interacial marriage

[Uzbekgirl]

well..maybe u guys talked abt that before too but i would like to know in detail ..like if anyone married to amerikan woman or man??How ur family reacted to that??r they muslim or ...???

[Masanori]

amerikanec boshizni aylantirib quydimi?

Below u`ll find a lot of interesting and useful info


http://forum.arbuz.com/showthread.php?t=24313

[melo]

well..maybe u guys talked abt that before too but i would like to know in detail ..like if anyone married to amerikan woman or man??How ur family reacted to that??r they muslim or ...???

I married an American. It worked out very well for me. :D

[Frida]

I married an American. It worked out very well for me. :D

:lool: :lool: are you having any problems in your family? i mean language barriers? maybe there are times when you guys do not understand each other because your cultures are so different? :lol:

[melo]

:lool: :lool: are you having any problems in your family? i mean language barriers? maybe there are times when you guys do not understand each other because your cultures are so different? :lol:

Are you making light of my situation? :P

[Prince]

Are you making light of my situation? :P

Melo i have question for you if u dont mind: What is the hardest thing in interracial marriage? And do you think decent, educated american girl would be able to live or [survive in other words] in Wild east? t.e in Uzbekistan? :?

Thank you

p.s i am not joking , i am serious about my question :rolleyes:

pss: I am not planning to take american , just curious ;)

[melo]

Melo i have question for you if u dont mind: What is the hardest thing in interracial marriage? And do you think decent, educated american girl would be able to live or [survive in other words] in Wild east? t.e in Uzbekistan? :?

Thank you

p.s i am not joking , i am serious about my question :rolleyes:

pss: I am not planning to take american , just curious ;)


I don't know anything about interracial marriage. :D I really don't think it depends on what culture people come from, but instead the individuals.

As far as an American girl living in Uzbekistan it depends on the girl so I can't really answer the question. Some girls would like it there.

[wow_kabob]

uzbek hotin busin zur...

amercaniz Girl ferin busa yahshi roq uzbek dan kura

[Prince]

As far as an American girl living in Uzbekistan it depends on the girl so I can't really answer the question. Some girls would like it there.

I had 2 friends so far, who visited Uzbekistan and stayed at my house! They both like it: Why!? I dont know... maybe I am good host... who knows.. they love it... they stayed about 2 weeks, and they had so much fun, we had so much fun! But i still think that American Girl can visit Uzbekistan and travel there on temporary basis... but they cant survive in typical Uzbek family...

p.s Amerikan ortolarim kepti deb Man "ahmo:" 1 ta 1 ta moshina 1 ta 1 ta shopr xar biriga! alohida alohida hona, xar kuni ertalab qaymo, issu non, kechasi Restoran, club.. xar xafta Charvakka trip + samarkand + pamarkand!! Exxxx QATTAN TOPASAN AMERIKOS bunaqa MEXMONDOST XALQNI!? A biza kese betga: Help urself, there is beer in a fridge diydimi!? :rolleyes: ... eee olgirdim silani mexmondostligiladan =)

[SAMARKANDI!]

I married an American. It worked out very well for me. :D

is it working out very well for her too?? :D your marriage is INTRAracial, not Interacial ;)

[wow_kabob]

I had 2 friends so far, who visited Uzbekistan and stayed at my house! They both like it: Why!? I dont know... maybe I am good host... who knows.. they love it... they stayed about 2 weeks, and they had so much fun, we had so much fun! But i still think that American Girl can visit Uzbekistan and travel there on temporary basis... but they cant survive in typical Uzbek family...

p.s Amerikan ortolarim kepti deb Man "ahmo:" 1 ta 1 ta moshina 1 ta 1 ta shopr xar biriga! alohida alohida hona, xar kuni ertalab qaymo, issu non, kechasi Restoran, club.. xar xafta Charvakka trip + samarkand + pamarkand!! Exxxx QATTAN TOPASAN AMERIKOS bunaqa MEXMONDOST XALQNI!? A biza kese betga: Help urself, there is beer in a fridge diydimi!? :rolleyes: ... eee olgirdim silani mexmondostligiladan =)


qachon yana ketvosiz manam siz bilan bella boraman kengi safar Dahshatku (jk)

[melo]

uzbek hotin busin zur...

amercaniz Girl ferin busa yahshi roq uzbek dan kura

Can you be more specific why you feel that way? :rolleyes:

[wow_kabob]

Can you be more specific why you feel that way? :rolleyes:


uzbekchani belasizmi ?

[melo]

uzbekchani belasizmi ?

