whom would u choose?

[Sojida]

Hello guys, iam the new member and i recently thought about something which is realted to choosing two dearest thing in ur life,
it is ur family or ur lover , whom would u chose? If love them both, but each of them hate each other.

[SAMARKANDI!]

Hello guys, iam the new member and i recently thought about something which is realted to choosing two dearest thing in ur life,
it is ur family or ur lover , whom would u chose? If love them both, but each of them hate each other.

Choose both and become a smart diplomat :D Some people say nothing is impossible but death :)

[lost]

oilani tanlash kerak, oilani. kunida bittasini yoqtirib qolish mumkin, lekin ota onani kunda topib bo'lmaydi. : )




threadni "Oila va jamiyat"dami desam, mnd da ekan, sorri : )

[eusko]

You can't decline your family. It is definitely. And the lover can trait. The family is more important. You will never have second father or mother.
I hope you will find a solution. Good luck!

[wow_kabob]

oilani kanishna aqliz bilan ish qilin yana uziz belasioz man sizni urnizda buganimda oilani derdim

[Frida]

if your family loves you, they'll accept the person you love.

[eusko]

if your family loves you, they'll accept the person you love.
It is too good to be true.
If I love a whore for example, they will never accept her. But that doesn't mean that they don't love me. Of course I can insist and they finally will accept her. But it will make them feel pain. I made already some errors, I feel ashamed. I was a stubborn insisting mazafaka. It hurted, really hurted my parents. Finally the life showed that they were right. I was traited by the person I loved.
I just wanna say that normal parents always love their children and if they don't wanna accept some girl, that doesn't mean that they don't love or whatever. They always want the best for the child.
Of course they can be not right, they can make errors, but I am sure they love you.
It is the problem which has too many sides. But you never will decline your parents. You have no moral right to do it.

[Mrs.D]

Oila hammasidan muhim. Seni parvarish qilgan, bir umr qadrlagan insonlardan ko'ra sevgan odamni tanlash notugri. HEch kim sizni ota onangiz ardoqlaganicha yahshi kura olmaydi. Buni uzimni hayotimda kurganman.
Bir hikoya keltiray!
Bir zamonda 3 kishini nohaq ayblab ulim jazosiga buyurishibdi. Shunda shoh ularga eng sunggi tilagini bajo keltirishini aytganda, Biri onasini, ikkinchisi rafiqasini va yana biri opasini kurishni istashini aytibdi. Bu istak bajo keltirilishi haqida farmon berilibdi. Ammo saroyga faqat bittagina ayol kelibdi. Shunda shoh bu qaysi biringizga tegishli desa, biri onam, biri rafiqam va biri esa opam debdi. Shunda shohning rahmi kelib: " Ey ayol bir vaqtning uzida barchadan ajralish sen uchun qiyin buladi, bir odamni tanla ushani gunohidan utaman" ,-debdi. Ayol uylab ukamni tanlayman deb javob beribdi. HAyron bulgan shoh" NEga endi jufti halolingni yoki Qiynalib dunoyga keltirib katta qilgan farzandingni tanlamay ukangni tanlading ?"- deb savol surabdi. Ayol esa:" Ey shohim bir erkakning etagini ushlasam erlik ham bularman, undan farzand ham dunyoga keltirishim mumkin, ammo ukanmi yoqotsam uni qayerdan yana topaman, ahir ota onam ulib ketgan bulsa.", deb javob bergan ekan.

[inDecision]

I think, If you are very very sure that you will always be happy with your loved one, then go for it. Your parents may be against now, but once they see you happy and satisfied from your life, they will understand your situation and admit your lover.
However, if you have even small doubt about being happy with your lover in your life, think about it twice cause if you choose him by giving pain to your parents and in case your union won't last long, it will be double pain for your parents as well as for you.

[Demir Kağan]

as Frida mentioned, if your family loves you, they will accept her and if your honey loves you, she will accept them.

But.. what I recommend is let them feel like they are losing you, both your family and sweetheart.

[NaNiKa]

of course ur fammily :)

[PainKiller]

It is wrong to be put in position where you have to choose between those two.

[sakura]

Just take your time. You may find the way which your family, lover and you can be happy. If you can't find the answer, stop to think about it. Just let it be. After a little while, somehow, you'll find the answer from somewhere that you never expect.

That's what I always do when I face some problems :)

[NaNiKa]

this question is really hard to answer so u have to do whatever ur heart tells u to do.

