when the relationship is at its early stage. There is a saying “S glaz doloy, iz serdca von” and it does make sense. She and him, being far from each other, can suffer for some time (6 months, perhaps), but then, due to a natural need for a person of an opposite gender, they will give up and pay attention to those nearby and available.

There might be exceptions of course, which, I believe, relate to married couples and long-term partners (6 years and more, maybe). Other than that, I do not believe in sustainability of the long-distance relationship. Especially if people never saw each other or have recently met.

[Factory girl]

ya dumayu chto v chem-to Nezabudka prava,
maybe we r feelin excited bout all that stuff???
nam nujno videt' svoyu polovinku, chtobi deystvitel'no ponyat'...
prosto kogda vse tak horosho nachinaetsya, hochetsya chtobi takje intensivno prodoljalos' :(
davayte posmotrim chto je budet s nami cherez paru mesyacev,
ogon' mojet i potuhnut'...
poetomu stoit i sebe samoy i cheloveku kotoriy mne bezumno nravitsya "take it slovely and easy" no poka ni serdce ni razum ne vosprinimaet etu info...
anyways thanx

[UzLand]

maybe we r feelin excited bout all that stuff??? nam nujno videt' svoyu polovinku, chtobi deystvitel'no ponyat'...

не только видеть, но и трогать:)

To Lost and Uyyonli:

It seems guys that you two are already engaged in long-distance relationships...:lol:

:lool:

[Shambles]

ya dumayu chto v chem-to Nezabudka prava,
maybe we r feelin excited bout all that stuff???
nam nujno videt' svoyu polovinku, chtobi deystvitel'no ponyat'...
prosto kogda vse tak horosho nachinaetsya, hochetsya chtobi takje intensivno prodoljalos' :(
davayte posmotrim chto je budet s nami cherez paru mesyacev,
ogon' mojet i potuhnut'...
poetomu stoit i sebe samoy i cheloveku kotoriy mne bezumno nravitsya "take it slovely and easy" no poka ni serdce ni razum ne vosprinimaet etu info...
anyways thanx


Vremya - vesch' nujnaya i interesnaya i s etim ne posporish', no... ogon' mojno kak potushit', tak i razjech'... I tut uje vremya igrayet ne samuyu bol'shuyu rol'...

[Shambles]

Well, I have to admit that I'm confused a bit... That rarely happens to me...:rolleyes:

[Factory girl]

Well, I have to admit that I'm confused a bit... That rarely happens to me...:rolleyes:

Confusion is sometimes really good, nel'zya bit' vsegda vo vsem do konca uverennim...
if you r confused, means that you really thinking bout the things, important things going on in your life...
poetomu ya i govoryu, take it easy and see what happens in future
deystvitel'no mojet budet goret' plamenem a mojet i potuhnet kak spichka...

[Shambles]

Confusion is sometimes really good, nel'zya bit' vsegda vo vsem do konca uverennim...
if you r confused, means that you really thinking bout the things, important things going on in your life...
poetomu ya i govoryu, take it easy and see what happens in future
deystvitel'no mojet budet goret' plamenem a mojet i potuhnet kak spichka...

U kogo kak... a ya wait-and-see position ne ochen' lyublyu... Po mne luchshe Veni, Vidi, Vici... Hotya, u never know... As Goethe (if I'm not mistaken) once said: "Sometimes when I consider what tremendous consequences come from little things... I am tempted to think that there are no small things in life."

[Factory girl]

U kogo kak... a ya wait-and-see position ne ochen' lyublyu... Po mne luchshe Veni, Vidi, Vici... Hotya, u never know... As Goethe (if I'm not mistaken) once said: "Sometimes when I consider what tremendous consequences come from little things... I am tempted to think that there are no small things in life."

veni, vidi, vici eto konechno horosho, no chto esli mi jivem v takoe vremya i u nas eto ne poluchaetsya, prihoditsya sidet' na forum pisat', soveta sprashivat'.. i gvorit' wait and see...
any other suggestions, ot tebya lichno?
ne hochesh ispolnit'---veni, vidi, vichi??? ;)
zavtra? posle zavtra? na toy nedeli?