That's why I replied to your post. I understood enough to wonder why anyone would make a stupid comment like uzbek girls are good for marriage and american girls are good for other things. :rolleyes:

[wow_kabob]

That's why I replied to your post. I understood enough to wonder why anyone would make a stupid comment like uzbek girlsare good for marriage and american girls are good for other things. :rolleyes:


well, that's because i prefer american girl as a gf...they are easy going, much fun to hang out and goof around with. uzbeks on the other hand serious and family oriented ;)

[melo]

well, that's because i prefer american girl as a gf...they are easy going, much fun to hang out and goof around with. uzbeks on the other hand serious and family oriented ;)

So you are saying when you get tired of having fun you will marry an uzbek girl? :shock: :lol:

[wow_kabob]

So you are saying when you get tired of having fun you will marry an uzbek girl? :shock: :lol:

kanishna uzbek qiz boshqacha

amercaniz bu amerkaniz barber

[dauphin]

So you are saying when you get tired of having fun you will marry an uzbek girl? :shock: :lol:

Or you can interpret his words like when he wants just **** around he goes out with an American but before going out with an Uzbek he looks for reasonably arguments in her.

[Izida]

uzbek hotin busin zur...

amercaniz Girl ferin busa yahshi roq uzbek dan kura

Вам не кажеться, что это своего рода дискриминация, причем национальная... Вы своим утверждением можете оскорбить чувства американской девушки, а это грубо. Почему вы считаете, что самые хорошие жены это узбечки ??? По вашему американки или любая европейская девушка не может быть хорошей женой? Чушь и еще раз чушь!!!! Сотни русских мужчин счастливы с русскими женами, миллионы американцы женяться на американках и живут счастливо, тоже самое можно сказать о европейцах... Вы так говорите о американках... А как вы посмотрите на то что европейцы тоже самое скажут о восточных женщинах... Высказываения типа экзотика, надо бы попробовать и т.д. Так вот надо уметь уважать вообще женщину/девушку/девочку независимо от ее национальности и расовой принадлежности. А если вы этого не умеете будьте уверены не видать вам хорошей жены, если даже она будет супер узбечкой!

П.С. Прежде чем требовать уважения, умей уважать сам!

[dauphin]

Вам не кажеться, что это своего рода дискриминация, причем национальная... Вы своим утверждением можете оскорбить чувства американской девушки, а это грубо. Почему вы считаете, что самые хорошие жены это узбечки ??? По вашему американки или любая европейская девушка не может быть хорошей женой? Чушь и еще раз чушь!!!! Сотни русских мужчин счастливы с русскими женами, миллионы американцы женяться на американках и живут счастливо, тоже самое можно сказать о европейцах... Вы так говорите о американках... А как вы посмотрите на то что европейцы тоже самое скажут о восточных женщинах... Высказываения типа экзотика, надо бы попробовать и т.д. Так вот надо уметь уважать вообще женщину/девушку/девочку независимо от ее национальности и расовой принадлежности. А если вы этого не умеете будьте уверены не видать вам хорошей жены, если даже она будет супер узбечкой!

П.С. Прежде чем требовать уважения, умей уважать сам!

WTF? It is not ****ing discrimination, that is his choice. You can't blame someone who prefers pepsi over coke can you? That is the same situation guy thinks Uzbek girls make good wifes. So you can't change his mind or you can't blame him for his preferences. :D

[wow_kabob]

Вам не кажеться, что это своего рода дискриминация, причем национальная... Вы своим утверждением можете оскорбить чувства американской девушки, а это грубо. Почему вы считаете, что самые хорошие жены это узбечки ??? По вашему американки или любая европейская девушка не может быть хорошей женой? Чушь и еще раз чушь!!!! Сотни русских мужчин счастливы с русскими женами, миллионы американцы женяться на американках и живут счастливо, тоже самое можно сказать о европейцах... Вы так говорите о американках... А как вы посмотрите на то что европейцы тоже самое скажут о восточных женщинах... Высказываения типа экзотика, надо бы попробовать и т.д. Так вот надо уметь уважать вообще женщину/девушку/девочку независимо от ее национальности и расовой принадлежности. А если вы этого не умеете будьте уверены не видать вам хорошей жены, если даже она будет супер узбечкой!

П.С. Прежде чем требовать уважения, умей уважать сам!



tell her. that's what I think... u might think otherwise, which is completely fine. Americans are awesome and im not offending anyone im just getting my point across.. I would prefer them to be my gf.... if those people are happy(russians), good for them. they can knock themselves out"


MAN UZBekman

[melo]

WTF? It is not ****ing discrimination, that is his choice. You can't blame someone who prefers pepsi over coke can you? That is the same situation guy thinks Uzbek girls make good wifes. So you can't change his mind or you can't blame him for his preferences. :D

Seriously????? :shock: You are comparing coke with human beings?

