Problems between man and wife when go back to Motherland

[Uzbekxonim]

Hello, dear formumers.

Do u experience more problems in relationship with your spouse/parents/friends when u go home, to your Motherland, while visiting family and friends?

What are the reasons in your opinion?

[anatoliydaev]

Nope. But I always experience a lot of problems with my health when I visit Uzbekistan. Does anyone have an idea why is that?

[StU]

Nope. But I always experience a lot of problems with my health when I visit Uzbekistan. Does anyone have an idea why is that?

me too, poetomu moy papa vsegda vorchit, sidi luchshe tam u sebya :(, a to ves otpusk prihoditsa lechitsa

[Kolobok]

Nope. But I always experience a lot of problems with my health when I visit Uzbekistan. Does anyone have an idea why is that?

Climate change,adaptation.

[Warrior]

Hello, dear married formumers.

Do u experience more problems in relationship with your spouse when u go home, to your Motherland, while visiting family and friends?

What are the reasons in your opinion?

Let me guess... You live with your husband abroad and face more problems in your relationship when u go home, while visiting family. Is it because you have to be an exemplary "kelin" and should behave yourself and supposed to do things which you normally do but without pressure? Are you feeling yourself oppressed and not free? Is it the point? If so, get used to reality. May be you are facing a reverse cultural shock, but you'll get used to it.

[Royal]

Hello, dear married formumers.
Do u experience more problems in relationship with your spouse when u go home, to your Motherland, while visiting family and friends?
What are the reasons in your opinion?

har doim, kimga nima sovga olinishi togrisida....va qaysi tamonga koproq..

bu bir oddie hol...har bir oilaniichidigi bir muammo, bunga qozi shartmas, balkim er-hotinni ortasida hal boladigan bir oddie gap.

eng oddie yechimi har ikki tamonga bir hil olinsa osha durust boladi !!!
Nope. But I always experience a lot of problems with my health when I visit Uzbekistan. Does anyone have an idea why is that?

UZBga borganda uyga kelishin bilan bir kosa qatiqqa 1 bosh piyozni maydalap ichish kerak va 1 haftalacha qovurilgan yani yoglik ovqatladan ozini parhez qilish kerak...oshanda hammasi yahshi boladi....

[AL-Midwest]

I don't have a relationship with smn back home, but i had some misunderstanding with my friends and parents sometiems. Whether you like it or not you get adapted to the culture and way of life you live in foreign country. I got used to be independent and take my steps individually, but in our country the community plays a significant role in public and private life. In some situations I had to compromise most of the time because people around me just wouldn't get it why i was doing a certain things-)

[~Atirgul~]

BIzada nima yomon hamma qarindoshlar saning oilaviy hayotinga aralashishga haqliman deb o'ylashadi, ayniqsa qaynonalar. Undoq qil, bundoq qil, o'rgatib o'tirishadi, maslahat sifatida emas, buyruq qilib etishadi yana.

[Royal]

BIzada nima yomon hamma qarindoshlar saning oilaviy hayotinga aralashishga haqliman deb o'ylashadi, ayniqsa qaynonalar. Undoq qil, bundoq qil, o'rgatib o'tirishadi, maslahat sifatida emas, buyruq qilib etishadi yana.

buni hudo hohlasa qaynona boganizda yana bir marta qaytararmikinsiz ???

[infolife]

Unfortunately, we have not visited family and friends as a coupl yet.
So far, they are visiting us:D
Of course, I can name one or two problems that concerns most people

1.No private space. Everyone, even your own family seems to be so nosy

2.Not having respect for your viewpoint regarding the family matters. Any unusual opinions to the traditional way are not welcomed.That might create a problem among your in-laws eventually effecting a relationship with your spouse

3.Also, peoples' usual gossip. I couldnt stand it last time I went. It is soo normal that people have nothing else to talk about. I had a go with my cousins and very close friends

[~Atirgul~]

buni hudo hohlasa qaynona boganizda yana bir marta qaytararmikinsiz ???
Hudo hohlasa bergan tarbiyamni o'z paytida beraman, ular voyaga etgandan keyin, mustaqil inson bo'lgandan keyin, o'zi bilishadi qandoq hayot kechirishni, maslahat bersam berarman, ammo lekin u paytda oilaviy ikir -chikir ishlariga aralashishimga, buyruq qilishimga haqqim bo'lmaydi.