[crescent]

Choose both and become a smart diplomat :D Some people say nothing is impossible but death :)

I agree with SAMARKANDI. You just need to know how to approach your parents and your lover with the matter. Take your time to think and work out your strategy. Never say never ;)

[Ma'ruf]

Lovers come and go...but your family stays with you untill the end.

[Franklin]

Hello guys, iam the new member and i recently thought about something which is realted to choosing two dearest thing in ur life,
it is ur family or ur lover , whom would u chose? If love them both, but each of them hate each other.

NEVER TAKE SIDES AGAINST THE FAMILY

God Father

:D sevgan inson avvalo sizdan mani yoki oilangni tanlagiiiiin deb soramaydi.

[rosefire]

Hello guys, iam the new member and i recently thought about something which is realted to choosing two dearest thing in ur life,
it is ur family or ur lover , whom would u chose? If love them both, but each of them hate each other.
#1. sevdim deb oiladan kechib sevganini tanlasa inson, sevgani (agar sizni chindan sevsa) hursand bo'lish o'rniga hafa bo'lsa kerak, shunday qarorga kelishiga men sababchi boldim deb umr bo'yi ich etini yeb o'tsa kerak

#2. oilasini qo'yib, sevganini tanlansa, ertaga kim garantiya beradi, yahshirog'ini uchratib qolsa sizni ham almashtirvormasligiga

hullas shunaqa gaplar, lekin harakat qilish kerak to find commond ground to make both sides happy and together

"Let it be, let it be" degan qo'shiq bormidi esimga tushib ketti, taqdir-peshana hammasini hal qib qoyadi, ozgina vaqt, sabr va albatta harakat kerak. bo'lmasa ... yana o'zilar bilasizlar

[Hibiscus]

It is sad that it is EITHER OR question. Both sounds better. :lol: However, I think there is no one can be closer to you than your family.

[Abu Hurayra]

if your family loves you, they'll accept the person you love.
but here she said that they hate each other?
What if they accept but girl still hates your family?
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If I I was in the same situation, I would negotiate with two parties and make a decision placing my feelings against girl out of scope.
If negotiations would not bring anything, I would ofcourse be with my family. (Ona ota rozi xudo rozi deganday, Albatta bunda Ota ona Islomga amal qilishligi kerak)...

[Magnolia]

No person in the world can replace ur family/parents/siblings/etc.

Family comes first :D

[Hibiscus]

No person in the world can replace ur family/parents/siblings/etc.

Family comes first :D

what would you do if u knew that this person will be the last person you will love, and maybe you will never again like/love/be with anyone else? You need to make your family also, right? or will your family tree end up at this point? :lol: just wondering.....

[uzbekcfa2]

what would you do if u knew that this person will be the last person you will love,

I would say go for it!:lol:

[Hibiscus]

I would say go for it!:lol:

You GO MAN!!! Good luck :lol:

[uzbekcfa2]

You GO MAN!!! Good luck :lol:

oh yeah, wish me luck! cuz this one is live free or die hard (couldnt find the equivalent of "krepkiy oreshek":lol:)

[rosefire]

what would you do if u knew that this person will be the last person you will love, and maybe you will never again like/love/be with anyone else? You need to make your family also, right? or will your family tree end up at this point? :lol: just wondering.....
tough ha? very tough question/decision

that's why it is called ”LIFE”, sometimes u have to make tough decisions against ur will.

Lekin odam hammasiga konikib konib ketadi. But never ever toss ur family

ps: bugun maslahat qopim ochilib ketibdi shekilli. uni qoyilar buni qoyilar, hammani ozini hayoti, ozi hohlagandaqa qaror qilib ozi hohlagandaqa yashorsin

[Hibiscus]

tough ha? very tough question/decision

that's why it is called “LIFE”, sometimes u have to make tough decisions against ur will.

Lekin odam hammasiga konikib konib ketadi. But never ever toss ur family

who said it's going to be an easy question. :lol: jk ;) Yes life is full of tough surprises that brings us different changes. but one thing that will always be unchangeable is your family. time heals .

[rosefire]

who said it's going to be an easy questions. :lol: jk ;) Yes life is full of tough surprises that brings us different changes. but one thing that will always be unchangeable is your family. time heals .
that's why ":DSmile and Wave:D" (c)Madacascar
everything will be just fine, so take it easy, everybody:)

[Hibiscus]

that's why ":DSmile and Wave:D" (c)Madacascar
everything will be just fine, so take it easy, everybody:)

You forgot to add "AKUNA MATATA" :lol: "Everything will be alright" :lol:

[Maroon]

Depends what kind of family you have.