[melo]

tell her. that's what I think... u might think otherwise, which is completely fine. Americans are awesome and im not offending anyone im just getting my point across.. I would prefer them to be my gf.... if those people are happy(russians), good for them. they can knock themselves out"


MAN UZBekman

And you tell these girls that they are just for your entertainment and you have no real interest in them? :shock:

[dauphin]

Seriously????? :shock: You are comparing coke with human beings?

You are really stupid or like to act like a stupid. I was comparing preferences not human beings with coke. Can you see the difference?

[wow_kabob]

And you tell these girls that they are just for your entertainment and you have no real interest in them? :shock:



hamma narsani uzini vahti bor

[Izida]

WTF? It is not ****ing discrimination, that is his choice. You can't blame someone who prefers pepsi over coke can you? That is the same situation guy thinks Uzbek girls make good wifes. So you can't change his mind or you can't blame him for his preferences. :D

Yes. But he could tell "I prefer uzbeks as wife" Not americans for GF and etc. :rolleyes:

[Izida]

tell her. that's what I think... u might think otherwise, which is completely fine. Americans are awesome and im not offending anyone im just getting my point across.. I would prefer them to be my gf.... if those people are happy(russians), good for them. they can knock themselves out"


MAN UZBekman

Узбек булсез манга тушунтириб берингчи нима учун узбек киз герлфренд була олмиди, и нимага американ кизи турмуш урток була олмиди ?

[Kolobok]

dauphin and wow_kabob, no offence...but you two need to brush your mouth before posting such insulting messages towards american girls. I'd love to see your reactions had an american said the same thing about uzbek girl.
Disgrace.

[wow_kabob]

well no offense, but that's none of your business... Maybe I will, maybe I won't

[Izida]

не понимаю, почему некоторые люди на земле склонны делать какие то утверждения без каких либо разумных аргументов... ?

[dauphin]

dauphin and wow_kabob, no offence...but you two need to brush your mouth before posting such insulting messages towards american girls. I'd love to see your reactions had an american said the same thing about uzbek girl.
Disgrace.

Kolobok I did not say anything about American girls as a matter of fact I think American girls make good wifes. There are some American girls who are more family oriented than any nation's girls. I know an American girl who is learning Uzbek for her boyfriend. Because, her boyfriend's parents don't speak English at all. She has full time job and goes to school and she is learning Uzbek.

[melo]

My point is I do not understand a relationship that has no chance of marriage. It seems wrong to me, particularly if one person does not know that.

[melo]

Kolobok I did not say anything about American girls as a matter of fact I think American girls make good wifes. There are some American girls who are more family oriented than any nation's girls. I know an American girl who is learning Uzbek for her boyfriend. Because, her boyfriend's parents don't speak English at all. She has full time job and goes to school and she is learning Uzbek.

It's common knowledge that Americans can't learn foreign languages and particularly not Uzbek. :P

[Proserpina]

It's common knowledge that Americans can't learn foreign languages and particularly not Uzbek. :P

Chush' kakkaya, ya znayu americancev kto govorit na uzbeksom luchshe chem ya k primeru. Tak eshyo v pridachu na dialecte gde oni zhili i rabotali v predelah Uzbekistana.:rolleyes:

[Magnolia]

well..maybe u guys talked abt that before too but i would like to know in detail ..like if anyone married to amerikan woman or man??How ur family reacted to that??r they muslim or ...???

ok,so correct me if im wrong but the name of the thread is "interacial marriage",which again if I remember correctly is supposed to be a marriage between two people from different races (caucasian and mongoloid,etc.),but after reading the initial post im confused...since when is being an "american" is considered to be of different race?:D
melo,care to enlighten this student?:lol:

[XXL]

Chush' kakkaya, ya znayu americancev kto govorit na uzbeksom luchshe chem ya k primeru. Tak eshyo v pridachu na dialecte gde oni zhili i rabotali v predelah Uzbekistana.:rolleyes:

chush' koshachya :D


PS: luchshe chem ty? znachit Ty prosto ochen ploho znaesh uzbekskiy, vot i vsyo.