[corsair]

Nope. But I always experience a lot of problems with my health when I visit Uzbekistan. Does anyone have an idea why is that?

the same with me... i dont know the answer...

[Пушкарева]

I had problems too - got some breathing issues. Was too bad: spend all holidays running from one clinic to another. Felt relief as soon as landed back in states.

[Samimiy]

Unfortunately, we have not visited family and friends as a coupl yet.
So far, they are visiting us:D
Of course, I can name one or two problems that concerns most people

1.No private space. Everyone, even your own family seems to be so nosy

2.Not having respect for your viewpoint regarding the family matters. Any unusual opinions to the traditional way are not welcomed.That might create a problem among your in-laws eventually effecting a relationship with your spouse

3.Also, peoples' usual gossip. I couldnt stand it last time I went. It is soo normal that people have nothing else to talk about. I had a go with my cousins and very close friends

I am single, but if I were married and went back home, I very much suspect we would have the problems you mention :)

[alpum]

он проявляет настоящее чувства там на родине.

так как вы теперь не иденственная - подруга или супруга за границей кто понимает его.
в узбекистане много кто может поддержать его и есть с кем поговорить.

имено здесь возникает вопрос а правельно ли я сделал женивше на ней. а может жениться еще раз? та ли это?

вот и все споры в реленшеншип - наверно.....

[StU]

Unfortunately, we have not visited family and friends as a coupl yet.
So far, they are visiting us:D
Of course, I can name one or two problems that concerns most people

1.No private space. Everyone, even your own family seems to be so nosy

2.Not having respect for your viewpoint regarding the family matters. Any unusual opinions to the traditional way are not welcomed.That might create a problem among your in-laws eventually effecting a relationship with your spouse

3.Also, peoples' usual gossip. I couldnt stand it last time I went. It is soo normal that people have nothing else to talk about. I had a go with my cousins and very close friends

oy mne vse eto predstoit etim letom :shock:, drugaya semya, drugaya strana, drugaya kultura i obichayi. I oni uje vse predvskushayut nash priyezd, tak kak ya pervaya kelinka v semye :?.

[~Atirgul~]

oy mne vse eto predstoit etim letom :shock:, drugaya semya, drugaya strana, drugaya kultura i obichayi. I oni uje vse predvskushayut nash priyezd, tak kak ya pervaya kelinka v semye :?.
gotovtes':D

[Sankoz]

I think the main reason is that there is no respect for privacy in our society. There is a lot of respect for elders, and "what other people may think". But definitely not privacy. This eventually affects your independence and creates problems. Voila!!! C'est la vie Uzbek.

[Inspiredmind]

BIzada nima yomon hamma qarindoshlar saning oilaviy hayotinga aralashishga haqliman deb o'ylashadi, ayniqsa qaynonalar. Undoq qil, bundoq qil, o'rgatib o'tirishadi, maslahat sifatida emas, buyruq qilib etishadi yana.

odamni o'ziga bog'lik, yani kaynano va kaynataga , ularni olgan yoshlikdagi tarbiyasiga va hayotdan olgan tajribasiga,, lekin bir narsani e'simizdan chikarmasligimiz kerak, ba'zi vaktlarda yaxshi kaynona kaynato advice/maslahat sifatida bersa kelinlar boshkacha tushunadi, yani bu subordinasii/psihologiya/uzbekskaya tradisiya deyish mumkin, yani kilish mumkin yoki mumkin bo'lmagan narsani maslahat bersa ular bizni kelinlar kak buyruq sifatida qabul kiladi, ozbek oilaning kelinlarini shundayda honim, kattani yani kaynoni kaynatani gapiga kirsangiz hech kachon kam bo'lmaysiz, ular kelinlik experienceni o'tab bo'lgan, shu uchun maslahat beradilar, siz endigina aytaylik 1 yoki 3,4 yil kelinlik kilayotgan bo'lsangiz kaynonalar e'sa 20 25 yildan beri kelinlik kilishgan va kilishyabdi hammasini chiroyli duolarini olib, Alhamdilillah, qaynata va qaynona hech kachon keliniga yomon maslahat bermaydi, ahir u o'g'lining chiroyli mahramiku, aytgan ishlarini kilsiz 100% kaysi kaynano/kaynata kelinini yomon bo'lsin deydi, menimcha hech kaysi oila, bahtli bo'linglar.

on: Uzbekhonim western stylelarni yok kilib, uzbekskiy mentalitetga o'tib o'ling o'sha ketayotga vaktingizda, shunda no problems...:D

[~Atirgul~]

Yaqinlaringdan uzoqda bo'lganingda o'z umr yoldoshing yoningda bo'lganiga qadriga ko'proq etar ekansan, unga ko'proq mehr ko'rsatasan, u haqda qayg'urasan, u ham sanga ko'proq mehribon bo'lar ekan.