I mean most of us are lucky , but there are people in the world who have shitty parents who do not give a crap about them or keep them in the cellar and rape them.

Being a parent does not make you special if you never gave shit about your children or abused them.

So , if I were to grow up in that kind of family I'd choose 1000 lovers over a crack ho and a rapist. :D

P.S I am know I am slightly off-topic.

[rosefire]

You forgot to add "AKUNA MATATA" :lol: "Everything will be alright" :lol:
:lol::lol::lol::lol:
thanks for making it perfect now
yoohoooo:lol: AKUNA MATATA :lol: to thread author, o'zi ancha bogan ekan ochganizga biror qaror qildizmi keyin?
omadizi bersin

[Hibiscus]

Depends what kind of family you have.

I mean most of us are lucky , but there are people in the world who have shitty parents who do not give a crap about them or you bloody keep them in the cellar and rape them.

Being a parent does not make you special if you never gave shit about your children or abused them.

oh, no, I don't think we are talking about those families that abuse and rape their own kids, i don't think that, that kind of family would even care about who their kids will marry anyway. That's not a family, that's just "prishelci iz ada" :lol:

[Maroon]

oh, no, I don't think we are talking about those families that abuse and rape their own kids, i don't think that, that kind of family would even care about who their kids will marry anyway. That's not a family, that's just "prishelci iz ada" :lol:

I know. I just wanted to post the cruel side of life. :lol:

Hello guys, iam the new member and i recently thought about something which is realted to choosing two dearest thing in ur life,
it is ur family or ur lover , whom would u chose? If love them both, but each of them hate each other.



I'd send them to a shrink. Family counseling. Why not? :D

[Hibiscus]

Indian movies will help...:lol:

[SAMARKANDI!]

Indian movies will help...:lol:

No it will worsen the situation i.e. boyfriend may turn out to be lost son of Sojidah's family :lol:

[Magnolia]

what would you do if u knew that this person will be the last person you will love, and maybe you will never again like/love/be with anyone else? You need to make your family also, right? or will your family tree end up at this point? :lol: just wondering.....
so you are willing to chose some stranger over people who gave you life and raised you to be a person?:)
pardon me but still i would chose my family.

[SmIlIk]

Hello guys, iam the new member and i recently thought about something which is realted to choosing two dearest thing in ur life,
it is ur family or ur lover , whom would u chose? If love them both, but each of them hate each other.

Considering that my lover is my husband, he is my family, too ;) As for the second question, Thank God we do not have such issues like not getting along within a bigger family circle.

[Bukharan]

Hello guys, iam the new member and i recently thought about something which is realted to choosing two dearest thing in ur life,
it is ur family or ur lover , whom would u chose? If love them both, but each of them hate each other.

Other things may change us, but we start and end with family.
Anthony Brandt

[Hibiscus]

so you are willing to chose some stranger over people who gave you life and raised you to be a person?:)
pardon me but still i would chose my family.

In which part of my question do you see me saying that I would choose a stranger over a family? :) Pardon me, stranger will always be a stranger to me....family is my blood.

[Magnolia]

what would you do if u knew that this person will be the last person you will love, and maybe you will never again like/love/be with anyone else? You need to make your family also, right? or will your family tree end up at this point? :lol: just wondering.....

In which part of my question do you see me saying that I would choose a stranger over a family? :) Pardon me, stranger will always be a stranger to me....family is my blood.

I implied from your direct quote that you'd rather start a family of your own and not end up alone :),to which I say,I'd rather stay alone then have to choose between family and someone.
but thats imho ;)

[SAMARKANDI!]