PPS: o'zbemisiz o'zi? offshore taraflarga borvopsiz, den'gy otmyvayesh? (jk) :D

PPPS: mliin, Mne spat nado uje.. :lol:

[benq35]

well..maybe u guys talked abt that before too but i would like to know in detail ..like if anyone married to amerikan woman or man??How ur family reacted to that??r they muslim or ...???
кстати среди Американок очень много нормальных девчонок!
И они готовы соблюдать традиции и обычаи своего супруга.
нельзя из судить и говорить что они другие или не родные, надо просто взять их и научить.

[Proserpina]

chush' koshachya :D


PS: luchshe chem ty? znachit Ty prosto ochen ploho znaesh uzbekskiy, vot i vsyo.
PPS: o'zbemisiz o'zi? offshore taraflarga borvopsiz, den'gy otmyvayesh? (jk) :D

PPPS: mliin, Mne spat nado uje.. :lol:

Ochen logichno Mr. Extra Extra Large smarty - pants

[XXL]

Ochen logichno Mr. Extra Extra L:cool:rge smarty - pants

smarty-pants?
hahaaa :D prikoll...

i smilik toje v takoye mesto postavili :lol:...

PS: kak dela? :D

PPS: takoy nik esho PROSERPINA!!, boshqasi qurib ketiptimi?(jk) :lol:

[melo]

ok,so correct me if im wrong but the name of the thread is "interacial marriage",which again if I remember correctly is supposed to be a marriage between two people from different races (caucasian and mongoloid,etc.),but after reading the initial post im confused...since when is being an "american" is considered to be of different race?:D
melo,care to enlighten this student?:lol:


like if anyone married to amerikan woman or man??

This is what she asked and I answered. :P Please quit causing trouble and stay on topic! :lol:

[Magnolia]

This is what she asked and I answered. :P Please quit causing trouble and stay on topic! :lol:
Thats exactly my point!:lol:
so far im the only one who noticed the real name of the thread :twisted:

[Uzbekgirl]

ok,so correct me if im wrong but the name of the thread is "interacial marriage",which again if I remember correctly is supposed to be a marriage between two people from different races (caucasian and mongoloid,etc.),but after reading the initial post im confused...since when is being an "american" is considered to be of different race?:D
melo,care to enlighten this student?:lol:
well...i applogize if i wasnt clear abt that ..first of all i mean any race but in my case I am uzbek which is asian and he is caucasian ...thanks for ur time

[Uzbekgirl]

I married an American. It worked out very well for me. :D
I am happy for u ...i hope ur family was ok too...

[uzbek1991]

well..maybe u guys talked abt that before too but i would like to know in detail ..like if anyone married to amerikan woman or man??How ur family reacted to that??r they muslim or ...???
I don't really confess any differences like race, religion, language etc. If I love, nothing can stop me. For your information, everybody understands LOVE in their own way. In mine it's a very huge and enormous feeling which validates my entire life. And I don't wanna be killing myself for these kind of problems. If you love in a way I do, don't think about your relatives, parents. In any ways, they cannot live the life you live in. Don't harm yourself. Don't bury yourself while you are alive. If you love her/him and she/he loves you, then you two will always be ready to solve ethnic problems. So, Uzbekgirl, my advice is: don't worry. If you really love him then you musn't have any fear about your marriage. But make sure that he also really loves you. Wish you the BEST!

[Uzbekgirl]

amerikanec boshizni aylantirib quydimi?

Below u`ll find a lot of interesting and useful info


http://forum.arbuz.com/showthread.php?t=24313
amerikanets boshimni aylantirmadi ..we just have mutual understanding and enjoy each other;s company n yes we do love each other...
thannks for the thread u sent i read it after i posted mine...

[Uzbekgirl]

well thanks for everyone who took their time and reply here but none of u guys shared any experince ...maybe nobody had any ..i was wanting to know how ur family reacted if u r the one married to cacasian or black or german who doesnt speak uzbek and nonmuslim....
thanks again...

[Shambles]

well thanks for everyone who took their time and reply here but none of u guys shared any experince ...maybe nobody had any ..i was wanting to know how ur family reacted if u r the one married to cacasian or black or german who doesnt speak uzbek and nonmuslim....
thanks again...

My mom would say: "That's a bad choice!!! She should have been Uzbek"

My dad would say: "If you're happy, I'm happy too!!!":D

[Magnolia]

well...i applogize if i wasnt clear abt that ..first of all i mean any race but in my case I am uzbek which is asian and he is caucasian ...thanks for ur time
Unless you are from China,Japan,etc. you can't call yourself Asian :)
Central Asia is part of caucasian group.