[PainKiller]

glavnaya prichina v nashey kulture uzbekskoy. Roditeli, rodstvenniki muzha lezut-i lezut k kelin so svoimi sovetami i nravoucheniyami. Obichno, kelin zhdut kak pomoshnicu po hozyaystvu. Ya sama mnogoo mnogo raz slishala kak govorili "Kocha supurgani belim ogriyapti, uglimmi uylantiraman, kelin hamma ishlarni kiladi". I kak tol'ko kelin perebiraetsya zhit' k rodne muzha, oni nachinayut eyo "perevospitivat'", uchit' i podstraivat' pod svoi nravi.
I would hate to be kelin in Uzb. I love my privacy and like doing things the way I want.

[AKULA]

Sure, I had some problems with my friends and brothers. Once, it was my 1st week in Uzb. after long time, My oldest bro ordered me to do smth for him, it seemed so rude for me n I said u've to do it urself. He was angry, I was angry ... My mom said I'm younger so I have to do what olders say...! After some time I RE-ATOPTED back to my culture, *UZBEKNING KICHIGI...*. And a lot of problems with my friends, they suddenly invite me somewhere without knowing my plans, freetime n so on. I rejected some but they were so angry with me. After some time I used to live without any plans :).

REWISE-CULTURSHOCK. Nothing to do, you have to ADOPT.

[Uzbekxonim]

on: Uzbekhonim western stylelarni yok kilib, uzbekskiy mentalitetga o'tib o'ling o'sha ketayotga vaktingizda, shunda no problems...:D

qaynonam 'sovremenniy kelin' olaman deb, Human rights lawyer kelin olib rosa adabini evotti :lol:
on: o'ziyam uyga borganimizda kelinchak bo'lib qolaman, piyola choy quyib, egilib uzatib, domrabotsnitsa, kuharka bo'lib... 1-2 haftada bunaqa hayotdan odam charchab, western style ancha yahshiroq deb harakterini ko'rsatdigan bo'ladi :)

[Uzbekxonim]

Sure, I had some problems with my friends and brothers. Once, it was my 1st week in Uzb. after long time, My oldest bro ordered me to do smth for him, it seemed so rude for me n I said u've to do it urself. He was angry, I was angry ... My mom said I'm younger so I have to do what olders say...! After some time I RE-ATOPTED back to my culture, *UZBEKNING KICHIGI...*. And a lot of problems with my friends, they suddenly invite me somewhere without knowing my plans, freetime n so on. I rejected some but they were so angry with me. After some time I used to live without any plans :).

REWISE-CULTURSHOCK. Nothing to do, you have to ADOPT.

strangely, when you vacation at home comes to an end, u say i am so happy to be back to my normal life :)

[Warrior]

товба килдим, шу аёлларимиз нега узгариб, ишёкмас, катталарни хурмат килмайдиган булиб кетяптийкин? телевизор сабабчими ёки глоблизация? иложи булса ишдан келсанг кулингга болани туткизиб куйса-ю, сен эмизсанг :)
биринчи душман кайнона-кайнота эр тараф, хох яхши булсин хох ёмон. хуллас генофонд бузиляпти. хали эрта индин узларини бошларига кайнона булиш тушганда курамиз.

[Sirena]

иложи булса ишдан келсанг кулингга болани туткизиб куйса-ю, сен эмизсанг :)


WHY NOT?
Nimaga endi hamma narsani kelin qilishi kerak, nimaga birgalashib qilsa bo'lmaydi, ham qaynona zerikmaydi, yoki semirib ketmaydi:D ham yengi uyni odatlarini kelin tezroq o'rganadi. Uydagi qaynsingil ham yordam bersa bo'ladi, ja bo'lmasa o'zini kiyimini o'zi dazmollasin. Eng tushunarsiz narsa hizmatkor olishga puli yetadigan odamlar hizmatkor olmasdan kelin ishlatishadi, hich tushunmiman.