[SmIlIk]

Teks, maybe it is time for you guys to take your matters over to the PM :) A to tut poluchaetsya obshirniy dialog na kazhdoy teme.

[Honeywell]

LD relations is not a good idea.
Nado videt' drug druga. Nado pochuvstvovat chem jivet, chem dishet drugya polovina, chtobi ponyat ego/eyo. Na rastoyanie, vse je ne vozmojno do konca pochuvstvovat partnera, ego sostoyanie dushi, ego vzglyad, nastroenie. Ne vozmojno ponyat do konca mir v kotorom on/ona jivet, i tut mogut nachatsya raznoglasia.
A Kogda ryadom kakoe-to vremya, kogda videsh etogo cheloveka kajdiy den, znaesh kakoi on, v kakih situaciah chto mojno ot etogo cheloveka ojidat, kogda uje uveren v nyom, to uje dumaesh o tom kak peredti na drugoi level, i sozdat chto-to seryoznoe iz etogo. Skolko mojno hodit na rastoyanie, i jit v nezbitochnih mechtah?

eto moyo lichnoe mnenie....a tak vsyakoe bivaet. whatever it is, good luck

[Sag'bonlik_qiz]

I don’t believe (or let's say, "find it really hard to maintain") the LT relationship, especially when the relationship is at its early stage. There is a saying “S glaz doloy, iz serdca von” and it does make sense.

There might be exceptions of course, which, I believe, relate to married couples and long-term partners (6 years and more, maybe). Other than that, I do not believe in sustainability of the long-distance relationship. Especially if people never saw each other or have recently met.


Такая умничка, Незабудка. Действительно, на начальной стадии общения такие разрывы чреваты полным забвением, сказка долго не проживет. Но если люди уже знают друг друга, тем более женаты, что-то (вынужденное) не более 4-5-6 месяцев врядли может разрушить семейную жизнь, даже наоборот, очень освежает и заставляет взглянуть на партнера по новому. А вообще, только когда ОБА партнера прогрессируют и идут вперед, отношения могут быть здоровы. Иначе очень быстро наступает пресыщение и разочарование. Так что даже в момент отношений на расстоянии оба должны работать над собой, тогда после долгожданной встречи вас обоих ждет приятный сюрприз.

[Пушкарева]

Esho vspomnila horoshiy saying: "Razluka dlya lubvi, chto veter dlya ognya. Malenkuyu - tushit, bolshuyu - razjigaet esho silnee".

Такая умничка, Незабудка. Действительно, на начальной стадии общения такие разрывы чреваты полным забвением, сказка долго не проживет. Но если люди уже знают друг друга, тем более женаты, что-то (вынужденное) не более 4-5-6 месяцев врядли может разрушить семейную жизнь, даже наоборот, очень освежает и заставляет взглянуть на партнера по новому. А вообще, только когда ОБА партнера прогрессируют и идут вперед, отношения могут быть здоровы. Иначе очень быстро наступает пресыщение и разочарование. Так что даже в момент отношений на расстоянии оба должны работать над собой, тогда после долгожданной встречи вас обоих ждет приятный сюрприз.

[Femida]

любовь всегда в нас!!!и нет ей преград,и нет для нее расстояний.
But....
Do u believe in it?

[Пушкарева]

Bil tam pohojiy thread. Shas ih obyadinyat. :)

[Lady_G]

любовь всегда в нас!!!и нет ей преград,и нет для нее расстояний.
But....
Do u believe in it?Voyboo kim ezvordi bunchalik :) ?

http://forum.arbuz.com/showthread.php?t=42312

[Femida]

Vay man manby suzni yozmabmanmi?:)
P.S. Apologies if there was a similar thread...
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[Femida]

[QUOTE=Lady_G;850417]Voyboo kim ezvordi bunchalik :) ?

Andrey Gubin- " Bilo, bilo ,bilo no proshlo " Degan ashulani eshitganmisiz?;)

[Lady_G]

Andrey Gubin- " Bilo, bilo ,bilo no proshlo " Degan ashulani eshitganmisiz?;)Ayyy jagshe bo'mabte leken. No mayli haqiqiysi emaskande oq otda keladigan. YOki o'sha bo'gan, faqat tanimi qogansiz ;) .