Here are countries (shaded various colors of green) that are considered to be in "Asian" (technically Mongoloid race)

http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/thumb/e/ef/LocationEastAsia.PNG/800px-LocationEastAsia.PNG

[uzbekcfa2]

very smart! now i dont understand why western media made fun of nursultan nazarbaev when he said "kazakhs are not asians, they are europeans'. kazakhs and kirgiz people - caucasians. a new scientific discovery!

Unless you are from China,Japan,etc. you can't call yourself Asian :)
Central Asia is part of caucasian group.

Here are countries (shaded various colors of green) that are considered to be in "Asian" (technically Mongoloid race)

http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/thumb/e/ef/LocationEastAsia.PNG/800px-LocationEastAsia.PNG

[PainKiller]

Common, those labelings don't work, especially with Uzbeks and Central Asians. Uzbeks come in all different shades, colors and shapes. Some uzbeks definately do not fall into "Oriental" or "Asian" group. Eurasian would be a better term, since a lot of uzbeks carry both European, and Asian features. I have the hardest time explaining who I am. I say Asian, people laugh. I just say "I am very diverse".

[Frida]

Common, those labelings don't work, especially with Uzbeks and Central Asians. Uzbeks come in all different shades, colors and shapes. Some uzbeks definately do not fall into "Oriental" or "Asian" group. Eurasian would be a better term, since a lot of uzbeks carry both European, and Asian features. I have the hardest time explaining who I am. I say Asian, people laugh. I just say "I am very diverse".

i understand that, when i was getting the my ssn, a person was like "no, you are definitely not Asian, asians are chinese", however at the same time, you cannot basically say we are "europeans". it is not true. i agree eurasian would be the best term. but yet again...... its way confusing. and i am sleepy. and its off topic. :D painkiller, you seem to be the only one around. wish me luck i have an exam tomorrow. :)

[PainKiller]

i understand that, when i was getting the my ssn, a person was like "no, you are definitely not Asian, asians are chinese", however at the same time, you cannot basically say we are "europeans". it is not true. i agree eurasian would be the best term. but yet again...... its way confusing. and i am sleepy. and its off topic. :D painkiller, you seem to be the only one around. wish me luck i have an exam tomorrow. :)
I wish you best of luck. Yet I believe in effort and achievement, and if you did your part, you will definately do well tomorrow.

[VatanparvaR]

Goode luck, Salma :)

[dauphin]

Unless you are from China,Japan,etc. you can't call yourself Asian :)


you can call yourself anything you want as long as you are not offending anyone else. As a matter of fact no one has right to tell you what race you belong to unless that person is yourself. :D

[Demir Kağan]

No matter what, we all are Turkistanis. :lol:

[Uzbekgirl]

I don't really confess any differences like race, religion, language etc. If I love, nothing can stop me. For your information, everybody understands LOVE in their own way. In mine it's a very huge and enormous feeling which validates my entire life. And I don't wanna be killing myself for these kind of problems. If you love in a way I do, don't think about your relatives, parents. In any ways, they cannot live the life you live in. Don't harm yourself. Don't bury yourself while you are alive. If you love her/him and she/he loves you, then you two will always be ready to solve ethnic problems. So, Uzbekgirl, my advice is: don't worry. If you really love him then you musn't have any fear about your marriage. But make sure that he also really loves you. Wish you the BEST!
Thanks ..i apreceite ...:)

[Adam & Eva]

well..maybe u guys talked abt that before too but i would like to know in detail ..like if anyone married to amerikan woman or man??How ur family reacted to that??r they muslim or ...???

i didnot know marriage with an american will be considered "interracial"marriage.

anyways, good luck

[Uzbekgirl]

i didnot know marriage with an american will be considered "interracial"marriage.

anyways, good luck
i did made clear that i mean interacial marriage betweeen 2 race..like caucasian and uzbek ....thanks for ur time
peace

[uzbekcfa2]

uzbek is a race! :D

thanks for enlightening, otherwise we would never know that and always suffer from being arrogant and illitirate.:twisted:

Uzbekgirl, do the right thing. dont do the wrong thing. That's all i can say.:D sorry for too "meaningful" and "hard-to-get" advice.:D

[Magnolia]

i did made clear that i mean interacial marriage betweeen 2 race..like caucasian and uzbek ....thanks for ur time
peace
у меня нет слов!:D
лишь одни эмоции...

[Magnolia]

very smart! now i dont understand why western media made fun of nursultan nazarbaev when he said "kazakhs are not asians, they are europeans'. kazakhs and kirgiz people - caucasians. a new scientific discovery!
sorry but seeing that im not from western media,I think Uzland will be better suited for this kind of question ;)

[odish]

well..maybe u guys talked abt that before too but i would like to know in detail ..like if anyone married to amerikan woman or man??How ur family reacted to that??r they muslim or ...???

i tink 1 or 2 users answered ur question correctly !!!
Especially Shambles...