Mavzu bo'yicha mani hich qanaqa muammolarim yo'q, chunki hech kim manga aralasha olmaydi, balki oyimga gapirishar, lekin man uchun po .....

[Warrior]

WHY NOT?
Nimaga endi hamma narsani kelin qilishi kerak, nimaga birgalashib qilsa bo'lmaydi, ham qaynona zerikmaydi, yoki semirib ketmaydi:D ham yengi uyni odatlarini kelin tezroq o'rganadi. Uydagi qaynsingil ham yordam bersa bo'ladi, ja bo'lmasa o'zini kiyimini o'zi dazmollasin. Eng tushunarsiz narsa hizmatkor olishga puli yetadigan odamlar hizmatkor olmasdan kelin ishlatishadi, hich tushunmiman.

Mavzu bo'yicha mani hich qanaqa muammolarim yo'q, chunki hech kim manga aralasha olmaydi, balki oyimga gapirishar, lekin man uchun po .....

Yo'q albatta, gapingizga qo'shilaman. Kelinga yordam berish kerak, o'rgatish kerak, ayash kerak, zug'um qilish kerak emas. Biroq bilasizmi, eshak semirsa egasini tepadi degandek, ayrim ayollarga shunaqangi ideal sharoit qilib qo'ysang ham o'zidan ketib qoladiganlari bor.

Mana bunga amal qiluvchi oilada yashash menimcha rohat:
http://muslimaat.uz/index.php?option=com_content&task=blogcategory&id=33&Itemid=55

[Inspiredmind]

qaynonam 'sovremenniy kelin' olaman deb, Human rights lawyer kelin olib rosa adabini evotti :lol:
on: o'ziyam uyga borganimizda kelinchak bo'lib qolaman, piyola choy quyib, egilib uzatib, domrabotsnitsa, kuharka bo'lib... 1-2 haftada bunaqa hayotdan odam charchab, western style ancha yahshiroq deb harakterini ko'rsatdigan bo'ladi :)


vakt hakam deyishadi kattalar, yoshiz ertaga bir joyga boradi, sennostlar o'zgaradi, o'sha uzbekona tradisiyalarni o'zingiz bilmagan holda yaxshi ko'rib kolasiz, zerikkanizdan HR deganda siz ko'chib ketadigan bo'lib kolasiz, Uzbekxonim.:)

[Royal]

birowni uyiga tusgandan keyin qiz bola osha oilani qiziga aylanadi oz holida..

albatta ancha buncha narasalar boshqacha boladi oz uyidan tshqarida, shundoq boiganidan keyin osha oilaga tushgani9dan keytin oilam erim uyim deydigan bosa iosha oilani turish-turmushlariga konikip yashashi kerak ---

hohlamadimi kottaa kocha....

oshanaqa qizni ota-onasiga lanat deyiladi holos....

saaal evi bilande endi...

[Odildustov]

Shunchalar kup vaqt qolib ketasilami chetda yoki shunchalar tez uzgarasilami? bunchalik emasdir, balki uzlaringda nimadir bulayotgandir. har holda dunyo kezgan kelin deb unchalik bosim utkazishmasa kere? yana bilmadim.

manda faqat vaqt problema buladi borganimda. yana telefon nomerimni tez tez uzgartiraman, bulmasa qilishovradi soat kechasi 11-12 dayam. jahlimni chiqargan narsasi uylashmaydi-ki safardan kelgan, oilasi bilandir deb.
har borishimdan oldin, telefon qilib "bu safar hech joyga chiqmayman, utiraman uyda sila bilan birga" deb oilamga tayinlayman. yomon tomoni shunda-ki ohirgi vaqtlarda umuman ishonmaydigan bulib qoldi mana shu gapimga.

[Royal]

Shunchalar kup vaqt qolib ketasilami chetda yoki shunchalar tez uzgarasilami? bunchalik emasdir, balki uzlaringda nimadir bulayotgandir. har holda dunyo kezgan kelin deb unchalik bosim utkazishmasa kere? yana bilmadim.

manda faqat vaqt problema buladi borganimda. yana telefon nomerimni tez tez uzgartiraman, bulmasa qilishovradi soat kechasi 11-12 dayam. jahlimni chiqargan narsasi uylashmaydi-ki safardan kelgan, oilasi bilandir deb.

uarim kechasi telefon qilishlari u hech narsayamas, yana eng zor joyi:

- Uzr, bezovta qimadikmi ? yoki - Nima qivotsan ?

hmmm....soat 3-4am.....