[Glance]

Threads will be merged.

[smeshanka]

It sounds so romantic...Long distance relationship:the phone calls, the romantic e-mails and sms, the day dreaming, the desire..., the sweet bitter feeling that sommething is missing. That's how it should be....

But unfortunatly if it is for too long, everything looks different. People getting involved in different situations and their live changes. It makes them stronger but makes the distance even bigger. They have less things to share and to talk about...

Real love last forever, no matter what...

[Mr`Honesty]

It sounds so romantic...Long distance relationship:the phone calls, the romantic e-mails and sms, the day dreaming, the desire..., the sweet bitter feeling that sommething is missing. That's how it should be....

But unfortunatly if it is for too long, everything looks different. People getting involved in different situations and their live changes. It makes them stronger but makes the distance even bigger. They have less things to share and to talk about...

Real love last forever, no matter what...


That is why I am teling you girls find some nice Honest guy.

When there is honest guys avilable girls get it wrong

[Frida]

That is why I am teling you girls find some nice Honest guy.

When there is honest guys avilable girls get it wrong

rosa o'zini sottiyu, shu bola. :lol: qaysi mavzuga kirsam, hamma yoqda, I am honest. Come and get an honest guy deb yotibdi. :lol:

[Frida]

любовь всегда в нас!!!и нет ей преград,и нет для нее расстояний.
But....
Do u believe in it?


of course if there are no feelings than it is not gonna work. but if there is love and passion, why not? we live in 21 century, there are hundred ways of keeping in touch. it is not like you write a letter, snail-mail it and wait for weeks to get a response. keep it alive, spice up the occasional meetings and everything will be great. ;)

[Mrs.D]

EEE-h. Bilmadim manimcha long distance love doesn't exsist. Insonda bunaqa munosabatda ma'suliyatni kamroq sezadi. Ahir mehr ko'zda degan gap bor. Uzoq vaqt bir insonni kurmasang Unga bulgan hislaring ham sekin suna boshlaydi. Vaqt davo deyishadiku. Hullas, long distance loveda har kun gaplashsang ham emailda yozishsa ham inson uzini erkinroq, unchalik boglanmagandek his qiladi. Men bunga ishonmayman. Shunchaki vaqtni uldirish deb hisoblayman.

[Charmed]

Seychas massa lyudey znakomyatsya cherez internet, stroyat otnosheniya i eto nikogo ne udivlyaet... Lyubov bila, est' i budet vne zavisimosti prostranstva, rasstoyaniya i vremeni tolko eto zaviset ot samogo cheloveka ot ego/eyo stremleniya i postoyanstva

[ShArP]

umuman yahshi narsa emas, men ham shuni azoblini koryapman, rosa 1 yil korisha olmas ekanman sevgan yorim bilan, har kuni telefonda gaplashamiz, haftada web cam da gaplashamiz, lekin baribir. Allohim sevishganlarni bir erda qilsin ekan.

[StU]

citiruyu svoy signature:

[zlyuka]

не знаю....
я не верю в любовь/отношения на расстоянии.:rolleyes:
конечно, это зависит от расстояния и времени разлуки, но...
в конце концов время и расстояние сделают свое подлое дело!

[StU]

не знаю....
я не верю в любовь/отношения на расстоянии.:rolleyes:
конечно, это зависит от расстояния и времени разлуки, но...
в конце концов время и расстояние сделают свое подлое дело!

znachit nenastoyashaya lubov bila ;)

[zlyuka]

znachit nenastoyashaya lubov bila ;)
значит... :lol:
и вообще, я мало встречала устоявшие на расстоянии отношения :rolleyes:
а дружба?
она ведь тоже слабеет!

[Mr`Honesty]

rosa o'zini sottiyu, shu bola. :lol: qaysi mavzuga kirsam, hamma yoqda, I am honest. Come and get an honest guy deb yotibdi. :lol:


Miss Begona erkelaga kamro ahamiyat bersez duch kegan joyda kururmisiz

Uzi Forumga azo buganimga 1 hafta buldi .