Originally Posted by Shambles http://forum.arbuz.com/images/buttons/viewpost.gif (http://forum.arbuz.com/showthread.php?p=960795#post960795)
My mom would say: "That's a bad choice!!! She should have been Uzbek"

My dad would say: "If you're happy, I'm happy too!!!":D


Uzbekgirl u want 2nou what.s the parents reaction on that situation, don.t u ..
i tink most uzbek parents (as well as mine) against this kind of marrige ,
they say defenitely "no" especially 4girls,, bcs of religion, culture , language differences...

P.s. o'zbeklarda bilasizu qiz chiqargandami yoki o'g'il uylantirgandami etti avlodigacha surishtirishadi agar ilojisi bo'lsa..
P.ss. o'zizi oilangizdagilar fikri qanaqa agar sir bo'masa ???

[Zvyozdochka]

I would like to answer many questions here. Uzbek guys like americans as a gf, because they think that us girls r more easy, they can just sleep around with them and leave later, without taking any responsibilty, which I think is a SHAME to the name MAN.
Second they like Uzbek girls for marriage because uzbek girl will never leave them after serious relationship, thay will have to marry, and pure our uzbek girls r more liklely to obey their stupid rules and humiliation. And moreover, our uzbek "MAN" can sleep around as much as they want but when they marry they want a virgin. It is so obvious, they say " I HAVE THIS RIGHT, MY WIFE MUST BE A VIRGIN." But if we could just check our men before marriage I think nobody would marry them, after all their one-night-relationships.
This kind of men are black mark on the name MAN.

[SAMARKANDI!]

I would like to answer many questions here. Uzbek guys like americans as a gf, because they think that us girls r more easy, they can just sleep around with them and leave later, without taking any responsibilty, which I think is a SHAME to the name MAN.
Second they like Uzbek girls for marriage because uzbek girl will never leave them after serious relationship, thay will have to marry, and pure our uzbek girls r more liklely to obey their stupid rules and humiliation. And moreover, our uzbek "MAN" can sleep around as much as they want but when they marry they want a virgin. It is so obvious, they say " I HAVE THIS RIGHT, MY WIFE MUST BE A VIRGIN." But if we could just check our men before marriage I think nobody would marry them, after all their one-night-relationships.
This kind of men are black mark on the name MAN.

Most of what u said is right but I would like make small correction or a remark if u will, to what I have highlighted above. Uzbek girls are also changing, they are also having serious relationships and leaving (without marrying, especially outside of Uzb) like uzbek guys nowadays.

[Princess Z]

Ok, guys. I can tell you for sure if there is a mutual interest, respect and feelings which calls "love" everything works out well!!!! Me and my b/f (who is an american) don't have any problems, being together for an year we had a small issue just about the jealousy. Nothing else bothers him or me. We have a diffrent culture, religion, language so what? I respect his background as well as he does mine - this is important thing here to respect each other and accept each other the way we are.

[Ma'ruf]

Ok, guys. I can tell you for sure if there is a mutual interest, respect and feelings which calls "love" everything works out well!!!! Me and my b/f (who is an american) don't have any problems, being together for an year we had a small issue just about the jealousy. Nothing else bothers him or me. We have a diffrent culture, religion, language so what? I respect his background as well as he does mine - this is important thing here to respect each other and accept each other the way we are.

Ya rad chto u vas s vashim parnem vse horosho i vi' schastlivi.Ne primite moi slova za grubost'.No razlichiye v religii,mentalitete i yazike ochen' aktual'ni i vazhni dlya Uzbechek iz tradicionnih semey.Gde principi religii,obi'chai cenyatsya i real'no po etim ponyatiyam zhivut.Ya ne hochu ocenivat' i sudit' o cheloveke po ego postingam na forume...No kak ya ponyal vi' dovol'no ''obrusevshaya'' Uzbechka,da?Kogda ya govoryu ''obrusevshaya'' ya predpologayu chto v sem'ye vi razgovarivayeteo na russkom,hotya mozhet bit' znaete i uzbekskiy.Prosto vam tak komfortneye.Religiya dlya vas ne bi'la problemoy i v samom Uzbekistane, ne tak li?To est' ya hochu skazat' chto zhivya v Uzbekistane u vas uzhe bi'l obraz zhizni soobrazni'y zapadnomu i lyudam vospitanni'm v takoy atmosfere, legche uzhitsya s zapadni'mi lyud'mi(Amerikanci,Yevropeyci).Potomuchto u vas cennosti i vzglyadi' na zhizn' ochen' pohozhi,iznachal'no.Da navernoye po passportu vi' Uzbechka,po rozhdeniyu musul'manka no...soglasites' v vas etogo dovol'no malo ostalos'.