[Morel]

Hudo hohlasa bergan tarbiyamni o'z paytida beraman, ular voyaga etgandan keyin, mustaqil inson bo'lgandan keyin, o'zi bilishadi qandoq hayot kechirishni, maslahat bersam berarman, ammo lekin u paytda oilaviy ikir -chikir ishlariga aralashishimga, buyruq qilishimga haqqim bo'lmaydi.


Atirgulhon, Siz future keliniz haqida gapirvosiz. Unutmen Sizi qizizam boshqa oliaga kelin bulib tushadilar.

Tarbiyani uz vaqtida beraman debsiz, bu yahshi, lekin agar shunga boshqa oilada kunikib yashab/survive qilishiyam urgatsez/urne busez nur ustiga nur buladi va Sizdek qiynalmasligi mumkin.

Tahminimcha Siz yo turmush qurgandan keyin srazu horijga ketgansiz turmus urtogiz bilan, yo horijda turmush qurgansiz.

Hafa bumen, bunaqa gaplani Armeniy Vamberi ham etib utgan uz vaqtida, lekin mana status quo saqlanib kevotti, hammasi usha-usha deyarli hech narsa uzgargani yuq.

I'm sure u will get used to it.

PS: Iltimos uzizga omen, umumiy qib gapirvoman: manimcha qaynonani har bir etgan gaplarini tugri ma'noda tushunib dars sifatida qabul qilish kere shekilli, hayotda juda kere buladi, ishoning! Tugri Siz hozi etishiz mumkin, man unaqa bumiman, man bunaqa bulaman db, lekin qaynonani uz onasidek qabul qilib tajribasiga tayangan kelin hali shu kungacha kam bumagan.

Uylashimcha yangi kelinla uchun bu yahshi urnak emas.


Oldindan uzr suriman qupol gapirgan busam.

[Morel]

qaynonam 'sovremenniy kelin' olaman deb, Human rights lawyer kelin olib rosa adabini evotti :lol:
on: o'ziyam uyga borganimizda kelinchak bo'lib qolaman, piyola choy quyib, egilib uzatib, domrabotsnitsa, kuharka bo'lib... 1-2 haftada bunaqa hayotdan odam charchab, western style ancha yahshiroq deb harakterini ko'rsatdigan bo'ladi :)


achinarli holat...

[yusufdonat]

sevgi ve saygının olduğu yerde problem olamaz....

[Masanori]

bulajak tuy masalasida juda kup missunderstanding ga duch keldim...

bizada kup narsalaga baho berishda norma umuman boshqa...odamlarga, ulani gapiga qarab ish tutamiz.

Yuq deb turib olsangiz, uzbek millati, uni qadriyatlarini kamsitganlikda ayblashadi.

Negativ milliy kamchiliklarni urtaga tashagandim, dabdalam chiqdi...uydagila uchun halq dushmani bulib qoldim ;)

[Monic]

buni hudo hohlasa qaynona boganizda yana bir marta qaytararmikinsiz ???

Manimcha yoq, chunki ular endi ulani qaynonalariga uhshamaydilar, yani ancagina zamonaviyroq odam.
Ayol kishi Erkak kishiyma aslida, uzini yoshligidan tayyorlab borishi kerak.
Bollani kotta qildimmi, endi holaganicha yashasin.

Shahsan man birontayam Uglimni(insallah), man bilan yashashini istamasdim, nima zaril kebdimi shuncha yil boqib katta qilib, problemalarini hal qilib, yana kop kotta Erke buganidayam uni hishavasini hal qilish, hhh...:lol:

Faqat hamma qizla, shu narsaga uzlarini shu yoshlardan tayyorlab borsaar, manimcha osonroq kechadi.;)

[Monic]

bulajak tuy masalasida juda kup missunderstanding ga duch keldim...

bizada kup narsalaga baho berishda norma umuman boshqa...odamlarga, ulani gapiga qarab ish tutamiz.

Yuq deb turib olsangiz, uzbek millati, uni qadriyatlarini kamsitganlikda ayblashadi.