Mashuni eshitib shu thread esimga tushib ketdi :D

enjoy the Chris

YouTube - Chris Rea - I just wanna be with you

[PainKiller]

Lovers come and go...but your family stays with you untill the end.
Once you found your soulmate, who was a good person, lover, friend, and basically the second half of yours, it is reaaaaaaaaallly hard to settle for anything less. You will meet someone, but will you be as happy with the new person as you were with your sweetheart?;)

[rosefire]

Considering that my lover is my husband, he is my family, too ;) As for the second question, Thank God we do not have such issues like not getting along within a bigger family circle.
as always bravo Smilik opa:) sizdek bahtlilar kopayaversin

yahshi kelin kuyovini oilasini oilam deb, "kelin" emas "qiz" bo'p keladi deyishadiku, demak o'glini seva olgan qiz bolaning ota/onasiyu, aka ukalarigacha oilam deb qabul qilishi kerak, and the same applies to guys too.

hammelar bahtli bolorilar:)

[Prince]

Considering that my lover is my husband, he is my family, too ;) As for the second question, Thank God we do not have such issues like not getting along within a bigger family circle.

My husband is my lover! i like that answer! Smilik - u r the best ))))

Shu oylavoman: Smilik anu Soat Sharipovvi "Kelin Kuyov" peredachi bolardi oshanga. siz bilan MegaZ pocham'ni chiqarse, Qale bolarkin a? :rolleyes:

Soat aka: Tak MegaZjon siz Coloradoda Konki uchib turing, Smilik siz gapiring kevossiz Up North'dan, dalshe nima boldi!? :) deb ... a? :lol:

[Izida]

Hello guys, iam the new member and i recently thought about something which is realted to choosing two dearest thing in ur life,
it is ur family or ur lover , whom would u chose? If love them both, but each of them hate each other.

Любовь приходит и уходит как говорится в одной поговорке. Семью не выбирают, конечно можно пренебречь разными дядюшками и тетушками. Но думаю если речь идет о родителях надо попробовать найти компромисс. Любимые люди могут появляться в нашей жизни по нескольку раз о родителей мы больше не найдем...

[satik]

Andijon viloyati diniy idorasida bir holatni guvohi bo'ganman.
Ayol eri bilan har hafta urusharkan, er har safar "taloq" derakan.
Erni tushunchasi bo'yicha birdaniga 3 tani aytmasa yashasa bo'lovrarimish...
Tahminan sanab chiquvdi yuz martadan ko'p chiqti. Shu ahvolda 5 yil yashashipti.
Masalani qiziq tomoni shuki, ayol "sevgisi" ni deb aka uka opa singillaridan voz kechgan.
Taloq bilan qaytay desa yuzi qora, nima qisin, gunohlarga botib yashab yurganakan.
Juda achinarli holat edi. Sevganiz sizdan voz kechishi mumkin, lekin ota ona oq qigan taqdirdayam yuragini bir burchagida mehri bo'ladi...

[cianore]

To'g'risi, savolni birinchi o'qib umuman boshqacha tushinibman chog'i:
Oila - nafaqat ota ona, balki qonuniy turmush o'rtog'ingiz va bo'lsa farzandlar degan ma'noni ham bildiradi.
Sevgi, turmush qurgandan keyin oilaga aloqador bo'lmagan 3-shaxsga nisbatan ham bo'lishi mumkin.

Agar savol shunday qo'yilgan bo'lgandachi?

[Uz_Yasmin]

Hello guys, iam the new member and i recently thought about something which is realted to choosing two dearest thing in ur life,
it is ur family or ur lover , whom would u chose? If love them both, but each of them hate each other.

I don't understand people who ask such ridiculous questions. The so called "lover" of yours is just another stranger whom you happen to like a lot, but your family? They're a part of you. Believe me, love comes and goes. It's bendable, but it's also breakable. Once it breaks, it's impossible to put the pieces together. You family is the only thing you can never replace so be wise, and not stupid.

[krokobazuka]

hey guys thanks for ur response i already made decision and i chose my family. I am not even talking to the guy whom i loved.

[Пушкарева]

nicks messed up?

hey guys thanks for ur response i already made decision and i chose my family. I am not even talking to the guy whom i loved.

[Azamega]

The Way I look at it, I have only 1 pair of parents. and there is no way they can be replaced. There are at least 3 billion girls out there =) Ofcourse Love is something serious. But Family is only One! Cannot be exchanged!

So I would pick my family!

However the trick is, to hold your family on one hand and your love on the other! Who ever can do that, Would be very happy =)

P.S. " Qanday Bolsam Shundoligimcha Sev Sevsang, Sevmasang Toshingni Ter Jonginam!" =) (c) Radius 21

[Lovelylady]

well i don't know i forgot my pasword and i had register again and i think i enter to this site with different person's account i don't how it happened. Anyways Iam sojida and i picked my fmaily and i am really glad that i did that. So i hope no more discussion about it