Ya ni v koe mere ne osuzhdayu i ne kritikuyu vash obraz zhizni.Kazhdi'y volen vibi'rat' svoy put'.I ''tradicionnaya'' Uzbechka ne znachit luchshe ''obrusevshey'' ili naooborot.Prosoto hotel pokazat' eti razlichiya...i skazat' chto esli dlya vas eto ne eproblema to drugim eto mozhet sil'no isportit' zhizn'.

P.S.Mlin,seychas vot smotryu i kazhetsya chto posting kakoyto too personal poluchlsya.Esli schitayete eto ne pro vas...to prosto v ignor.:)

[Ma'ruf]

I would like to answer many questions here. Uzbek guys like americans as a gf, because they think that us girls r more easy, they can just sleep around with them and leave later, without taking any responsibilty, which I think is a SHAME to the name MAN.
Second they like Uzbek girls for marriage because uzbek girl will never leave them after serious relationship, thay will have to marry, and pure our uzbek girls r more liklely to obey their stupid rules and humiliation. And moreover, our uzbek "MAN" can sleep around as much as they want but when they marry they want a virgin. It is so obvious, they say " I HAVE THIS RIGHT, MY WIFE MUST BE A VIRGIN." But if we could just check our men before marriage I think nobody would marry them, after all their one-night-relationships.
This kind of men are black mark on the name MAN.

Haa ko'ryapmiz O'zbek qizlariniyam...Dubai,Olma-Ota,Malayziya,Korea va hatto Hindistondagi turistik orollarni hammasini ''gullatyapsizlar''.Ular sizlardan,minnatdor!;)

Koroche,naciya dostoynih drug druga ''muzhchin'' i ''zhenshin'' eshe v dobavok s dostoyni'm etih lyudey prezidentom.O'hshatmasa,uchratmas deydilarku.

[Princess Z]

Ya rad chto u vas s vashim parnem vse horosho i vi' schastlivi.Ne primite moi slova za grubost'.No razlichiye v religii,mentalitete i yazike ochen' aktual'ni i vazhni dlya Uzbechek iz tradicionnih semey.Gde principi religii,obi'chai cenyatsya i real'no po etim ponyatiyam zhivut.Ya ne hochu ocenivat' i sudit' o cheloveke po ego postingam na forume...No kak ya ponyal vi' dovol'no ''obrusevshaya'' Uzbechka,da?Kogda ya govoryu ''obrusevshaya'' ya predpologayu chto v sem'ye vi razgovarivayeteo na russkom,hotya mozhet bit' znaete i uzbekskiy.Prosto vam tak komfortneye.Religiya dlya vas ne bi'la problemoy i v samom Uzbekistane, ne tak li?To est' ya hochu skazat' chto zhivya v Uzbekistane u vas uzhe bi'l obraz zhizni soobrazni'y zapadnomu i lyudam vospitanni'm v takoy atmosfere, legche uzhitsya s zapadni'mi lyud'mi(Amerikanci,Yevropeyci).Potomuchto u vas cennosti i vzglyadi' na zhizn' ochen' pohozhi,iznachal'no.Da navernoye po passportu vi' Uzbechka,po rozhdeniyu musul'manka no...soglasites' v vas etogo dovol'no malo ostalos'.

Ya ni v koe mere ne osuzhdayu i ne kritikuyu vash obraz zhizni.Kazhdi'y volen vibi'rat' svoy put'.I ''tradicionnaya'' Uzbechka ne znachit luchshe ''obrusevshey'' ili naooborot.Prosoto hotel pokazat' eti razlichiya...i skazat' chto esli dlya vas eto ne eproblema to drugim eto mozhet sil'no isportit' zhizn'.