Siz 21 asr Fridasimisiz?

Temaga qaytadigan busak:

Long distance disa bir maqol esga tushadi. qupol busayam qizla bundan kegin manga hujm qilasilami?

Uzoqdagi quyruqdan yaqindagi upka yahshi.

[StU]

значит... :lol:
и вообще, я мало встречала устоявшие на расстоянии отношения :rolleyes:
а дружба?
она ведь тоже слабеет!

ya je govoru vse zavisit ot sili chuvstv ;). Nastoyashee chuvstvo zasipaet na vremya, no ne prohodit.

[Uzbekxonim]

more opinions here: http://forum.arbuz.com/showthread.php?t=42312

[W.I.Z.A.R.D]

скоро свадьба в реале у пары из виртуала... счасливы, а это главное ;)

у кого было любовь в виртуале и тот кто застрял на полу пути не хотев идти дальше , будет судит об этом как любовь в виртуале это вымисел а также пустая трата времени .

ну у кого это получились виртуальная любовь а в дальнейшем уже настояшая реальная любовь, тот скажет что любовь на самом деле есть.

проста мы льюди делаем свои виводы исходя из нашего прошлого.
а вить в одну и ту же вещь могут смотреть двое и при этом иметь разные мнения .

[Dogatc]

Seychas massa lyudey znakomyatsya cherez internet, stroyat otnosheniya i eto nikogo ne udivlyaet... Lyubov bila, est' i budet vne zavisimosti prostranstva, rasstoyaniya i vremeni tolko eto zaviset ot samogo cheloveka ot ego/eyo stremleniya i postoyanstva
a interessno eto pravda chto mojna lyubit tak daleko?

[Shambles]

значит... :lol:
и вообще, я мало встречала устоявшие на расстоянии отношения :rolleyes:
а дружба?
она ведь тоже слабеет!

Shalish', Zlyuka, drujba tol'ko krepnet na rasstoyanii...

[RockerDen]

For how long it is possible to keep the relationships healthy???
1) Is it considered to be "healthy relationship"?
2) If anyway yes, then it won't be long.
Agree... bloody eyes tell so much...:D
Smotrya ot chego oni krasnye:rolleyes:

[Kalon Bek]

What do you think about long-distance relationships???
I was always against it but maybe it's not a bad idea if one finds his/her perfect match???
For how long it is possible to keep the relationships healthy???

P.S. Apologies if there was a similar thread...

YouTube - Chris Rock- View on Love and Relationships

Any relationship is BS. F@ck them and let them go thats it!

[The Reaper]

Any relationship is BS. F@ck them and let them go thats it!

Bitter much?

Unless you talk about one night stands with randoms you hook up with, I don't see how your comment fits the subject of discussion.

Now if you're talking about relationships in general, I must say your view is wrong on many levels; and only after you, at the very least, find yourself emotionally in a more mature state will you understand flaws in your reasoning.

TR

[Kalon Bek]

Bitter much?

Unless you talk about one night stands with randoms you hook up with, I don't see how your comment fits the subject of discussion.

Now if you're talking about relationships in general, I must say your view is wrong on many levels; and only after you, at the very least, find yourself emotionally in a more mature state will you understand flaws in your reasoning.

TR

Meenn toss your own salad.

P>S> In this forum, everbody is pretending to be angels'

[The Reaper]

Meenn toss your own salad.

P>S> In this forum, everbody is pretending to be angels'

Toss my salad? Wow, where did you learn this fancy language? :rolleyes:

Yeah I was right, you are just another sad run-of-the-mill sh*thead, who sucks at everything, with comprehension skills of mentally challenged, an overinflated ego, and social skills on the level of "functionally retarded".

Another ordinary dumbass. Nothing interesting.

TR

[Kalon Bek]

Toss my salad? Wow, where did you learn this fancy language? :rolleyes:

Yeah I was right, you are just another sad run-of-the-mill sh*thead, who sucks at everything, with comprehension skills of mentally challenged, an overinflated ego, and social skills on the level of "functionally retarded".

Another ordinary dumbass. Nothing interesting.

TR

Listen smartass' that was my opinion ok! So go f@ck yourself jackass!