Negativ milliy kamchiliklarni urtaga tashagandim, dabdalam chiqdi...uydagila uchun halq dushmani bulib qoldim ;)

Man bilaman bitta Japanda uqigan akamizzi(qarindoshimiz), hoy nahoy ulani tanisez kere.
Shartta oldilade, hammani yuziga ...., deb, bitta Belorussiyalikka uylanib Toshkentga obordila, hich kim hich narsa diyomadi, lekin oyilari judayam hafa buldilar ichlaridan.

[Monic]

товба килдим, шу аёлларимиз нега узгариб, ишёкмас, катталарни хурмат килмайдиган булиб кетяптийкин? телевизор сабабчими ёки глоблизация? иложи булса ишдан келсанг кулингга болани туткизиб куйса-ю, сен эмизсанг :)
биринчи душман кайнона-кайнота эр тараф, хох яхши булсин хох ёмон. хуллас генофонд бузиляпти. хали эрта индин узларини бошларига кайнона булиш тушганда курамиз.

Ko'rarsiz, akam, balkim, va hoynahoy,
ula qaynonalariga uhshash maydachi va uz hukmini utkazishni istovchi bulishmas, insallah.

[Izida]

хехе. проблемы со здоровьем в первую очередь, ничего не могу есть. конечно проблемы с друзьями и родственниками из за разных бытовых мелочей. но за пределами узба я привыкла к комфорту и мне там этого не хватает. а так как я знаю свой строптивый характер то пытаюсь меньше общаться с родственниками. еще меня бесят иногда люди в кафе грубые как бутто не ты клиент а обслуживающий персонал кафе. причем как бы ты не старался быть вежливым они по любому тебя выведут своей грубостью. в принципе это все... :) а насчет личной жизни и наши соседи и родственники поняли что чем больше они будут лезть со своими советами тем хуже я буду делать или просто игнорить. ))) к сожалению пока не замужем, но предвидя все проблемы которые меня ждут я вряд ли выйду замуж за узбекистанца и даже за узбека. :)

[Royal]

Manimcha yoq, chunki ular endi ulani qaynonalariga uhshamaydilar, yani ancagina zamonaviyroq odam.
Ayol kishi Erkak kishiyma aslida, uzini yoshligidan tayyorlab borishi kerak.
Bollani kotta qildimmi, endi holaganicha yashasin.

Shahsan man birontayam Uglimni(insallah), man bilan yashashini istamasdim, nima zaril kebdimi shuncha yil boqib katta qilib, problemalarini hal qilib, yana kop kotta Erke buganidayam uni hishavasini hal qilish, hhh...:lol:

Faqat hamma qizla, shu narsaga uzlarini shu yoshlardan tayyorlab borsaar, manimcha osonroq kechadi.;)

hozircha g'amila yoqde oshanga shunaqa KOTTA gap qivotsila....
hammasini vaqt korsatadi....

Oziladan ozila KOTTA bop qoganila yoqku a?
Uydigiladan saal alohida bolip ozilani g'amilani ozila saal hal qivosayla dunyo problemasini hal qildik dip oylavotsilami ???
oyogilani tegidan saal naryoqda butun dunyo....
silani bu kalta hayolilaga bitta gap boriydi...g'am togrisida.....

[Tashkentskiy]

I am single, but if I were married and went back home, I very much suspect we would have the problems you mention :)
Why are you single?

[uzbekcfa2]

Why are you single?

Your question irrefutably earns a spot on top ten most "intelligent" questions ever list.

- Im single
- why are you single?
...hmmm:rolleyes::rolleyes::rolleyes:....pause...b eep...beep...for english, press one. para espanol pressiones dos.

[Adam & Eva]

Sure, I had some problems with my friends and brothers. Once, it was my 1st week in Uzb. after long time, My oldest bro ordered me to do smth for him, it seemed so rude for me n I said u've to do it urself. He was angry, I was angry ... My mom said I'm younger so I have to do what olders say...! After some time I RE-ATOPTED back to my culture, *UZBEKNING KICHIGI...*. And a lot of problems with my friends, they suddenly invite me somewhere without knowing my plans, freetime n so on. I rejected some but they were so angry with me. After some time I used to live without any plans :).

REWISE-CULTURSHOCK. Nothing to do, you have to ADOPT.

adapt deng, yanada tugriroq buladi ;)

[Rusya]

Im gay WHen I go to uzbekistan I will be hanged :shock:

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