P.S.Mlin,seychas vot smotryu i kazhetsya chto posting kakoyto too personal poluchlsya.Esli schitayete eto ne pro vas...to prosto v ignor.:)

Molodoy chelovek, vi absolyutno pravi, semya nasha originalno uzbekskaya, no virosli mi v demokraticheskom duhe, doma govorim mi i na russkom i na uzbekskom, vsegda ya nahodilas v russkoyazichnoy srede (shkola, Universitet, rabota) absolyutno net nikakoy raznici. No vse je ya yavlyayus grajdankoy Uzbekistana i soblyudayu musul'manskie poryadki i zakoni. Roditeli moi nikogda ne stavili mne usloviya vibora moego budushego muja, tak uj oni menya virastili, chto golova na plechah stoit dostatochno krepko i v pomoshi vibora drugih ludey ya ne nujdayus. Ya chustvuyu sebya s moim molodim chelovekom ochen komfortno, a esli bi na samom dele, religiya, kultura, mentallitet stoyali kak prepyatstvie nashih otnosheniy, to eto tvoy vibor...ili meris ili je vibiray i ishi drugogo cheloveka blizko tebe po vsem parametram. Soglasna, eto redkie sluchai, kogda pari raznih kultur mogut ponimat drug-druga...Ti nikogda ne znaesh, kogo ti vstretish zavtra, cheloveka absolyutno protivopolojnogo tvoemu standartu i duhu. Ya prosto hochu skazat, te dlya kogo "inostranniy brak" bolshaya pregrada i problema v sem'e, pust ishut sredi svoih...v chem problema? :)

[Dilya87]

hey uzbek girl... my cousins married non uzbeks... they r still together and happy ...no one was against their marriage... my family actually loves their husbands... in some ways its better than having uzbek wife beater...( im not saying that they all hit women)
wish u da best!!!!

[Ma'ruf]

hey uzbek girl... my cousins married non uzbeks... they r still together and happy ...no one was against their marriage... my family actually loves their husbands... in some ways its better than having uzbek wife beater...( im not saying that they all hit women)
wish u da best!!!!

Shu stereotip qaerdan,olingan?O'zbeklarda ayol kishini urish jaa unaqa urf emasku...Man hayotimda kam uchratkanman hotinini uradigan O'zbek yigitlarini..:rolleyes:O'zbeklar hotinini urmaydi emasku...lekin boshqalarga nisbatan ko'p emas, manimcha.Dinimizdayam,bu narsa qoralanadi.

[Dilya87]

Ma'ruf:
hammasi demadim shekilli nu bir hillari ...uzbekistonda koshnilarim esimda bechora kenoyilar...lekin ammo birok bitta qoshnim erini urardi =)

[Uz_Yasmin]

Ma'ruf:
hammasi demadim shekilli nu bir hillari ...uzbekistonda koshnilarim esimda bechora kenoyilar...lekin ammo birok bitta qoshnim erini urardi =)

:shock:

:lool:

[MUHLIS]

Shu stereotip qaerdan,olingan?O'zbeklarda ayol kishini urish jaa unaqa urf emasku...Man hayotimda kam uchratkanman hotinini uradigan O'zbek yigitlarini..:rolleyes:O'zbeklar hotinini urmaydi emasku...lekin boshqalarga nisbatan ko'p emas, manimcha.Dinimizdayam,bu narsa qoralanadi.

Wall Mart da yurganda tez-tez "fingalli" yoki "qora ko'zoynakli" xotinlar uchrab turadi. :lool:

[sakura]

Ok, guys. I can tell you for sure if there is a mutual interest, respect and feelings which calls "love" everything works out well!!!! Me and my b/f (who is an american) don't have any problems, being together for an year we had a small issue just about the jealousy. Nothing else bothers him or me. We have a diffrent culture, religion, language so what? I respect his background as well as he does mine - this is important thing here to respect each other and accept each other the way we are.

hey uzbek girl... my cousins married non uzbeks... they r still together and happy ...no one was against their marriage... my family actually loves their husbands... in some ways its better than having uzbek wife beater...( im not saying that they all hit women)
wish u da best!!!!

I'm also in an interacial rerelationship. So, I'm happy to hear that:D

[uzbekcfa2]

I'm also in an interacial rerelationship. So, I'm happy to hear that:D


you are happy because you heard that there are uzbek guys who beat their wives?

ehh girls, girls...:)

[Unique]

you are happy because you heard that there are uzbek guys who beat their wives?

ehh girls, girls...:)

lol, this statement makes my day after taking a stupid test :D

[Princess Z]

you are happy because you heard that there are uzbek guys who beat their wives?

ehh girls, girls...:)


Ehh guys, guys...and you are just getting to be jealousy :P

[uzbekcfa2]

Ehh guys, guys...and you are just getting to be jealousy :P

no im not jealous. i just read the post and stated my opinion. ;)

[KeSha]

I was in this kinda relationship. And I can tell ya. It's sucks!!!
I would love to have more than interracial marriage. Have one real one close to me :)